Very small and very sad

[u.r.what.u.is]

You can say that again in regards to the porn thing. I enjoy porn a lot. I would love to enjoy it with my gf and actually feel comfortable in my own skin. I understand porn isn't helping at all but I really want to be able to fully let go because porn is very entertaining. If I could actually act out my fantasies with my gf I would stop watching but as it stands I'm not doing half of the disgusting shit I like. Lol prob cause it's not normal.

There's nothing I like in porn that my GF won't do. Er, except perhaps for getting another girl into bed with us. She's a fantastic lover, and I'm lucky as hell. What I'm really experiencing in bed with her is the UNITY that sex can bring. I feel so close and so in love with her while I'm penetrating. The trouble with porn is, I'm used to my mind wandering in a thousand directions. Like, the getting another girl business. When I watch porn, I'm imagining all the women in my office, all my sisters-in-law, etc...you get the picture...very naughty and very indiscriminate. I can miss the full excitement of the reality in exchange for some self-centered fantasy. I really need to stay away from it now.

[Jessie]

I listened to this all the way through- I have watched this a few times and it still hurts...

3 women who are trying to be nice but still come up with...

"my husband is very small- under 7 inches"

"if hes rocking 6 thats a bad situation... I couldnt go that small..."

"what ever way you cut it, it will come out he is small"

"they dont wanna read about a guy with a small penis" (on 50 shades)

"most women want a bigger one"

"I know 6 inches sounds small"

"if hes small you just walk on out"

"hes gotta have somethin to work with"

"girls lie... sayin it doesnt matter"

"8 is good, 10 or 11 is great"

"girls talk about size but not in public"

"you gotta be satisfied"

[EternalDarkness]

Jessie, I'm every bit as pessimistic as you are, but there is NO way that any of these women have experienced an 11-inch penis. A properly-measured eight is massive; 11 is an injury waiting to happen.

Despite what statistics say, I believe the average female IQ is notably lower than the average male.

[Jessie]

Tracey Cox, uk sexologist (her real name) says for black guys 8inches is average.

And listening to black girls over the years (im on london) then 10 or 11 is the phrase they used too.

I have seen some IR porn- of course 10 or 11 is common place there.

And one of them was saying she likes 6.5-8 which is the lower end of average for black guys

(although one survey did put 7.2 as the black average- which puts her at avergae preference)

[Jeep]

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[EternalDarkness]

Tracey Cox, uk sexologist (her real name) says for black guys 8inches is average.

And listening to black girls over the years (im on london) then 10 or 11 is the phrase they used too.

I have seen some IR porn- of course 10 or 11 is common place there.

And one of them was saying she likes 6.5-8 which is the lower end of average for black guys

(although one survey did put 7.2 as the black average- which puts her at avergae preference)

You're forgetting that numbers are not women's forte (or anything requiring intellect for that matter).

I really couldn't care less what some stupid twat "sexologist" says, a properly measured (properly being the operative word) eight inches is considerably above average, regardless of race.

ELEVEN inches Jessie? C'mon man, that's ridiculous. Unless you're measuring from your ass, 11 inches is a fairy-tale.

Again, I'm not trying to paint a rosey picture here, but some (most) women are fucking retarded.

[Perseverance]

You're forgetting that numbers are not women's forte (or anything requiring intellect for that matter).

I really couldn't care less what some stupid twat "sexologist" says, a properly measured (properly being the operative word) eight inches is considerably above average, regardless of race.

ELEVEN inches Jessie? C'mon man, that's ridiculous. Unless you're measuring from your ass, 11 inches is a fairy-tale.

Again, I'm not trying to paint a rosey picture here, but some (most) women are fucking retarded.

I'll second that. I've seen all my friends dicks (no homo) and only one was big maybe 7-8 the rest are different thicknesses of 5-6 which is the majority of men. Most women have no clue what measures out to what. In reality having a 6 inch and somewhat girthy penis is ideal for women.

[u.r.what.u.is]

I don't think too many women even think about or discuss penis size like in that stupid discussion Jessie posted. My size has been a non-issue for the women I have been with, and yes, I was surprised. But this is why I am no longer concerned about any of the buzz that goes around.

[Perseverance]

I don't think too many women even think about or discuss penis size like in that stupid discussion Jessie posted. My size has been a non-issue for the women I have been with, and yes, I was surprised. But this is why I am no longer concerned about any of the buzz that goes around.

Jessie routinely scours the internet for this shit. I never watch any of the videos. It's absolutely pointless. Its like a paralyzed person watching videos on how amazing it is to walk. Just torturing yourself.

If you really really want a big penis I think the only option is to find a guy with a big penis and have sex with him. Either that or go 110% in all other areas in your life to improve yourself. Meet a girl, tell her your dick is small and you hope it's not a problem. If it's a problem move onto the next one. When people make penis jokes stick up for yourself or people in general if you are able to. What's left? Spinning in circles and never really accomplish anything. Or you can sit online and wither away.

[u.r.what.u.is]

I agree with you. Regarding jokes, I now find some of them mildly amusing in that most small and averages sized guys share some desire to enlarge. But I don't feel bummed out anymore because of the actual experience I have had. If I didn't have a serious GF at the moment and was looking around, I would approach the next woman with the expectation that she will be satisfied. If she isn't, then I will look for another. Granted, I have pathetically little sexual experience for someone my age, but I am 3 for 3 with partners enjoying my body. This year has seen a total adjustment of my mind that no rejection is going to erase.

[Perseverance]

I agree with you. Regarding jokes, I now find some of them mildly amusing in that most small and averages sized guys share some desire to enlarge. But I don't feel bummed out anymore because of the actual experience I have had. If I didn't have a serious GF at the moment and was looking around, I would approach the next woman with the expectation that she will be satisfied. If she isn't, then I will look for another. Granted, I have pathetically little sexual experience for someone my age, but I am 3 for 3 with partners enjoying my body. This year has seen a total adjustment of my mind that no rejection is going to erase.

That's good. Very happy for you that you can move on. The jokes are annoying at best. I mean, someone tells a joke, I fake laugh and shrug it off.

But.. When I confided in my gf my past troubles and worries with this I would have thought it could have made her more considerate. Instead I have my gf and and crowd of people laughing at the small dick joke. She could have just punched me in the throat, it would have felt the same.

I couldn't imagine someone making a joke about something that I know she has medically going on with her that she can't change that I would laugh at. Boggles my mind.

She might think the joke is funny but I'm not going to laugh and risk hurting her feelings, even if it's humorous. I say you can laugh at anything because everything is funny. That's how comedy works.

Oh god that hurt. Hurt pretty fuckin bad.

Unexpected rant over.

[u.r.what.u.is]

A girlfriend joining in the laughter when she knows your sensitivity is another matter. As confident as I sound in my posts here, there is always a little apprehension in my own mind too...I mean, it's obvious to me that most fellas I see have more meat in their boxers than I do...it's visible with clothes on...and years of worry about this has made me a skilled straight, discreet checker of guy-bulges. Anyway, I really don't look at those guys as something "other" any more. I'm in the game now.

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[spitfire101]

In my opinion, growing up with a sp is one of the worst human experiences- not only does the whole world show that it hates you but you're encouraged to hate yourself and others like you. These lessons come from everywhere- even the noblest of people show you that you're a pathetic worthless joke. For a child with a sp, there are no icons, no help, no reason to exist, only suffering and humilation and eventually that spills over into your life and destroys everything you love, even your very soul.

Anyway.

I'm well over this issue as well and it's good to see some people here, finally, that are too. Small penis stuff doesn't bother me anymore at all, not even the humour. Literally half killed myself mentally and physically getting to this point, for many reasons, but I can finally say: I don't give a fuck.

　

You said it perfectly, it is definitely one of the worst human experiences. Sounds like you overcame it though so well done. I am trying to pull myself back from a dark edge that seems to center on this issue, but past experience tells me I will fail. Unfortunately I lost so much time being consumed that I have no idea were to start making up for lost time and is more overwhelming itself than having a small penis making me regret not getting over it long ago.

[u.r.what.u.is]

MissedTheStop, I'm curious about your journey to this point of "freedom". For me, years of trying to convince myself that this was not an issue, coupled with some limited confiding in others only got me so far. My breakthrough came from finding this site, coupled with my divorce and subsequent searches for female companionship, which has gone better than I ever dreamed. Part of my success was from reading this forum and being convinced that I should not start off apologetically. I have just pretended like I have no clue I'm less than average, and my encounters have been a blast.

[u.r.what.u.is]

I want to add that I think many people are lonely to some degree, and finding a good lover is a joy for most women, even if he's got a small one - or thinks he does. I don't believe most women, at my age, anyway, lie at home dreaming of a big cock - they dream of a good lover, a good man. The way women have made love to me this year seems to bear this out.

[Perseverance]

I want to add that I think many people are lonely to some degree, and finding a good lover is a joy for most women, even if he's got a small one - or thinks he does. I don't believe most women, at my age, anyway, lie at home dreaming of a big cock - they dream of a good lover, a good man. The way women have made love to me this year seems to bear this out.

Completely agree. That's what they want but it seems that some women would say that a bigger than average penis is a plus, but not necessary in the relationship. That's the killer. I have to get over the fact other men have undoubtedly fucked my GF better than I ever will. An extremely tough pill to swallow, in fact I might have to chop it up into several thousands of pieces and swallow them every day little by little. Lol.

What's extremely important to me is not very important to her. I'd like to say I'm somewhat close to where you guys are but I'm light years away from where I was. Jut trying to get 1% better everyday. Eventually I'll get there.

[Jessie]

Article from Shecky site:

Somebody who was probably Candace Bushnell once said it’s not how big it is, it’s how you use it. But if you’ve ever gone from dating a well-endowed dude to a guy with a much smaller package, you might be quick to dash that idea. You know in this case, it isn’t always true. So what do you do when you’re already really into the guy who’s not so well-hung? One Shecky’s reader dished on her situation, asking for suggestions from ladies who have been there. Be sure and leave your advice in the comments. What would you do?

“I met and started dating my boyfriend of 4 years when I was 25. We had a strong connection from the beginning, and when I discovered he had a smaller penis, it didn’t matter to me. It was big enough – about 4 1/2 inches instead of the standard 6 or 7″ I’d had before – and he was able to satisfy me. We had a decent sex life for two years. We would try new things and use toys occasionally, and then I took a job in another state and we broke up. That’s when I started dating someone new. Let’s call him “Jared.” Jared had a large penis – he was a very well endowed, tall drink of water type. We had amazing sex – better than I ever had with my ex. I felt satisfied in ways I’d completely forgotten.

Unfortunately, my job was a temporary gig, just for a year, so I had to break up with Jared and move back home. I got back with my ex about two months after getting back, and I have been with him ever since then. We have had sex, but it is just not the same. I feel terrible, and I don’t know what to tell him. It’s really frustrating for me that I dread the thought of having sex with him, knowing I’ll have to fake orgasm. I really want to break up, but he’s a good person, I do love him, and I’m afraid “your penis is too small” is not a good enough reason to part ways. I’m afraid I’d be making a big mistake. I don’t know what to do, but I have to do something.”

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This is whats happened to me alas.... I don't think I will ever be 'free'.... I know I should be able to get over it... but its so sickening... to be so.... inadequate ... its just so embarrassing and debilitating...

[Jessie]

A husband is accused of killing his wife after she taunted him about his small manhood and bed-wetting.

John Clinton knifed Paula, 48, his partner of 24 years, four times before trying to cut his own throat, Liverpool crown court heard.

The 52-year-old had drunk 10 pints in his local pub when he came home and found the 48-year-old on the phone discussing divorce.

The court heard that as Mrs Clinton was on the phone to the Citizens Advice Bureau, the furious husband stabbed her body, hands, and left eye.

The mother-of-two was next seen staggering down the street bleeding heavily before collapsing in Aintree, Liverpool, on November 28, last year.

Ian Unsworth, QC, prosecuting, said: “It is apparent that the marriage was in some difficulties in the days leading up to her death and on the day itself.

“Paula was seeking advice as to divorce and the financial arrangements which would follow.

“According to things she said to others the reason she sought a divorce arose largely out of the defendant’s drinking, culminating with an incident in October when he was stopped by the police as he was driving his vehicle and had drunk in excess of the legal limit.

“That seems to have been the last straw so far as she was concerned.”

When armed officers arrived at the scene of the killing, they found Clinton had slashed his wrists and neck in a “serious attempt” to kill himself.

Blood was daubed over a set of papers marked “ending a marriage,” Mr Unsworth said.

Clinton admits manslaughter, but denies murder, claiming he ‘just lost it.’

And he told detectives he was pushed over the edge by Mrs Clinton “galling him”, asking who would look after him with his bed-wetting and small manhood.

Mr Unsworth said that Clinton had threatened his wife with a knife a few weeks before her death and that “in drink he had become a bully and a dangerous one at that”.

The trial continues.

Check out all the latest News, Sport & Celeb gossip at Mirror.co.uk

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[Perseverance]

Jessie the broken record video and article digger, try and support and not fill this forum with poison.

[Wastedlife]

Jessie the broken record video and article digger, try and support and not fill this forum with poison.

You can support all you want that still don’t change the fact we have small useless penis...this forum is for everyone not just people who want to live in ignorance. There are consequences to having a small penis in this world, of which none are positive. Most people come here to vent so dont bash them for it because this is one of very few places they can do this and be understood where they are coming from.

[malign]

But copying and pasting the garbage is not venting about the garbage. It's spreading it.

I very much want to hear Jessie's reaction to what he reads. I don't want to hear the original; that's like him saying he supports and encourages such posts, and worse yet, repeating it here is the same as saying that I, as site owner, support it, and I don't.

I support support; not ignorance and not the repetition of the stuff people came here to get support for, in the first place.

In future, I will be trimming out the quotes of original material unless it's directly related to something the poster wants to say.