Victimorthecrime Posted December 23, 2013 Report Share Posted December 23, 2013 As for the usa I think Karen Owen summed up the situation in all too graphic detail. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted December 23, 2013 Report Share Posted December 23, 2013 I read the Karen Owen Fuck List Power Point and it falls in line w exactly what I have said many times that yes young gals just looking for hook ups often express a preference for larger than average size but this is not the situation w all women. A average or statistically smaller than average sized penis does not exclude a man from romance because 1) not all women care and 2) even for those that do there are a million ways for a loving couple to find sexual pleasure. Just trying bring some context, my friend. Cheers! Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted December 23, 2013 Report Share Posted December 23, 2013 Perhaps he cheated on her because he felt "put up with", instead of loved. In other words, she may have brought her problems on herself and he may have had the courage not to agree to put up with her. Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted December 23, 2013 Report Share Posted December 23, 2013 could be… her friends didn't seem to think too highly of her… and said she was hypocritical as she had cheated herself several times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted December 24, 2013 Report Share Posted December 24, 2013 Body positivity is bs, and makes me feel worse. I know this from experience of self love, body positivity practice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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semikka Posted December 24, 2013 Report Share Posted December 24, 2013 Yeh I hate all this "love yourself" cliche b.s. also. So many people nowadays are like "be secure with yourself and you'll be fine" NO!! that's great in an ideal world but lets face it we live in a shallow world and you need some things just to get by without being hurt someway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Victimorthecrime Posted December 24, 2013 Report Share Posted December 24, 2013 I'm in the ''love yourself" crowd because it can inoculate you against all the negativity and because people pick up on how you feel about yourself & treat you accordingly. But hey that's just me, whatever works! Jeep 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wutty3 Posted December 24, 2013 Report Share Posted December 24, 2013 Unicorn Turds and Butterfly Farts...All of it. I love being cheated on for being "sexually incompatible" (politically correct jargon for small penis) It instills a mega-load of self confidence and self-esteem. I mean really...the more I get rejected and cheated on the higher my self-esteem soars, Especially now that my ex now is seeing a dude with a big dick....geez I can't stand myself my self-esteem is so high. Happy Happy Joy Joy. ... oh I mean ... . Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrmaJean Posted December 24, 2013 Report Share Posted December 24, 2013 Insecurities happen if we don't feel sure of ourselves or aren't confident. I believe that all of us have insecurities. None of us are perfect. We all have imperfections and vulnerabilities; it's part of what makes us human. I think the key is being okay with and accepting of ourselves. Accepting that we have insecurities is part of that. When we can accept that we will sometimes feel this way without harshly judging ourselves for having such feelings, this can be healing.I'm personally a big believer in self-love. Sometimes if we feel badly about ourselves we might attract those who match those feelings and don't treat us very well. When we shine as ourselves and feel our own light, we naturally attract others who will respect and appreciate our gifts. We also come to understand that no other person can take away our gifts with their actions or words. We're always ourselves and what could be more beautiful than that? Sometimes I feel a little uneasy expressing my personal feelings so openly and maybe that's an insecurity of mine, but at the same time, it feels very good to simply be me.Unicorns and butterflies? Maybe. I also believe in being the change you want to see in the world so I keep trying.Just speaking from the heart here. I wish all of you well. Jeep 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted December 24, 2013 Report Share Posted December 24, 2013 Thanks Irma- happy Xmas to you by the way!Jessie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted December 25, 2013 Report Share Posted December 25, 2013 Insecurities happen if we don't feel sure of ourselves or aren't confident. I believe that all of us have insecurities. None of us are perfect. We all have imperfections and vulnerabilities; it's part of what makes us human. I think the key is being okay with and accepting of ourselves. Accepting that we have insecurities is part of that. When we can accept that we will sometimes feel this way without harshly judging ourselves for having such feelings, this can be healing.I'm personally a big believer in self-love. Sometimes if we feel badly about ourselves we might attract those who match those feelings and don't treat us very well. When we shine as ourselves and feel our own light, we naturally attract others who will respect and appreciate our gifts. We also come to understand that no other person can take away our gifts with their actions or words. We're always ourselves and what could be more beautiful than that? Sometimes I feel a little uneasy expressing my personal feelings so openly and maybe that's an insecurity of mine, but at the same time, it feels very good to simply be me.Unicorns and butterflies? Maybe. I also believe in being the change you want to see in the world so I keep trying.Just speaking from the heart here. I wish all of you well.I don't know, that's just way too positive for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrmaJean Posted December 25, 2013 Report Share Posted December 25, 2013 Happy holiday to you too, Jess. Hi Dvn. Possibly you aren't in a space to hear such positivity right now and that's okay. Maybe it doesn't fit for you either and that's okay too.How are you feeling? Would it help to express yourself? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted December 25, 2013 Report Share Posted December 25, 2013 Happy holiday to you too, Jess. Hi Dvn. Possibly you aren't in a space to hear such positivity right now and that's okay. Maybe it doesn't fit for you either and that's okay too.How are you feeling? Would it help to express yourself?Can't really do it, I'm crying too much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrmaJean Posted December 25, 2013 Report Share Posted December 25, 2013 I'm sorry you're hurting so much. I can sit with you if it helps. Sending care. dvnJ22 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted December 25, 2013 Report Share Posted December 25, 2013 I'm sorry you're hurting so much. I can sit with you if it helps. Sending care.I wish you where with me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted December 25, 2013 Report Share Posted December 25, 2013 keep at it dvn… I know this time if year is difficult… enjoy your fave food and relax… Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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