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do i have small penis syndrome or am i being silly


Eckky
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I know this is stupid but

i feel like i have a really small penis

like i measured it in 5.5-6 inches long and 4.7 inches around but but i feel like im tiny :( i know its stupid but i been humiliated in the past and its affected my confidence dramatically

could i have small penis syndrome or am i just being stupid and pathetic?

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Eckky:

You are right at the average size.

(I would love to have a penis at your size.)

But many men, INDEPENDENT of actual size may suffer from small penis syndrone.

I have read many peer reviewed and published articles on this subject.

Experts in this field agree, it is the perception of the man, if he is ashamed of his perceived "small" size and is anxious about it, he may very well be said to have Small Penis Syndrone.

Check out reliable sources, published in physcology or medical journals about this subject.

Good luck. I hope you learn and write back.

Louis

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Eckky, you've got an average wiener, brother! The only people who are worried about a 5 1/2" dick are the guys. I think very few women consider that to be too small. I have maybe 5 1/2" at the most - probably slightly less - and my girlfriend is quite tall. She has also had many partners in her life. She thinks I am the best partner she's ever had. What's more, I heard her talking to her teenage sons the other day about penis size, and she was insisting that it's the men who obsess over the need for a huge penis. Women generally don't care. So, I say, go forth in confidence with your anatomy. Charm your lady friends and let your body shine when its time.

PS - you are being no more stupid or pathetic than I was at your age. However, you are addressing the issue decades before I did, so you have lots of hope! :)

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She was talking to her teenage sons about it? I would have been mortified if my mom did that. Then again I am "boundaries" kind of guy so different strokes for different folks.

If penis size does not matter to women then why do so many men think it does? Are they all crazy? Are they blinded by cultural messages? Just wondering...

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She was talking to her teenage sons about it? I would have been mortified if my mom did that. Then again I am "boundaries" kind of guy so different strokes for different folks.

If penis size does not matter to women then why do so many men think it does? Are they all crazy? Are they blinded by cultural messages? Just wondering...

Penis size DOES matter to women; those who believe otherwise lack the fortitude to face and accept reality. For some, the truth brings such great distress that they willfully ignore it, and substitute a more comforting one of their own.

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She was talking to her teenage sons about it? I would have been mortified if my mom did that...

The subject came up because her son mentioned the porn star Ron Jeremy for some reason. Aside from reacting with some disgust about Ron himself, she asked why do men want to see such big dicks in porn? She thinks its the guys who demand it, not the women. Generally speaking, the women care less than the men do. I don't think she implied that no women care at all, nor that all women are fine with a very small penis. But I do think she said something worthy of thought, namely that men (especially the average-sized, but smaller, too) are much more worried than they need to be regarding women.

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I know size matters that's why I don't want to have sex XD

But I'm just really insecure

theres a lot of diffrent answers to what's "avarege" basically from what I read it's from 5-7 inches long and 4.5-5.5 around

but I still feel so insecure that it makes my depression worse

idk why I worry about it bc I'll probably never have sex but I still worry

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I know size matters that's why I don't want to have sex XD

But I'm just really insecure

theres a lot of diffrent answers to what's "avarege" basically from what I read it's from 5-7 inches long and 4.5-5.5 around

but I still feel so insecure that it makes my depression worse

idk why I worry about it bc I'll probably never have sex but I still worry

dude, you have no reason to be insecure. You are average(don't listen to anecdotal evidence of what is average, scientists say it's between 5.5 and 6"), if someone desires better than average, then that's on them. But there is nothing wrong with you, and your penis is perfectly capable of giving a woman satisfaction and if you are willing to be communicative, open-minded, and responsive to your partner, there is nothing stopping you from making her orgasm regularly. You don't have anything to worry about. Most(like 2/3rds) of women just cannot orgasm from penatrative sex alone, because their clittoris is either too small or too far from their vagina to be stimulated during sex. That is with any size penis, so it's not a requisite to have an above average penis to have good sex; not by a long shot. If you can find ways to stimulate her clittoris while making her feel good about herself(aka being good at sex, which is a comprehensive skill, not a measurement) and your relationship(don't be a shitty boyfriend/husband), you're golden. And I'm familiar with that "i'll probably never have sex" thought process. It's natural for someone your age. I'd just recommend you don't get overly consumed with when it happens, because it will happen eventually. The important part is to make sure you are both ready, to not rush into things, and to not get too stressed out about it because it's supposed to be fun(it is pretty fucking fun after the nerves go away).

As for the people/opinions you'll find on this board, I'm just one of them but I'd caution you to take everything said regarding size and what is "required," by women and/or for good sex, with a grain of salt. There are a lot of people on here who hate their bodies and thus hate themselves(hand raised). They(we) lack the fortitude to accept the reality that their bodies are completely adequate to make themselves and others perfectly happy in the long and short term. Everyone has their own preferences, and everyone is different. Some women truly care about penis size, others truly do not(this is a fact, anybody who says "all women..." or "all men..." and really believes it, is an idiot). But everybody wants to be happy (whether we are strong enough to let ourselves be is another story) and luckily you don't have to please everyone. All it takes is one really great person, and if you're lucky you'll find one of them(there are a bunch out there). Make sure you're truly happy with yourself and you'll have no problems finding others who are happy with you, too.

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Does size matter? It's a silly question because the answer is really that it simply comes down to the individuality of the woman. Some women don't care at all, some care a bit and to some it matters a lot.

This isnt as simple as does it just matter to only women. More important question is can you live a happy life having a small penis? because i cant. I want to feel like a man not 10 year old boy.

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I agree with most of your post apart from this bit, that's why I've singled it out. A small minority of women do desire, perhaps need a bigger then average penis because these woman can have vaginal orgasms through a long penis stimulating the inside of the vagina. This is nothing to do with clitoral stimulation.

I'd like to point out though, that this is a minority of women not the majority, contrary to some of what you read on here. And even with those women, if all you have going for you is a big penis then you won't keep hold of a women for long.

Does size matter? It's a silly question because the answer is really that it simply comes down to the individuality of the woman. Some women don't care at all, some care a bit and to some it matters a lot.

I'm in agreement, you're right. Thanks for your comments. The 2/3rds figure is still about right, and those who can orgasm from penetrative sex are included in the 1/3rd minority. The reason for why some can and can't is different from person to person, but we of small penis shouldn't feel like we can't give women orgasms because most women wouldn't be able to orgasm regardless of the size of our penises. Sex is way more than dick in vagina, and most of the magic happens in our minds. If we can project confidence, our partners will be more likely to be satisfied.

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Yeah, I've always heard the most important sex organ we have is right between our ears.

Sooooo......If society and media have todays currant crop of ladies honestly convinced size is everything and absolutely needed for sexual fulfillment it really doesn't matter what the truth is physically.

Placebo effect. If they REALLY believe it, it's true

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