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http://www.democraticunderground.com/10021170391

Here is what the above very short article has to say and I found it worthy of consideration. There are comments at the end of it if anyone is interested:

One of the most common themes about what is wrong with the world revolves around the fact that men with undersized penises are compensating by doing bad things such as owning guns and SUVs and becoming rich, while their better endowed brethren are content with their lives and don't need monetary wealth, power, or privilege.

With that in mind, I am curious as to what people think should happen to men who are carrying less than a 6 inch penis. Euthanasia? Prison? Banishment to a deserted island? Mandatory psychological therapy?

As a member of the "Big heart small junk" club, I would really like to know what people would have me do. As it is, I have quit flirting or seeking romantic relationships since it can be humiliating (bright side being more time for reading and posting on DU). I don't own a gun, muscle car, or an SUV, and 75% of working Americans make more money than I do. But I would really like to know more about what should happen to me and others like me.

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I don't think that stereotype is true. For many men, having a smaller dick makes them less likely to draw attention to themselves. During the many years while I was ashamed of my body in this regard, I could be quite shy, depending on the situation. Now that I have gone through the process of overcoming my shame, I am not so shy anymore, but at the same time, I have aged and matured, so I don't act like I'm a crazy teenager wanna-be either.

As I've said, ad nauseum, it is my opinion that 5"-6" is plenty good junk to have. It isn't good enough to get you on the porn set (boo hoo), but all other doors to life are wide open. I can't speak for the smaller guys, but I am happy to know that many of them (who are determined and stay motivated) are successful with relationships too.

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Men are sandwiched between the dueling criticisms of

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incessantly thinking with their penises and not have adequate penises. I think it's scapegoat complaint. It doesn't matter what someone's personal attributes are, some aspect of them will be used to mock and ridicule. Race, religion, gender, genitalia, breasts, hair color, socio-economic status, trailer parks, upper westside penthouse, personal wealth, personal poverty, poor grooming, execessive grooming, frigidity, sluttiness, apathy, intrusiveness, etc etc etc

At best this betrays a misplaced value system. At worst it's all just different forms of bigotry and it speaks more about the bigot than the victim of that bigotry. Any opportunity to diminish someone is seized upon with relish and delight. It won't ever stop until we start loving people just for being people -- and then the rest of those so-called "faults" won't look so damning after all.

Signed,

The girl with the very small breasts (and no dragon tattoo).

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Why even worry about it....it's survival of the fittest. In our culture we are seen as unfit to procreate... laughing stock for women and those "real men". who have "real penises" not "little baby dicks". I'm really starting to believe that's our intended role for being on this pile of shit floating in space, How boring and joyless would life be if we didn't have guys with small dicks to pick on.

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It's ridiculous to suggest that having a smaller than average sized penis is acceptable to modern, younger women.

I recently was forced to go to an emergency room after a fall cused excessive bleeding from my head. This resulted in my being hospitialized for four days where my clothes were removed by two female nurses, neither of which was half my age. Once I was exposed, the "ladies" left theroom with my underwear and were clearly heard to be giggling about my obvious lack of physical attibutes. I would have at least expected them to show some semblance of professional conduct by at least waiting until they were out of earshot before commencing with their myrth.

Had I known that I would end up being the subject of ridicule, I more than likely would have refused the ride in the ambulance and chanced personal first aid as my choice.

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It's ridiculous to suggest that having a smaller than average sized penis is acceptable to modern, younger women.

I recently was forced to go to an emergency room after a fall cused excessive bleeding from my head. This resulted in my being hospitialized for four days where my clothes were removed by two female nurses, neither of which was half my age. Once I was exposed, the "ladies" left theroom with my underwear and were clearly heard to be giggling about my obvious lack of physical attibutes. I would have at least expected them to show some semblance of professional conduct by at least waiting until they were out of earshot before commencing with their myrth.

Had I known that I would end up being the subject of ridicule, I more than likely would have refused the ride in the ambulance and chanced personal first aid as my choice.

I've grown to absolutely loathe nudity in a medical setting with female nurses or doctors. In the past couple years I've changed my doctor and offices and flat out refused to have simple procedures done because of the chance of being nude in front of nurses or other females. I don't know what the hell happens to the expectation of patient modesty or privacy when these ladies are in training or medical school.

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I've grown to absolutely loathe nudity in a medical setting with female nurses or doctors. In the past couple years I've changed my doctor and offices and flat out refused to have simple procedures done because of the chance of being nude in front of nurses or other females. I don't know what the hell happens to the expectation of patient modesty or privacy when these ladies are in training or medical school.

They wanted to check my prostate and bladder by inserting camera or something in my penis and i refused...there is no way i would ever expose myself this way, its just to embarrassing. If it means it will shorten my life then so be it.

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I've grown to absolutely loathe nudity in a medical setting with female nurses or doctors. In the past couple years I've changed my doctor and offices and flat out refused to have simple procedures done because of the chance of being nude in front of nurses or other females. I don't know what the hell happens to the expectation of patient modesty or privacy when these ladies are in training or medical school.

I had a physical last year with a doctor whom I'd never seen before. It turned out that she was downright gorgeous. She had the kind of looks nearly all guys would agree were amazing. With my new found confidence, I was really hoping to get naked in front of her (while realizing that such a desire in a medical setting was not particularly smart). But I just wanted her eyes and hands to be on me for a moment. Anyway, she didn't do any hernia or prostate exam, so I was "out of luck", heh. I think in a few years the latter will become routine.

A few months prior, I had another attractive doctor who had to see my penis. I wasn't in the same horny frame of mind, but I was just glad that I wasn't even nervous to pull my pants down in front of her. Years ago, I would have been mortified. It so happened that I was, at the time, in a "regular" flaccid state, meaning, hanging kinda small but loose, but not totally retracted, as can happen under certain conditions. Now THAT would be a little embarrassing!

I should add that I felt so confident because I have come to believe that small flaccid penises are pretty standard, so I don't consider myself unusual anymore, and also because I'm in decent shape for my age, which I believe is overall more important than the penis when women take us in visually.

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My issue might be worse. I'm black and my dick is less than 6 inches long and is extremely skinny. I've had issues with it since I was a kid. I remember getting laughed at by WHITE boys in the changing room as a 7 or 8 year old. I've been insecure siiince. Mum took me to the doctor, but he promised that it would grow. It didn't at least not to my expectations. I need help. I'm tired. Girls always want a big dick, here in Nigeria. Girls never pay me a 2nd visit and so, when I really really like someone, I avoid having sex with her, so she won't run away from my small dick. I need help

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I say accept it with head held high, saying a firm but respectful "fuck you" to all who pity or mock. There will be women who fall in love with you, small penis and all, if you stay in the game, as it were, without apologizing or agonizing. I think mine is 3/4" longer than yours, and it is all I've ever needed. My GF treats me like a king. However I used to believe I had no right to fully participate in normal life...which sounds like your current state. Maybe I've just been lucky with the few sexual partners I've had, but it has made all the difference.

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I had a physical last year with a doctor whom I'd never seen before. It turned out that she was downright gorgeous. She had the kind of looks nearly all guys would agree were amazing. With my new found confidence, I was really hoping to get naked in front of her (while realizing that such a desire in a medical setting was not particularly smart). But I just wanted her eyes and hands to be on me for a moment. Anyway, she didn't do any hernia or prostate exam, so I was "out of luck", heh. I think in a few years the latter will become routine.

A few months prior, I had another attractive doctor who had to see my penis. I wasn't in the same horny frame of mind, but I was just glad that I wasn't even nervous to pull my pants down in front of her. Years ago, I would have been mortified. It so happened that I was, at the time, in a "regular" flaccid state, meaning, hanging kinda small but loose, but not totally retracted, as can happen under certain conditions. Now THAT would be a little embarrassing!

I should add that I felt so confident because I have come to believe that small flaccid penises are pretty standard, so I don't consider myself unusual anymore, and also because I'm in decent shape for my age, which I believe is overall more important than the penis when women take us in visually.

I keep myself in good shape too. I have to with the heart and diabetes problems. I tend to be a 'show-er' not a grower. I have a normal flaccid size, it just doesn't grow much.

That being said I still don't like medical nudity. I'd much rather be walked in on by a stranger for a second or two than have to be naked in front of a female doctor or nurse. Medical nudity tends to be minutes long with a chance they'll have to touch or handle you vrs. just a quick glimpse when walked in on by accident.

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I say accept it with head held high, saying a firm but respectful "fuck you" to all who pity or mock. There will be women who fall in love with you, small penis and all, if you stay in the game, as it were, without apologizing or agonizing. I think mine is 3/4" longer than yours, and it is all I've ever needed. My GF treats me like a king. However I used to believe I had no right to fully participate in normal life...which sounds like your current state. Maybe I've just been lucky with the few sexual partners I've had, but it has made all the difference.

Small and I are the same length, he has a 1/2 on me in girth.

I've always said if a guy can get past the expectation of sex on the first date, guys can have a great time casual dating different ladies. It's been my experience that women tend to be impressed or intrigued by a guy who doesn't just try to jump their bones immediately.

I just celebrated my 27th wedding anniversary. I don't know, maybe ladies have changed that much over the years? I mean really, do females today just expect a 'gutter f**k' on the first date? Isn't there an expectation of some time spent together..wineing and dining before proceeding to the most intimate act two people can be involved in? Dunno...

Small guys tend to forget....With your pants up, with your clothes on you're just as good as ANY other guy walking around out there.

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When did America & other Western countries become so vicious? So mean, course, cruel & unkind? I'm not just talking about SP here but across the board.

Full grown adults who ought to know better act like juvenile delinquents including Senators, news anchors, lawyers, celebrities, etc.

It wasn't always like this. Sure people always said & did outrageous things in private but not so publicly as present day. The late 1980s, it seems to me, was when the decline really become noticeable.

Just as an aside, I am in a corporate training class and a woman was asked why she drives such a large SUV. Without hesitation she responded "because I like things big. Everything. Yes, including what you're thinking". She sits right next to me & we had been flirting. How nice it would have been to look at her & wink but instead I sat there hoping my face did not betray me. So it goes...

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Read the op can't help but feeling sad by it I saw a vlog talking about size and it got me down it was a girl saying all men under 5 inches erect were useless and those under 4.5 should come with a warning badge. She then said adverage 5-6 should be given a badge saying good in silver and big men a excellent in gold 6 Iches erect + . This talk by so many people just makes me feel sick. What's next eradicating men under 4.5 inches scary stuff. Look at this article by the daily mail just as bad to men like us http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2362197/Average-penis-size-study-reveals-SAME-results-previous-research.html

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