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something to look forward too….

Im sure they will handle it in the same sensitive way that Sex and the city did….

how was it handled in sex and the city? i didn't watch that crap.

but you're right,they shouldn't exploit this stuff on t.v;but i guess they've got to use every trick in the book for ratings etc..

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my intuition tells me that a 9" penis (which would indeed also be very rare) would be too big for most women.

A good friend of mine claims to be in the 9-10" range. He has had this experience, which was a show-stopper. He also find it just as difficult as the next guy to find the right gal for him. Girls don't just stay latched onto him forever because of his size.

I'm not saying that his plight is the same as the small guy's, but I still think bigger is not always better. Guys who are average-sized need to be grateful for what they have.

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I have never seen him naked, but I don't get the impression that he has exaggerated this fact. He and I have had a lot of heart-to-heart conversations, and I feel like he's honest about it. But again, I have no proof.

There's a video out there of a talk show guest who was billed as the guy with the biggest penis in the world at over 13" long and quite thick. I didn't post a link here but it was interesting because the guy went through some years where he was totally promiscuous before wanting to settle down. While he said he wouldn't change anything about himself, he didn't think it was good to be valued more highly for the size of his dick.

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I think 7Lx6G is ideal and have heard so in surveys and conversations.

Some size queens like 10inchers- so be it.

In porn you can see very petite girls take the full 12 inchers- not all are partial penetration.

about 16% of guys are bone pressed 7+.

About 3% are 8+ and 1% 9+

And there is a very strong correlation between girth and length.

Again you must be careful to use surveys with decent sample sizes and BONE pressed ERECT measurements.

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Seriously, the more I think about these trashy TV shows, the more p----ed off I become!

Can you imagine if they had a character mocking some guy because he had some other kind of disability? Like: "Oh, why does he have to be in a wheelchair, he would be so nice otherwise" or "oh, why does he have to be blind?"

It would be UNTHINKABLE for them to do that. Yet they think it's okay to pump sh-t over those poor guys out there who are afflicted with an (arguably) even worse physical disability.

Not okay. Just not okay.

it's all about the bottom line.it doesn't pay as much to be compassionate or sensible.

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No, actually, 3"......

(Only kidding! :D An extra 1" it would be for me!)

I know where you're coming from but think of how you'd feel if you had one inch less. You've got standard equipment and one life to live with it. It's time to be at peace with your body. Took me over 40 years but I think I'm there. Granted if I had to disrobe in front of a crowd with my member at its smallest state I'd feel somewhat apprehensive, but I don't think that qualifies as SPS.

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I know where you're coming from but think of how you'd feel if you had one inch less. You've got standard equipment and one life to live with it. It's time to be at peace with your body. Took me over 40 years but I think I'm there. Granted if I had to disrobe in front of a crowd with my member at its smallest state I'd feel somewhat apprehensive, but I don't think that qualifies as SPS.

It would depend on who the crowd was. I've never had a problem in a locker room or shower area. I've never had a problem being nude in front of other guys. There's just no sexual tension or interaction. I don't care what they think of me, I don't care about them. I'm trying hard to understand some other guys problem with this.

Women on the other hand. I think it would terrify me to be nude in front of a group of ladies. I loathe medical nudity when a female health care person is present. Some guys enjoy this, I really don't.

Different strokes for different folks I reckon.

Wise words. (I was only kidding about the extra inches, though. The point being, when you start to think about having more, just how far would you go?!)

BTW

The whole thing about measuring size is kind of vague anyway. I've discovered that I literally vary slightly from one erection to the next. About an hour ago, I measured some super-maxed out morning wood: the fair non-bone-pressed result was 5.25" X 5". Other times I've measured 4.9" X 4.8". Typically it's maybe 5.1" x 4.9". But, if a woman were reading this, it'd probably seem totally insane that anyone could be agonising over tiny fractions of an inch! :huh:

Bottom line: I'm average girth and a little below average length. That's just how it is. Half or third of an inch plus or minus average length probably doesn't matter at all to 99% of women in the real world.

But I just wish I could shake off this lingering feeling, you know. The rational part of my brain knows I'm (almost certainly) being crazy. But feelings of inadequacy rooted in adolescence can be very deeply part of the psyche, somehow.

Great post. Another one I wish I could press the like button 2 or 3 times.

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I'm not gay, it has nothing to do with sexual tension. It has to do with the fact that I was made fun of in school for something I couldn't help by guys who needed a cheap boost to their already overloaded egos and the fact that I wasn't even allowed the chance to stand on equal footing with them in the most basic area of life. I don't willingly put myself in situations where I'm at a clear disadvantage. How guys like you can just be completely oblivious and not care is beyond my ability to understand.

Thanks Klingsor, that helps me understand a little more. I guess if you're getting made fun of and physically abused it would make a difference.

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Some of you keep going on about above-average dicks being too big. Every single woman without exception will expend effort and jump at the opportunity to sleep with a huge one if she's never done it just to be able to say she has. It's like some kind of rite of passage for them. Whether she decides after the fact that it's too big and uncomfortable or decides that she has to have a big one for satisfaction from now on is completely irrelevant, they have to try it at least once.

I've wondered about this myself. I even asked the question on another forum that's now defunct.

I was pissed about something and not asking in a nice manner. I said:

Why do you women do that? you'll let some guy take something the size of a thermos bottle (yes, I was exaggerating) and shove it up you KNOWING knowing it's going to hurt and be uncomfortable and make you sore the next day? Why do you do it?

I'll be honest with you ladies, I wouldn't shove my d**k in a running blender no matter how nice a female body was wrapped around it, so why do you abuse yourselves so?

After some answers got posted the general consensus seemed to be it's a pissing contest. No woman wants to admit she can't take on the largest guy and accommodate him. (Remember the song "Hit me with your best shot"?)

The second was ignorance coupled with curiosity. (Well, I didn't KNOW....yada..yada...yada.)

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Some women no doubt. Perhaps even many women? But every woman?

That's quite some generalisation, isn't it?

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With the greatest of respect, I think that this is again a very sweeping generalisation. (For example not all men talk about women's breasts in this way - I certainly never do.)

I agree with you here, Roger. I know some women who would not be the least bit interested to sleep with a big guy for status. Same with your comment about guys.

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@klingsor,

you remind me somewhat,of myself as a teenager;how unrealistic and exaggerated some of my thinking was,regarding sex etc..

and although my sex drive hasn't changed that much,my thinking has.of course,that comes with experience,knowledge,insight,wisdom,etc.,as one ages.

now,women,sex,pleasure,fun,love,marriage,etc.,are all things i want,but,if i don't/can't have,i'm at peace with it,and it's not the end of the world.

i know some people don't believe in the following,but it's quite effective;being grateful that things aren't even worse,and believe me,they can be.

i believe in comparing oneself with others objectively,but positively.

my philosophy is to compare myself with those worse off than me,in areas that i can't change,and to compare with those better off than me,in areas that are possible to fix or improve.it might require lots of time,effort,and hard work,but nonetheless,possible.

by comparing yourself with people who have greater problems/pain than yourself,in areas that are unchangeable,you reduce your negative feelings,depression,and pressure/stress on yourself.

and by comparing yourself with people who have more success than yourself,in areas that can be manipulated,you increase your ambition and desire for achievement and success.

it's best to focus on what we can change in ourselves and our lives,than to dwell on lost opportunities and painful events in our lives or bad circumstances,and beat ourselves up over things we can't change.

Edited by resolute
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@ klingsor,

i'm really sorry those bastards treated you that way,it's unacceptable.

i'm not calling you or anyone else a cry baby;believe me i've been there,not the penis thing,but depression etc..

i think almost everyone in on this earth was shortchanged in some way;i know i have.if i made a list of all the bad things in my life,it'd be so long,it'd probably reach the moon.

i can gather from your posts,that you focus on the negatives in yourself and your life,and the positives of others' lives;as if you don't have anything good going for you,which is untrue;if i knew you personally,i could make a long list,but at least i know you have good height,even though you don't wanna believe that either.and others have things they dislike about themselves or their lives as well,even the most well hung guys,believe it or not.

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