I wish I had an average penis I'm jealous of men with 5.5 inch penises

[u.r.what.u.is]

I'm close to 5.5", and my "record" is 3 for 3, meaning no partner has rejected me over size. I've had so few partners because of my own fears about my size. I should have been more active when I was younger.

[someone555]

I'm close to 5.5", and my "record" is 3 for 3, meaning no partner has rejected me over size. I've had so few partners because of my own fears about my size. I should have been more active when I was younger.

the best thing about one night stands is that you will never see them again anyways

also at 5.5 you're the epitome of average, so GTFO

[u.r.what.u.is]

I find it bizarre that I went through 40+ years of my life thinking I was probably 95 percentile small. Maybe most of us "growers" feel that way, because nearly every flaccid dick I ever saw was much bigger than mine, and I assumed most men grew a lot between flaccid state and erection like I do.

[someone555]

I find it bizarre that I went through 40+ years of my life thinking I was probably 95 percentile small. Maybe most of us "growers" feel that way, because nearly every flaccid dick I ever saw was much bigger than mine, and I assumed most men grew a lot between flaccid state and erection like I do.

my flaccid varies so much its weird. and its more prone to stick out and down, than just straight down, so it looks even shorter. on a good day, while standing up, it will reach 3" flaccid

[u.r.what.u.is]

Yes I have a variable flaccid size too...it can all but disappear under certain conditions. Mine's weird, with some curvature and a sort of twist on its axis - which is most evident when flaccid. One of my partners noted that my flaccid to erect size difference was the most she'd ever seen. So that supports the theory that I might be close to average erect.

[TableStrike]

Its not any better if your dick was 5 inchs, its the same story, they want bigger.

Its possible to make a girl squirt and give them multiple orgasims with no penis, how do lesbians do it? THEY HAVE GREAT SEX, HOW? Study them, learn from them. 

If your penis is less then 5 inchs and the woman is not satisfied, then you need to learn to use penis sleeves. The problem is you cant satisfy her, its not that you have a small penis. Buy the penis sleeve, learn how to use it and satisfy her brains out. Problem solved.

Penis sleeves will even out the playing field and give you back your confidence and sanity because you can now confidently fully satisfy any partner. 

 

[Klingsor]

On 4/19/2021 at 7:43 AM, TableStrike said:

Its not any better if your dick was 5 inchs, its the same story, they want bigger.

Its possible to make a girl squirt and give them multiple orgasims with no penis, how do lesbians do it? THEY HAVE GREAT SEX, HOW? Study them, learn from them. 

If your penis is less then 5 inchs and the woman is not satisfied, then you need to learn to use penis sleeves. The problem is you cant satisfy her, its not that you have a small penis. Buy the penis sleeve, learn how to use it and satisfy her brains out. Problem solved.

Penis sleeves will even out the playing field and give you back your confidence and sanity because you can now confidently fully satisfy any partner. 

 

 

 

[Wayless]

On 4/19/2015 at 2:54 PM, u.r.what.u.is said:

So that supports the theory that I might be close to average erect.

Not a theory it is science.  The most reliable studies say 5.12 is average.  But it is true that the more active men are larger as they are more confident, especially these days since porn has skewed everyone's perceptions!

[Wayless]

On 4/19/2021 at 8:43 AM, TableStrike said:

Penis sleeves will even out the playing field and give you back your confidence and sanity because you can now confidently fully satisfy any partner. 

True, physically satisfy, but not necessarily psychologically.

Larger dicked guys have higher perceived status among both men and women.  Probably instinctual.

[Wayless]

On 4/19/2015 at 2:54 PM, u.r.what.u.is said:

Yes I have a variable flaccid size too...it can all but disappear under certain conditions. Mine's weird, with some curvature and a sort of twist on its axis - which is most evident when flaccid. One of my partners noted that my flaccid to erect size difference was the most she'd ever seen. So that supports the theory that I might be close to average erect.

Mine actually retracts completely inside my body at times, especially when doing hard work or when anxious. . .not ideal for gang showers!

[Under5]

I’m around 2 inches flaccid and a little over 4 1/4 inches erect in length.  I agree with what was said earlier that sexual satisfaction for most people involves a lot more than penis size. I’ve had great sexual relationships, long term, with 3 women, and have had really cool short term sexual relationships with a few others.

[jackman]

Hey there, well, you are not alone. Me too, actually, I guess you envy me a little, since I am just 5 1/4  erect  almost 5" girth. I'm a little fella, just 5'7" tall. I'm so sorry to hear this from you my brother from another mother. There must be something going on with our brains, maybe we need help cause we are mostly normal down there, and it works! I am still unhappy. I've been married twice, still to my second. My first wife said she loved being married to me, but my dick was just too small, so she went out and found someone with a big one, liked it so much she would not quit even if it meant divorce. I was 40 then, It crushed me. Its something I never once thought about till then, never got bullied, no woman ever complained, though I did have some very short relationships, I just didn't know why, and still don't. My second marriage has been great,we made love several times a week. She told me she had never had so many great orgasms as with me in her whole life; but 12 years into it, it came up that it would be nicer if it were thicker, something I have read about in so many posts from women, even those supporting us lil fellas, its clear, thicker is better for most, bigger for many. We still have a good relationship, but over the years things just died out, y'know, meds, physically, weight,hormones, lack of interest on her part; so many things affect a woman's desire, least of all, her man's proper love and care. I'm in my 60's ( I know, crazy, us old guys care about this too!) now and something came up not long ago, after a couple tequila shots with friends, (comment left out) that brought it all back.  I  slipped into a chasm of disrepair over this. Why can't I (we) be at least normal, why does it have to matter so much to women? us men? I am ex military, muscular and fit and not overweight, financially sound, we live a good life. I love my wife so dearly, treat her with respect and always with caring ways; she says it has never been an issue for her and is not now, she just lost interest.
But I can not get past what she said. I hate god for making me this way. I Can't get past what some very callous women say online. Doesn't seem to matter how many posts by women with positive and caring comments I read, there is always what was said, what was read. I thought about suicide for a short while, but decided I didn't hate god after all, the world is not that bad. I only ever try to control what I can control, how I treat other people. And hey, it get hard, lasts, I know cause I sure masturbate a lot, and get caught often enough. I finally talked to her about it and she cried knowing what this has done to me, it made me think hard about it all and I think I am getting back to where I can live with me again. It's a dick, it's ours, it works, honey is happy(mostly), and loves me dearly too. We decided it's time to get back in the sack, to talk about all this whenever it is needed, cause it ain't wrong for me(you) to feel the way we do about it. I'm just remembering that I'm short, not a rocket scientist, not a body builder, but I got a lot going on that's good. So here's to us lil one's. Best of luck brother. That's funny . . .   I looked at the top to check my spelling (not there) but there is a special symbol at the end of the list that says SIZE . . . Take care all, comments are welcome.

[alienpenis87]

mine is exactly 5.5 inches, its is not average i rarley see buldges that are small, you are just like me, we feel the same pain. but you have a girlfriend and ive never had one for a long time, long long time. 5.5 cant be average cos every man i see has a big dick....

[Wayless]

On 10/28/2021 at 8:05 PM, jackman said:

Hey there, well, you are not alone. Me too, actually, I guess you envy me a little, since I am just 5 1/4  erect  almost 5" girth. I'm a little fella, just 5'7" tall. I'm so sorry to hear this from you my brother from another mother. There must be something going on with our brains, maybe we need help cause we are mostly normal down there, and it works! I am still unhappy. I've been married twice, still to my second. My first wife said she loved being married to me, but my dick was just too small, so she went out and found someone with a big one, liked it so much she would not quit even if it meant divorce. I was 40 then, It crushed me. Its something I never once thought about till then, never got bullied, no woman ever complained, though I did have some very short relationships, I just didn't know why, and still don't. My second marriage has been great,we made love several times a week. She told me she had never had so many great orgasms as with me in her whole life; but 12 years into it, it came up that it would be nicer if it were thicker, something I have read about in so many posts from women, even those supporting us lil fellas, its clear, thicker is better for most, bigger for many. We still have a good relationship, but over the years things just died out, y'know, meds, physically, weight,hormones, lack of interest on her part; so many things affect a woman's desire, least of all, her man's proper love and care. I'm in my 60's ( I know, crazy, us old guys care about this too!) now and something came up not long ago, after a couple tequila shots with friends, (comment left out) that brought it all back.  I  slipped into a chasm of disrepair over this. Why can't I (we) be at least normal, why does it have to matter so much to women? us men? I am ex military, muscular and fit and not overweight, financially sound, we live a good life. I love my wife so dearly, treat her with respect and always with caring ways; she says it has never been an issue for her and is not now, she just lost interest.
But I can not get past what she said. I hate god for making me this way. I Can't get past what some very callous women say online. Doesn't seem to matter how many posts by women with positive and caring comments I read, there is always what was said, what was read. I thought about suicide for a short while, but decided I didn't hate god after all, the world is not that bad. I only ever try to control what I can control, how I treat other people. And hey, it get hard, lasts, I know cause I sure masturbate a lot, and get caught often enough. I finally talked to her about it and she cried knowing what this has done to me, it made me think hard about it all and I think I am getting back to where I can live with me again. It's a dick, it's ours, it works, honey is happy(mostly), and loves me dearly too. We decided it's time to get back in the sack, to talk about all this whenever it is needed, cause it ain't wrong for me(you) to feel the way we do about it. I'm just remembering that I'm short, not a rocket scientist, not a body builder, but I got a lot going on that's good. So here's to us lil one's. Best of luck brother. That's funny . . .   I looked at the top to check my spelling (not there) but there is a special symbol at the end of the list that says SIZE . . . Take care all, comments are welcome.

I've had several relationships in which the women originally claimed by small penis wasn't a problem, mostly because they had previous experiences with arrogant or abusive large dick guys.

But, eventually, they realize they really aren't satisfied with my small penis (4.5").  

[Wayless]

On 4/19/2021 at 8:43 AM, TableStrike said:

Its not any better if your dick was 5 inchs, its the same story, they want bigger.

Its possible to make a girl squirt and give them multiple orgasims with no penis, how do lesbians do it? THEY HAVE GREAT SEX, HOW? Study them, learn from them. 

If your penis is less then 5 inchs and the woman is not satisfied, then you need to learn to use penis sleeves. The problem is you cant satisfy her, its not that you have a small penis. Buy the penis sleeve, learn how to use it and satisfy her brains out. Problem solved.

Penis sleeves will even out the playing field and give you back your confidence and sanity because you can now confidently fully satisfy any partner. 

 

I don't think the work arounds above are very often embraced by partners because they change the nature of the relationship, ie. reduce your status.

 

[Shane]

Your fine first off ,eveyone is different.all sizes all shapes.be your self.if it is such a concern and you would like to spend some time improving your size (thundersplace.com) can help make it bigger naturaly.im personally 8x6.5 and happy with that.my partner also has no complaints let me know if you would like further information . 

[Wayless]

On 9/22/2022 at 12:19 PM, Shane said:

Your fine first off ,eveyone is different.all sizes all shapes.be your self.if it is such a concern and you would like to spend some time improving your size (thundersplace.com) can help make it bigger naturaly.im personally 8x6.5 and happy with that.my partner also has no complaints let me know if you would like further information . 

Not a sincere post in my opinion.

[Shane]

It was sincere 😎