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Are there any other men here who have at least, say, five inches in penis length along with at least average girth -whatever that is - yet suffer from SPS in some way?

Why do you feel inadequate? Was it experiences with sexual partners or comparisons with other men or both...or neither? Does porn play a role in your perception? Do you think "average" is some much larger size? SPS dominated me for decades, only to evaporate in the last couple years. It has been like a complete re-birth for me, and it's something I hope others will experience. SPS, as experienced by those with at least average size, can be overcome.

I think elements of my experience can help the smaller guys too, but maybe I can't completely empathize or call you to action from up here in the "average" section, I don't know...

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I was surprised and, at first, skeptical to read on forums like this that average length really is something in the 5-6" range. I'm in that range, but I was convinced I was in the lowest 10 percentile...maybe among the smallest in the world. How the hell did I get such an idea? Seeing lots of porn didn't help. I also believe that my eyes really did perceive my own penis to look smaller than it is...like a psychosomatic thing.

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Hi first of all sorry for my english

Here is my story, I started watching porn very early, around 14 therefore I grown up thinking that that was the average and that l was very small. Then at around 17 I started having sex and first relationship although lasted 5 years was not very good because sometimes my girlfriend ( not lost virginity with me) told me that sometimes she was not feeling anything... Very bad feeling for me. Then at around 23 I had another gf for many years .with her sex was beatifull , never felt inadequate although she was older the me and with children , I still had SP's when I had to have shower with other people but as long as I stayed with her I didn't t care that much

Than the relationship finished and for few years I didn't have other stories also because of my shyness of my penis

Then last year l met a wonderful lady and l felt in love maybe too much.. .sex was very good but I was always thinking l was not satysfing her properly because she often wanted positions where we could reach the deepest penetration. So I started to search on internet penis enlargement and other penis issues. After the research l was thinking to have chirurgy because they say is the only true possibility although very risky. I also came on the many studies regarding average penis size so l finally decided to measure myself ... Never done before

With my big surprise I found out that fully erect l m definitely on average with 6.3 length 5 girth

I don't t think I m the only person with this problem so the answer for me is yes there are also average guys with SPS

To be honest with you although l ve measured myself and find out a rational explanation about the first and last story somewhere in my head I still present the though of been small.. And l think is because of the porn in early age...

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Hi first of all sorry for my english

Here is my story, I started watching porn very early, around 14 therefore I grown up thinking that that was the average and that l was very small. Then at around 17 I started having sex and first relationship although lasted 5 years was not very good because sometimes my girlfriend ( not lost virginity with me) told me that sometimes she was not feeling anything... Very bad feeling for me. Then at around 23 I had another gf for many years .with her sex was beatifull , never felt inadequate although she was older the me and with children , I still had SP's when I had to have shower with other people but as long as I stayed with her I didn't t care that much

Than the relationship finished and for few years I didn't have other stories also because of my shyness of my penis

Then last year l met a wonderful lady and l felt in love maybe too much.. .sex was very good but I was always thinking l was not satysfing her properly because she often wanted positions where we could reach the deepest penetration. So I started to search on internet penis enlargement and other penis issues. After the research l was thinking to have chirurgy because they say is the only true possibility although very risky. I also came on the many studies regarding average penis size so l finally decided to measure myself ... Never done before

With my big surprise I found out that fully erect l m definitely on average with 6.3 length 5 girth

I don't t think I m the only person with this problem so the answer for me is yes there are also average guys with SPS

To be honest with you although l ve measured myself and find out a rational explanation about the first and last story somewhere in my head I still present the though of been small.. And l think is because of the porn in early age...

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From innumerable examples cited on this forum, SPS is reinforced by all aspects of our media & culture. Kind of like how thin is for females.

It's a darn shame because even if we would all prefer to have a bigger one it does not have to dominate your life.

Personally I think women are turned on more by overall masculinity than by penis size. There are not too many Marines, Army Rangers, or Navy Seals that lack for women. They can't all be hung.

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Thats what my old therapist used to say.

Be prepared for celibacy but try to enjoy other things in life.

It takes a certain mind set but its possible.

Then if you do meet a girl who is willing to compromise then you might find a non sexual partner - or even sexual partner… to share your life with.

But if not, then loneliness need not be the terrible thing its made out to be - its a perspective thing…

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Averageish with SPS and OCD here, Trying to overcome this sh*t and get on with life right now.

My train of thought has moved from "Have I got a thin c*ck" to " ok its thin get the F*ck over it!" - seems to be working on my confidence - unfortunately its probably a bit late in my marriage for new found confidence to help.

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