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Hi guys, most folks probaly don't remember me but i used to be a member here about a year and a half ago, went by the name "thoroughly happy".

Anyways, check this out: I've pretty much learned to deal with it. For me, the first step was acceptance. Yes, the majority of us here have small penises and its true that most women prefer penises that aren't small. Sure, there's folks that will occasionally come in here and tell you otherwise, but in most cases they're either lying to make u feel better about yourselves (ourselves) or speaking their personal preferences. But I can assure you from personal experience that a woman who prefers a small penis over a large one is an exception,not the norm.

Now, with that said, guys with small members need to stop obcessing over graphs and the such and go get laid because there's nothing that we can do about it,its not gonna get bigger,we were dealt a bad hand and there's nothing to do but play the cards or sit in the house and cry about it. I've found that the only solution (for me ,at least,and i believe that it applies to most in our situation) is to shamelessly bang chicks and let the chips fall wherever they may.

If you're unexperienced and scared, start with escorts and get some exp and then go from there. Or post an ad in the personals section on CL. Look, we'll all be dead in a hundred years, penis size won't matter then. Don't waste your life dwelling on this, gotta make the best of it--for if you don't, one day you'll probaly wake up and wish you had.

peace

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Well i'm happy for you but some people cant accept a defeat and settle for scraps...and i believe those are the people who linger here. (i'm one of them) We have never been given a chance or choice for amazing sexual life, we simply lost from day one...

Who's talking about scraps? Man, i'm banging a pretty hippy/buddhist chick right now and am currently looking for something on the side on CL. Simply had to lose the loser mentality and , win lose or draw, throw myself out there.

However,i'd prefer "scraps" over my hand anyday, lol. Get in where ya fit in, that's what its all about.

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well when i'm talking about scraps, I mean in general things like ridicule that comes with small penis, also when i'm having sex with a women my penis popping out (this is extremely embarrassing to me). When i look in the mirror my penis looks discussing against my 6'2 masuclar frame...i want to vomit. It looks like a little boys penis. So when i say scraps i don't only think of quality of women but the whole experience...I have sex with very hot escorts sooo...I'm not missing out on that part.

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Glad you are doing well Frank. Thanks for sharing you story, it at least opens some possibility. An old expression comes to mind "don't let the perfect be the enemy of the good".

While I am not having the kind of luck you are, I am feeling less bothered by the small penis thing. At a certain point I just made a decision that I am going to be proud of myself regardless of what anyone thinks. A big FU to the haters. Add to that the whole YOLO thing and that accounts for my state of mind.

Also having a big one may raise one's self esteem some but it is no guarantee of success w women, you still need that toughness & confidence that women look for or you won't even get your clothes off to begin with.

I do feel genuinely bad for the guys on extreme low end of the ruler because they did nothing to deserve that. I hope they can find happiness in other pursuits and/or a woman who is ok w it and sees the value in a good man.

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Great attitude to have, good for you victim. Man, it is what it is, gotta play the cards we were dealt, know what i mean? Life's way too short to obcess over this. Me, I'm gonna get mine, and if a chick hates on me because of my size, ill tell em to kick rocks, lol.

You aren't even small from what I remember. Your like 0.5 from average, right?

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Ps. Back in the day i used to refer guys to the "Howard Stern small penis contest" footage---if you haven't seen it, google it and watch. As absurd as this may sound, its actually kind of inspirational, lol. Observe how confident most of the guys are, and notice that the fat jolly dude with what appears to be a micro-penis gives a shout out to his girlfriend! Lol, we're not hopeless guys!

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You aren't even small from what I remember. Your like 0.5 from average, right?

4" girth on a good day, like throwing a hot dog down a hall-way with almost every women that I've ever been with, around 5" in length, give or take--it seems to fluctuate,lol. I can make it longer if i push at the bade or put a cock ring on. Yeah dude, I'm a member if the club

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4" girth on a good day, like throwing a hot dog down a hall-way with almost every women that I've ever been with, around 5" in length, give or take--it seems to fluctuate,lol. I can make it longer if i push at the bade or put a cock ring on. Yeah dude, I'm a member if the club

Biggest issue is your head, it's under average, but like I said not that much.

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Biggest issue is your head, it's under average, but like I said not that much.

Now if only I could convince women of this^^^...

Seriously though, can't really trust the stats, or at least I don't, because I judge according to my experience. Every female that I've ever been with--young, older, skinny, thick, tall, short, and the one that I'm currently with now-- have all told me that I have a small penis. And then there's the hundreds of penises I've seen in the showers while doing almost 6 years in prison. And then there's the lack of friction during intercourse that I've experienced during most of my sexual encounters and the many times I've been told " i don't feel anything".

I'm not whining about it anymore, just clarifying my situation.

Yep, if only I could convince the ladies that a penis too small for them to feel is perfectly normal, lol. It is what it is.

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My penis is small, therefore women say that its small. Its not like the females I've been with were all like " ha ha your penis is small", however its definitely one of those things that come up. Sometimes they bring it up, other times I've asked. I ve actually had prostitutes, some of whom were friends, tell me that mine is the smallest or skinniest that they've ever encountered, and these are women whom have seen/handled hundreds of penises.

And naaah bro never had any problems in prison, this isn't the kind of thing that grown men in prison discuss, lol, its not like that.

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Idk how can i accept anything when sex with small penis sucks for me...i cant even penetrate the girl without it slipping out 10 times....and this is just looking from my point of view, i can tell you girls don't like being poked around the vagina all the time...my small dick is just sad in every way possible.

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Idk how can i accept anything when sex with small penis sucks for me...i cant even penetrate the girl without it slipping out 10 times....and this is just looking from my point of view, i can tell you girls don't like being poked around the vagina all the time...my small dick is just sad in every way possible.

I feel the same.

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I can relate with ya wasted because sex has often sucked for me too due to my lack of sufficient girth, but Ive come to the conclusion that id rather have bad sex than none at all. Also ,the realization that we're empty impemanent beings whom will one day cease to exist for all of eternity has kinda removed the sting fron any of the bad stuff that I encounter as a result of this issue.

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http://www.mefeedia.com/video/30581944

I can't divorce myself from the reality that the girl will retell the story of my shame like the girls in this clip…

Whats the point in having sex if :

a. you can't feel it or enjoy it

b, nor will she

c. it will result in humiliation and depression

Firstly, I'd reccomend not surfing the web in search of videos that reinforce thoughts and feelings of inferiority ( I didn't even watch it but can imagine what it is)

As for sex, many of us here are capable of finding accepting women with whom sex could be enjoyable , just gotta keep searching.

As for the humiliation and depression, that's something that most of us have control over, its all a matter of training yourself not to give a s***. For me, zen meditation and philosophy (and meditative techniques from other buddhist traditions as well) have been very effective .

But each to their own.

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