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[retsuud]

No, a lolly will suit you better.

[Anonymous2014]

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[IrmaJean]

I'm not sure what may have happened here in this thread since most of everything now looks deleted, but I hope everything is currently peaceful. Cruel attacks on other members is unacceptable. I hope we can treat one another with kindness, respect, and empathy.

Resolute, I'm not sure what may have happened to you, but I can say that something terrible happened to me some years back. Though I struggled for some time, the loss led me down a different path and changed the direction of my life in a very positive way. Perhaps something similar could happen to you? I'm sorry things are tough right now.

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[Resolute]

I'm not sure what may have happened here in this thread since most of everything now looks deleted, but I hope everything is currently peaceful. Cruel attacks on other members is unacceptable. I hope we can treat one another with kindness, respect, and empathy.

Resolute, I'm not sure what may have happened to you, but I can say that something terrible happened to me some years back. Though I struggled for some time, the loss led me down a different path and changed the direction of my life in a very positive way. Perhaps something similar could happen to you? I'm sorry things are tough right now.

thanks irma. believe it or not, i appreciate people's kind words, and compassion.

what you must understand is that this isn't my first rodeo, but it's certainly my last. my loss, pain, suffering, agony, and misery started the moment i was born, and haven't stopped since. there were a couple years in my childhood that were less miserable, but that's about it.

anyway, it's not about pain or loss per se, it's the fact that i realized i was doomed years ago, but still decided to give it one last shot, in addition to all my previous attempts. and after nearly two years of patience and perseverance, needless to say, it didn't work out, and as usual i'm even worse off than before.

i've completely given up on this "life", and i just hope i fare better in the next one.

[DatDude90]

I will be forty in September. I guess it's just a matter of finding the right woman.

However, I date mostly women who are a lot younger, and the younger generation of females seems to think

that 7 inches is average.

I haven't heard they think its average, but it definitely seems to be their preference.

[Anonymous2014]

What I lack in length, I make up for in girth, so it's not as bleak as I made it seem.

[Guest Klingsor]

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[Resolute]

I triggered it. I got sarcastic. I'm working on myself to stop. The insults don't bother me, I've heard much, much worse.

actually, you didn't trigger anything. the guy has a problem.

i won't attack him because he deleted or reworded his posts.

[DatDude90]

What I lack in length, I make up for in girth, so it's not as bleak as I made it seem.

What are your measurements? If you don't mind me asking.

[Anonymous2014]

5X5

actually 5.25 X 5 but I round down, as I am sure the women do.

[u.r.what.u.is]

5.25 X 5

That's my size, as accurately as I've been able to measure. I'm sure there are lots of women who think we're too small, but also many who think it's just right. I think you may find such a woman if you don't give up.

[DatDude90]

5X5

actually 5.25 X 5 but I round down, as I am sure the women do.

My length is basically the same, I have just slighty bigger girth. I do consider myself legitimately small, although the "statistics" say otherwise.

[Anonymous2014]

I happen to be a statistician, so I can explain why the statistics are flawed. Unless every participant has the same probability of being

chosen, and the measurements are not "self-reported", the statistics are garbage. Also the standard deviation can be seen as the

average magnitude of a distribution's fluctuations about the mean (average). So the average gives limited information, and the standard deviation gives you a slightly better picture of the distribution, as it essentially gives you a picture of how far above the mean an observation can lie. If the average length is say 5.5 inches and the standard deviation is 1.75 inches, 1 standard deviation above the mean is 7.25 inches, and the probability that an observation (measurement) is 1 s.d. above the mean depends on the probability distribution, which I would be able to fit if I had reliable data, but it would usually be in the 30-40% range, so don't rely

too heavily on statistics.

Don't get me wrong I am not putting you down, as our measurements are very close, all I am demonstrating

is why it's possible for a girl you meet to have likely been with a 7 inch plus guy. I too consider myself extremely

small.

[DatDude90]

I happen to be a statistician, so I can explain why the statistics are flawed. Unless every participant has the same probability of being

chosen, and the measurements are not "self-reported", the statistics are garbage. Also the standard deviation can be seen as the

average magnitude of a distribution's fluctuations about the mean (average). So the average gives limited information, and the standard deviation gives you a slightly better picture of the distribution, as it essentially gives you a picture of how far above the mean an observation can lie. If the average length is say 5.5 inches and the standard deviation is 1.75 inches, 1 standard deviation above the mean is 7.25 inches, and the probability that an observation (measurement) is 1 s.d. above the mean depends on the probability distribution, which I would be able to fit if I had reliable data, but it would usually be in the 30-40% range, so don't rely

too heavily on statistics.

Don't get me wrong I am not putting you down, as our measurements are very close, all I am demonstrating

is why it's possible for a girl you meet to have likely been with a 7 inch plus guy. I too consider myself extremely

small.

Trust me, I'm fully aware of how common 6.5-7+ inches really is, despite what the statistics say. I actually hope every girl I meet has been with 7+inches, that way if I do get into a long term relationship with them, there won't potentially be lingering curiousity or desire of a bigger size

[u.r.what.u.is]

I actually hope every girl I meet has been with 7+inches, that way if I do get into a long term relationship with them, there won't potentially be lingering curiousity or desire of a bigger size

I know for sure that my gf has been with guys larger than that and she prefers my size. She is a taller than average woman, too.

The partner I had before I met my gf seemed fairly experienced, but I didn't know her well enough to know her sexual history. Also not a petite girl. She didn't bat an eyelash about my size.

[Anonymous2014]

Trust me, I'm fully aware of how common 6.5-7+ inches really is, despite what the statistics say. I actually hope every girl I meet has been with 7+inches, that way if I do get into a long term relationship with them, there won't potentially be lingering curiousity or desire of a bigger size

Actually, you don't. If she's accustomed to guys who can hit her cervix, she will feel unfulfilled.

I'm a little older and more cynical than you. Luckily I can afford to see

escorts at least twice a week. Otherwise, I would probably go insane.

Please don't let my pessimism discourage you...I'm just basing this on interactions

with women who aren't escorts whom I have had to kick to the curb because they apparently felt that they were doing me a favor by being with me.

[Victimorthecrime]

Actually, you don't. If she's accustomed to guys who can hit her cervix, she will feel unfulfilled.

Hey Anon, my 2 cents is that what you say is true for some women but not all. There are women that don't enjoy penetration at all and only submit to it for the sake of the man. For these women what matters is the emotion, the feelings, the reassurance that intimacy brings.

I have read books by promiscuous women and most say that having their pussy expertly eaten beats fucking any day.

Listen there is not a guy in the world that would not prefer a 7" to a 5" dick but if you don't get a rock hard erection and last a long time then it is meaningless.

Yes size matters but so does the concept of proportionality to other things that also matter in a relationship. And frankly I thing relationships are overrated anyway.

[Anonymous2014]

. And frankly I thing relationships are overrated anyway.

Agreed

[Resolute]

1- Yes size matters but so does the concept of proportionality to other things that also matter in a relationship. 2- And frankly I thing relationships are overrated anyway.

1- yes, but this applies to actual relationships, and not to purely sexual ones.

2- depends on the relationship i think. personally i agree with you that most "relationships" in the world aren't worth it.

[Victimorthecrime]

1. Oh yeah I definitely mean actual relationships. The club scene / party scene is a whole other story.

2. Relationships are not bad just overrated, especially in the current world where women will drop you like an old tissue the minute there is trouble or a better offer.

Relationships for me were tainted by all the lies I was told growing up like that being nice would be rewarded or that there is the right ONE out there for you. Anyone who could only get one in reality could get none. In other words chicks either dig you or they don't. It's a truth as binary as it is universal.

[DatDude90]

Actually, you don't. If she's accustomed to guys who can hit her cervix, she will feel unfulfilled.

Well if she's accustomed to deeper penetration, then that would be an issue. But I meant that I hope she has experienced bigger sizes, that way IF she is satisfied with what I'm packing, then I don't have to worry about her becoming curious and wanting a bigger size. I've read on other forums that a guy packing less should just get with a virgin, I'd prefer not to, because even if that girl is satisfied with my size, I would still have that feeling of insecurity and inadequacy. Because in my mind I would just keep thinking "Yeah she enjoys it, thinks its a good size. But, she doesn't know any better."

[Anonymous2014]

Well if she's accustomed to deeper penetration, then that would be an issue. But I meant that I hope she has experienced bigger sizes, that way IF she is satisfied with what I'm packing, then I don't have to worry about her becoming curious and wanting a bigger size. I've read on other forums that a guy packing less should just get with a virgin, I'd prefer not to, because even if that girl is satisfied with my size, I would still have that feeling of insecurity and inadequacy. Because in my mind I would just keep thinking "Yeah she enjoys it, thinks its a good size. But, she doesn't know any better."

I understand and wish you the best of luck.