xxsmartyy Posted February 6, 2009 Author Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 .............................(etc)and how in the world would my twin sister explain my stupid 'shadow' thing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
finding my way Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 Just from what I've read about twins, there are some pretty interesting phenomenon stemming from that extremely close association to the twin in utero and out while you were developing your personality. Shadow is a little like having a twin, only inside your head. That's all! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxsmartyy Posted February 17, 2009 Author Report Share Posted February 17, 2009 two words -- highly doubtful.i'm sorry but if you met my sister and i we're only twins because share the same birthday.she doesnt even look my sister.most of the 'twin' things relate to identical, we came from two serparate eggs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
finding my way Posted February 18, 2009 Report Share Posted February 18, 2009 OK, it was just a thought. How are you btw? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crystalr0w3 Posted June 24, 2009 Report Share Posted June 24, 2009 HI xxsmartyy, the one that you are doing is a self-talk which is also considered normal and healthy. It's like expressing yourself and a form of venting out. About your paranoia, you have to seek a professional help to recommend you medicines to cure it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ASchwartz Posted June 24, 2009 Report Share Posted June 24, 2009 Hi XXSmartyy,One of the things that strikes me or stands out about your responses to each member, is that you seem so sure of yourself. Some examples?Well, you report that your twin is not an identical twin and therefore is not a twin at all. Not correct. You two are fraternal twins and, like all twins, identical and fraternal, you impacted on each other in ways you, right now, have no clue about.Another example is how you dismiss psychotherapy by stating that you do not want to put yourself in the position again. Not correct. Why? Because, everday and in every way, you feel in that position. Examples are what you are referring to as your paranoia. From the little of I know of you, I suspect that you are not paranoid but quick to believe that people do not like you. That is what you must of felt when your father forgot about you: not wanted, not liked.I strongly urge you to seek psychotherapy so that you can overcome these issues. The therapy can be Cognitive Behavioral or Psychodynamic, with a good therapist who focused on the "here and now," and on the developing relationship between you and the therapist.I am always aware of not wanting to be misinterpreted as critical when I write these postings and, so, I want you to know that is not my intent. I firmly believe that therapy can really help you. What you are up against is not paranoia but you anxiety, your fears that you will be judged and not liked.What do you and the others think about this??Allan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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