Resolute Posted August 21, 2014 Report Share Posted August 21, 2014 Roger if you have a reasonable girth and almost average length then its no wonder your experiences are markedly different than mine, and a few others here…I have been careful in choosing my partners- all 5 left me - all due to size to the best of my knowledge.. but for a few extra cm of flesh my life would be dramatically different… I would not be on this site… I would perhaps be married to my 1st love…I have heard and seen 1st hand, women say utterly withering things about small penises they have experienced…Thats my experience and reality. If it wasnt I would never have come here…it never ceases to baffle me how in the world you still love those women (or some/one of them) after what you've been through with them.i mean when things go sour between most people,they at least stop loving each other.i personally consider my exes (whom i had a serious relationship with,but things turned bad) as enemies.it helps me move on and find someone better.of course making them pay didn't hurt either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted August 21, 2014 Author Report Share Posted August 21, 2014 i simply meant she was the 1st girl I fell in love with.having said that - all these years later- I perhaps do still have feelings for her…my 5th 'partner' was just a fling but the 4 GFs were great people and treated me with respect- they just werent able to compromise on the sex issues… Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted August 21, 2014 Author Report Share Posted August 21, 2014 She says she's a feminist and epitomises an attitude she believes is more prevalent in this generation of 20-something women than it has ever been before: sex can be uninhibited, adventurous, experimental, joyful. The critical emails are a minority. Mostly she receives letters which tell her, 'Thank God, you're saying this. I'm not the only one who feels this way'. In the bedroom, at least, there are no Bridget Jones neuroses. No big knickers or antsy introspection. Whenever she meets a man who doesn't perform in bed she buys him her own favourite book, She Comes First by Ian Kerner which, I gather, is to cunnilingus what the AA Driving Skills Manual is to motorway road signs.I wonder what would be a sexual deal breaker with a man? She takes a sip of water and searches the ceiling for inspiration. 'Someone narrow-minded who didn't want to try things. I mean there is a misconception that a guy has to be super-experienced, which isn't true, but a willingness to try new things is important.' She ponders a little more. 'Skinny guys don't really do it for me. No gold chains. Other than that ... really small penis, really can't do. It doesn't have to be huge. But there is a minimum threshold.'Excerpt from an interview with Catherine Townsend- at the time a best-selling novelist and sex columnist and relationship advisor----The deal breaker rears its head again… Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted August 21, 2014 Author Report Share Posted August 21, 2014 True…. but I have read a few of her articles over the years…. whatever her threshold is… I'm way below it…. as was the case with my 5 exes… Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted August 21, 2014 Report Share Posted August 21, 2014 I'd bet anything that the "minimum threshold" is 6 fat inches.British guys should find brides from Asia and tell these wenches to go catch HPV. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted August 21, 2014 Author Report Share Posted August 21, 2014 - Alas I have heard both genders suggest that petite ladies can take the biggest of all- counter intuitive but porn certainly seems to confirm that.Also petite ladies are in demand are unlikely to settle for a low status male e.g. small dick.Research bears this out by the way e.g. Psychology Today.- Women choose men- they drops hints to the guys they want to chase them and recoil if approached by someone of low standing if unattractive.(this isn't bitterness btw, my tallness means I get those signs from time to time…. )This is passive choice…- Pre human era. Strength and status obviously meant a lot.But we were erect (standing!) and size would have selected for.Women that were 'on heat', as today, would have wanted sex with guys who met ALL the hallmarks, and if they werent attractive enough to get one they would have settled for the next most attractive etc etc….ps they there is the scoop mechanism due to the mushroom head…. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted August 21, 2014 Report Share Posted August 21, 2014 - Alas I have heard both genders suggest that petite ladies can take the biggest of all- counter intuitive but porn certainly seems to confirm that.Also petite ladies are in demand are unlikely to settle for a low status male e.g. small dick.Research bears this out by the way e.g. Psychology Today.- Women choose men- they drops hints to the guys they want to chase them and recoil if approached by someone of low standing if unattractive.(this isn't bitterness btw, my tallness means I get those signs from time to time…. )This is passive choice…- Pre human era. Strength and status obviously meant a lot.But we were erect (standing!) and size would have selected for.Women that were 'on heat', as today, would have wanted sex with guys who met ALL the hallmarks, and if they werent attractive enough to get one they would have settled for the next most attractive etc etc….ps they there is the scoop mechanism due to the mushroom head….so you're sticking with your evolution thing?btw jessie,we know klingsor is 6'3",how tall are you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
someone555 Posted August 22, 2014 Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 so you're sticking with your evolution thing?btw jessie,we know klingsor is 6'3",how tall are you?Im not Jessie, but I'm nearly 6 foot 4. so looking at myself naked is just terrible. if i was 5 foot 8, my schlort (not schlong) would look a little more proportionate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted August 22, 2014 Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 Im not Jessie, but I'm nearly 6 foot 4. so looking at myself naked is just terrible. if i was 5 foot 8, my schlort (not schlong) would look a little more proportionatedamn,how many really tall guys are there on this forum?btw,if you wanna get rid of those extra 8" in height,i'm willing to take them off your hands. gone 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted August 22, 2014 Author Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 Roger,I think BP is 6.5 ish and non BP is 5.9 ish (for white erect - direct measurement)I think anything nurse measured or flaccid stretched extrapolation unreliableI have heard many women in real life say 6 or 7 minimum (which would be non BP and dependant on the womens ability to judge accurately)I have heard in clips womens minimums range from 5.5 to 9! (some of those clips I have put on this site)Black womens (including famous pop stars and not just rappers) thresholds are much higher and often barely believable to me.I think i may have heard the rare and earnest clip by younger girls saying '4' because 'other things can be used' but they tended to be half baked white lies to my mind… and often full of contradictions.non BP '6' is the most common minimum threshold I have heard but I would imagine 5.5 would just about get away with it.From then on its diminishing chances- you might get away with 5 with some girls4.5 with a fewer amount of girls etc etc.Clearly 1inch would cause rejection from 99% of girls so the threshold is a nebulous thing but there all the same.Im 4 on a good day and have yet to be accepted so maybe its 4.48? meh….ps and a womens own minimum's might vary from day to day and other factors- his height, wealth, etc etc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted August 22, 2014 Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 As I mentioned on another thread, I don't think I'm being helpful here. I think a lot of people here are deeply damaged, deeply mentally scarred. I naively thought I could help - but it's like stepping into an alternative universe. And I prefer the real one I have always known, quite honestly.Now I really must do what I said on another recent thread, and leave. Wish y'all well.well,good luck roger,i wish you the best,i for one will miss you.take care. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted August 22, 2014 Author Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 @JessieSo for you, the minimum size accepted by most women would be higher than average! Oh boy. What can be said, what can be done...?As I mentioned on another thread, I don't think I'm being helpful here. I think a lot of people here are deeply damaged, deeply mentally scarred. I naively thought I could help - but it's like stepping into an alternative universe. And I prefer the real one I have always known, quite honestly.Now I really must do what I said on another recent thread, and leave. Wish y'all well.Im simply quoting what I have heard all my life- its my real universe not a parallel one.I am aware that 5.9 non BP white average is less than the quoted minimum of 6 that I hear so often (let alone the 7 minimum sometimes quoted).this might be due to women regurgitating the media or over estimating their partners or maybe that the 50% of men above average are much more sexually active so women are over exposed to slightly above the mean.Meh- my guess is that its all 3 in combination…ps my rejections did not take place in a parallel universe- though again I am very small so that needn't worry a guy with 5.5 particularly.pps you ever heard of Karen Owen? might give you a better understanding of the true dynamic at play here…. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted August 22, 2014 Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 jessie,you never answered my question about your height. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted August 22, 2014 Author Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 http://www.sundaysport.com/?p=16932This is NSFW link to a horrid newspaper site in the ukFor 10 years they have been going into town centres to ask girls about sex.Hit 'brit girls go wild' on the left and it will take you to the interviews.Now and again a girl will say 'its the motion of the ocean' but look at MOST of the comments…. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted August 22, 2014 Author Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 jessie,you never answered my question about your height.umm lets just say Im tall- Im often scared I have put so much info on here about myself that someone at work might guess its me if they stumble on this site or something.As height is visible I would rather not be exact- if thats ok- sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted August 22, 2014 Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 umm lets just say Im tall- Im often scared I have put so much info on here about myself that someone at work might guess its me if they stumble on this site or something.As height is visible I would rather not be exact- if thats ok- sorry.that's ok mate,no need to apologize. Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Resolute Posted August 22, 2014 Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 I read that thesis by that cunt Karen Owen and I felt physically sick to my stomach at the time because it's the absolute truth - she's just slutty enough to put in writing what the vast majority of women think about sex. The stuff she wrote matches my experiences in college relating to sexual dynamics.I can barely look at that bitch's face without hatred bubbling away like a boiler pot.from your description,i don't blame you.i won't google her because i don't wanna feel worse than i already do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Jessie Posted August 31, 2014 Author Report Share Posted August 31, 2014 addled cynic that I am- even I think thats just a coincidence Klingsor- surely?I mean they used the B..G thing on a child at the end…so..I dont think it was sex ref in this case (thats not to say size refs are all not v common in the media right now) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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