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I am constantly reminded of my small penis.


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I'm just starting to be sexually active (18 y/o).

I started so late due to my shame and fear.

I have heard all the giggles, laughs, ridicule and all the comments on my lack of size. The compliments are mostly "small and cute".

I suspect this may be forever.

I cant change them. I can barely tolerate them

The only way out of this cycle is to change me and my emotional response. The intellectual response will just keep me in the cycle.

Comments???

Y/N???

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When I measure my erection the proper way. I am just around 4" when hard and when soft it is terribly small at 1 1/2".

So I must be really small even if the average size is 5.5"

There are the facts and the number speak for themselves. That's the objective evidence. The comments and ridicule, that's the subjective evidence.

Yes?

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then you are very similar to me - Im perhaps a shade bigger in both areas but not so a girl would notice…

I get rock hard though.. you?

rock hard actually makes a world of difference. for me its like 0.5-1 inch difference from a 90% erection to a full blown diamond erection

make sure you dont look at porn or else it will make it harder to get those full erections when the time comes

also whats this bone pressed nonsense? do i jab the ruler into my gut while measuring?

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alas I only have zirconia in my pants….

yes bone pressed or BP is measuring along the top pressed against your belly.

But dont push toooo hard- thats cheating.

Firm enough to displace the fat pad that most of us have and no more….

… and no moving to the side!!! MUST be along the top!

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  • 3 weeks later...

I feel that the media's representation of men has a lot to do with the extreme loathing some men have acquired about their penises. In my estimation 3", 4", 6" are nt bad sizes. And so...any partner who thinks less of you becase of size is deinitely not in it for love. Oh sre, guys with big ones attract more sexual partners, bu that's about it.

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rock hard actually makes a world of difference. for me its like 0.5-1 inch difference from a 90% erection to a full blown diamond erection

make sure you dont look at porn or else it will make it harder to get those full erections when the time comes

I agreee with both things you said above. It's difficult for me to get the absolute 100% erect measurement because it doesn't last long, but it is a bit above 5", maybe 5.25".

I have a sexual partner these days. It was difficult to achieve orgasm with her until I stopped masturbating. Now I have orgasms without effort. I still want to see porn images a lot but I refrain myself when I think about how much it affects sex.

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I agreee with both things you said above. It's difficult for me to get the absolute 100% erect measurement because it doesn't last long, but it is a bit above 5", maybe 5.25".

I have a sexual partner these days. It was difficult to achieve orgasm with her until I stopped masturbating. Now I have orgasms without effort. I still want to see porn images a lot but I refrain myself when I think about how much it affects sex.

I never believed that watching porn could effect your ability to get an erection during sex. I watch porn regularly, have been since I was about 16 or 17, I'm 20 now. When it came time to have sex for my first time, I couldn't get it up to save my life. Pile that on top of the fact that I am already scarred because of my size, I now dread the day of my second attempt at sex.

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It is always affecting our lives and that's pretty messed up. We already kill ourselves by thinking about it and then the mocking, ridiculing and so on reminds us some more :) When I was on vacation last summer there was a guy who told a story about a raging goat that needed to be killed because he attacked his own and humans as well. A pretty fucked up goat it was. Turns out (after the killing) the goat was sexually frustrated because his penis couldn't extract enough to have sex with females.. The poor bastard was just angry because of the fact he couldn't have sex!

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It is always affecting our lives and that's pretty messed up. We already kill ourselves by thinking about it and then the mocking, ridiculing and so on reminds us some more :) When I was on vacation last summer there was a guy who told a story about a raging goat that needed to be killed because he attacked his own and humans as well. A pretty fucked up goat it was. Turns out (after the killing) the goat was sexually frustrated because his penis couldn't extract enough to have sex with females.. The poor bastard was just angry because of the fact he couldn't have sex!

ROFL...oh my god...that is the most brilliant post I have ever read on here.

Like x10000

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