LouisZ Posted August 18, 2014 Report Share Posted August 18, 2014 I'm just starting to be sexually active (18 y/o).I started so late due to my shame and fear.I have heard all the giggles, laughs, ridicule and all the comments on my lack of size. The compliments are mostly "small and cute".I suspect this may be forever.I cant change them. I can barely tolerate themThe only way out of this cycle is to change me and my emotional response. The intellectual response will just keep me in the cycle.Comments???Y/N??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted August 18, 2014 Report Share Posted August 18, 2014 Well it makes rational sense to focus on what you can control and ignore what you cannot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted August 19, 2014 Report Share Posted August 19, 2014 The only way out of this cycle is to change me and my emotional response.yes,that is the way to go. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted August 19, 2014 Report Share Posted August 19, 2014 Evertytime I see my penis, I feel like killing myself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
u.r.what.u.is Posted August 19, 2014 Report Share Posted August 19, 2014 18 years is a late start? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted August 19, 2014 Report Share Posted August 19, 2014 in this era 18 is pretty late but not terribly so… Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
u.r.what.u.is Posted August 19, 2014 Report Share Posted August 19, 2014 Lord knows I wanted it before 18, but I didn't have my first real experience for another ten years. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
someone555 Posted August 20, 2014 Report Share Posted August 20, 2014 i agree you should first get your measurements and then see how you stack up next to normal.also it may be a blessing that these whores wont sleep with you. 1) no babies, 2) no STD's. 3) find a good girl who likes you for YOU. 4) remain confident and give no fucks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LouisZ Posted August 21, 2014 Author Report Share Posted August 21, 2014 When I measure my erection the proper way. I am just around 4" when hard and when soft it is terribly small at 1 1/2".So I must be really small even if the average size is 5.5"There are the facts and the number speak for themselves. That's the objective evidence. The comments and ridicule, that's the subjective evidence.Yes? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted August 21, 2014 Report Share Posted August 21, 2014 so bone pressed you are 4?and whats your girth around at the thickest point? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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LouisZ Posted August 21, 2014 Author Report Share Posted August 21, 2014 My thickest girth is between 3 3/4" - 4"Yes, bone pressed I'm maybe 4.00000000002" lol: that last 2 is significant!!!I'm not statistical type. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted August 21, 2014 Report Share Posted August 21, 2014 then you are very similar to me - Im perhaps a shade bigger in both areas but not so a girl would notice…I get rock hard though.. you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
someone555 Posted August 22, 2014 Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 then you are very similar to me - Im perhaps a shade bigger in both areas but not so a girl would notice…I get rock hard though.. you?rock hard actually makes a world of difference. for me its like 0.5-1 inch difference from a 90% erection to a full blown diamond erectionmake sure you dont look at porn or else it will make it harder to get those full erections when the time comesalso whats this bone pressed nonsense? do i jab the ruler into my gut while measuring? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted August 22, 2014 Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 rock hard actually makes a world of difference. for me its like 0.5-1 inch difference from a 90% erection to a full blown diamond erectioni'm sure women would be thrilled to have anything "diamond". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted August 22, 2014 Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 alas I only have zirconia in my pants….yes bone pressed or BP is measuring along the top pressed against your belly.But dont push toooo hard- thats cheating.Firm enough to displace the fat pad that most of us have and no more….… and no moving to the side!!! MUST be along the top! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shymeeee Posted September 12, 2014 Report Share Posted September 12, 2014 I feel that the media's representation of men has a lot to do with the extreme loathing some men have acquired about their penises. In my estimation 3", 4", 6" are nt bad sizes. And so...any partner who thinks less of you becase of size is deinitely not in it for love. Oh sre, guys with big ones attract more sexual partners, bu that's about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted September 13, 2014 Report Share Posted September 13, 2014 3 and 4 inches are VERY bad sizes and usually ruin the guys lives.And research shows women are not happy with such sizes.6 inches is fine though.and guess what …. guys like having a quite a few sexual partners…. your 'thats about it ' is a bizarre comment Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
u.r.what.u.is Posted September 13, 2014 Report Share Posted September 13, 2014 rock hard actually makes a world of difference. for me its like 0.5-1 inch difference from a 90% erection to a full blown diamond erectionmake sure you dont look at porn or else it will make it harder to get those full erections when the time comesI agreee with both things you said above. It's difficult for me to get the absolute 100% erect measurement because it doesn't last long, but it is a bit above 5", maybe 5.25".I have a sexual partner these days. It was difficult to achieve orgasm with her until I stopped masturbating. Now I have orgasms without effort. I still want to see porn images a lot but I refrain myself when I think about how much it affects sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DatDude90 Posted September 15, 2014 Report Share Posted September 15, 2014 I agreee with both things you said above. It's difficult for me to get the absolute 100% erect measurement because it doesn't last long, but it is a bit above 5", maybe 5.25".I have a sexual partner these days. It was difficult to achieve orgasm with her until I stopped masturbating. Now I have orgasms without effort. I still want to see porn images a lot but I refrain myself when I think about how much it affects sex.I never believed that watching porn could effect your ability to get an erection during sex. I watch porn regularly, have been since I was about 16 or 17, I'm 20 now. When it came time to have sex for my first time, I couldn't get it up to save my life. Pile that on top of the fact that I am already scarred because of my size, I now dread the day of my second attempt at sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
retsuud Posted September 15, 2014 Report Share Posted September 15, 2014 It is always affecting our lives and that's pretty messed up. We already kill ourselves by thinking about it and then the mocking, ridiculing and so on reminds us some more When I was on vacation last summer there was a guy who told a story about a raging goat that needed to be killed because he attacked his own and humans as well. A pretty fucked up goat it was. Turns out (after the killing) the goat was sexually frustrated because his penis couldn't extract enough to have sex with females.. The poor bastard was just angry because of the fact he couldn't have sex! Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Klingsor Posted September 15, 2014 Report Share Posted September 15, 2014 It is always affecting our lives and that's pretty messed up. We already kill ourselves by thinking about it and then the mocking, ridiculing and so on reminds us some more When I was on vacation last summer there was a guy who told a story about a raging goat that needed to be killed because he attacked his own and humans as well. A pretty fucked up goat it was. Turns out (after the killing) the goat was sexually frustrated because his penis couldn't extract enough to have sex with females.. The poor bastard was just angry because of the fact he couldn't have sex!ROFL...oh my god...that is the most brilliant post I have ever read on here.Like x10000 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted September 15, 2014 Report Share Posted September 15, 2014 if only the goat had joining us online here… we could have calmed him down…. Resolute and retsuud 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LouisZ Posted September 15, 2014 Author Report Share Posted September 15, 2014 BTW: How big was the goat??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Klingsor Posted September 15, 2014 Report Share Posted September 15, 2014 A fable worthy of Aesop himself. retsuud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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