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About Christians, the problem is you're judging them all as if they view Christianity the same way, when they don't. Many of them disagree on scriptures in the bible. Yes they may all identify as "Christian" but not all share the same opinions on what is the correct way to be a Christian. Some believe in eternal hell and some don't, and that's just one example.

So even with religions, there's different beliefs in those religions.

i totally agree,but folly combined with ignorance,there's no cure for that.

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Klingsor have you considered cognitive behavioural therapy? Seems like the best match to your thoughts of the world. Negative thoughts can destroy many a person's life and I don't think you should have to live with that :) I don't know how big a thing it is over in USA, but personally I believe it's the most powerful therapy there is, although not miraculous by any stretch of the imagination.

Good to read some of your posts again, interesting as always. I've came to the conclusion woman shouldn't come on here and tell you guys they like small penises, even when it's true, because it doesn't work. Better to come on here and try to improve your view of women, as a lot of you have obviously had some really bad experiences with women.

Sarah :) x

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Oh well Jessie in that case - I don't think there's anything wrong with 3 or 4 inch penises !

Skynight, never a truer word was spoken. Some of the people I've met in psychology scare the living crap out of me. God help their clients!

Klingsor, I may be a psychologist, but I am first and foremost a human being. I don't believe CBT can solve everything and I do believe that life sometimes is just fucking shit, excuse my French. I am a bit of a melancholy soul myself (I try to hide it!) and I do sometimes look at the world and think maybe there is a God. Who hates us all! I hope that instead you can find some peace with your life as it is. I believe that sometimes in life doing something, even something small, for someone else, can make your life have meaning. Talking to an elderly person who would otherwise not hear another human voice that day, looking after a friend in need or even posting on here to help someone means you've touched a life and thus your life is important and powerful. I know this sounds a bit like hippy malarkey but I really believe that nowadays most people want the biggest everything - biggest bank balance, biggest houses, biggest cars and byes biggest penises. Nobody seems to want to have the biggest heart. This more than anything makes me a melancholy soul.

On a lighter note, is there lots of fucking in Oklahoma? Nobody told me!

I live in Scotland and it's usually fucking baltic so I think it should be Scotfuckingland so we can bloody well keep warm!

;) x

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Klingsor have you considered cognitive behavioural therapy? Seems like the best match to your thoughts of the world. Negative thoughts can destroy many a person's life and I don't think you should have to live with that :) I don't know how big a thing it is over in USA, but personally I believe it's the most powerful therapy there is, although not miraculous by any stretch of the imagination.

Good to read some of your posts again, interesting as always. I've came to the conclusion woman shouldn't come on here and tell you guys they like small penises, even when it's true, because it doesn't work. Better to come on here and try to improve your view of women, as a lot of you have obviously had some really bad experiences with women.

Sarah :) x

I like her name...

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Here is a good example why they don't admit the truth to us.....True story, just happened last night. I recently met a woman and we've been texting back and forth getting to know each other. We were discussing the topic of sex and sexual preferences. When I eventually asked her size preference she responded by asking me what size I was. I got my answer right there although I asked again. She kept trying to dodge it until she finally gave a politician-like answer and pointed out what she likes about both large and small. The usual...small is good for anal and oral, big is better for regular sex. So now I know that regular intercourse with me will be, to some extent, a let down for her. It's not a deal breaker for her and she still wants to have sex. However, it is a deal breaker for me. So by being honest she ruined her chances. That has probably happened to a lot of women at some point in their lives. Or perhaps they've had to be the shoulder to cry on when their friend got dumped for saying the wrong thing. The point is that they know the consequences of being honest. Most guys are not going to be overjoyed by the fact that their girlfriend was honest with them and said that their ex had the dick of a porn star, and f*cked like one too.

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Here is a good example why they don't admit the truth to us.....True story, just happened last night. I recently met a woman and we've been texting back and forth getting to know each other. We were discussing the topic of sex and sexual preferences. When I eventually asked her size preference she responded by asking me what size I was. I got my answer right there although I asked again. She kept trying to dodge it until she finally gave a politician-like answer and pointed out what she likes about both large and small. The usual...small is good for anal and oral, big is better for regular sex. So now I know that regular intercourse with me will be, to some extent, a let down for her. It's not a deal breaker for her and she still wants to have sex. However, it is a deal breaker for me. So by being honest she ruined her chances. That has probably happened to a lot of women at some point in their lives. Or perhaps they've had to be the shoulder to cry on when their friend got dumped for saying the wrong thing. The point is that they know the consequences of being honest. Most guys are not going to be overjoyed by the fact that their girlfriend was honest with them and said that their ex had the dick of a porn star, and f*cked like one too.

did you tell her it ruined her chances? and what did she say to that?

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I just LOVE the "it's how you use it" theory. How the hell am I supposed to "use it" if I can't even get a CHANCE to "use" it? Being self-conscious and embarrassed about having a small penis puts a ridiculously low limit on how many "chances" you get. You have to be an amazingly strong person mentally to put yourself out there to say "fuck it" and approach woman without regards to what could happen when that woman sees such a small package is waiting for her. I certainly don't have that attitude - no matter how I wished I could be that way ...

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Biology is destiny - it's that simple. People who say "no it's not, you could work out or go to school or do other things to improve yourself" don't seem to understand that you are still confined to and constrained by YOUR biology when doing those things. I could work out every day and I will never get huge. That is not my physiology. Not that I give a shit, just using that as an example.

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Biology is destiny - it's that simple. People who say "no it's not, you could work out or go to school or do other things to improve yourself" don't seem to understand that you are still confined to and constrained by YOUR biology when doing those things. I could work out every day and I will never get huge. That is not my physiology. Not that I give a shit, just using that as an example.

not this again victim.

we are restricted and limited by our biology in most cases,yes,but two completely identical individuals (hypothetically) one of whom does the best he can with what he's got (no matter how little it is),while the other just keeps on saying "biology is destiny,so it doesn't matter what i do"; i think we all know that their lives would certainly be different from each other years down the road.

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