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I've said it before....I have been told by about 8 -10 females that I am small. It was not in anger. If you don't believe me about that then there's nothing I can say. But that is a large enough sample size to conclude that I am small in the eyes of a lot of females. I'm not dumb enough to assume that every female that thought I was small actually said something to me.

okay, fair enough; eight to ten women isn't insignificant.

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People that don't want to argue, just don't respond. People that want to make it seem like the other person's viewpoint is inferior continue to argue but then conclude with a statement about not wanting to be involved in a dumb argument. I will continue to defend my viewpoint. So if you don't want to argue, don't respond.

I wasn't referring to just articles about penis size. There have been studies with completely different results published in peer reviewed medical journals. Point being, just because it was published in a medical journal doesn't make it 100% accurate. And, yes, I will believe what I want. That's exactly what my point has been. I believe the women in my life more than any study.

Did you ever think that maybe those studies are fallible? I know, personally, I'm gonna be somewhat less hard if I'm being measured by a stranger in a clinical setting. That obviously affects size. The only way to truly get an accurate measurement is by having a doctor run into my room with a tape measure just as I'm about to insert my dick into a woman.

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Yeah you're probably right. Although you're giving me a little too much credit. I haven't been superior to most other men. I'm more attractive than average, yeah. But I'm pretty average in every other aspect I can think of. I'm not outgoing or extremely confident. I'm just an average guy with above average looks and below average dick.

I think part of it is a possession issue. When I feel like I can't satisfy my girlfriend as much as a past guy did then I feel like she's not fully mine. And if I feel that way then I won't feel as emotionally close to her. My anger toward women I think stems from that. I feel robbed by their desire to be "sexually liberated" when they're younger. It makes me want to throw it in their faces when they're ready for something serious and they think their past doesn't matter. It does matter. And its now a reason why I can never feel as close to her as I had always expected in a marriage. And I refuse to settle. I don't have to be my woman's best in a lot of areas. Sex isn't one of them.

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Skynight, I believe you are right. The idea of being the best is a fantasy. And that's where I think help for this issue lies. Nobody will ever convince us that we aren't smaller than average. Telling us that its in our heads just pisses us off. But if women will accept us then what's our problem. My problem is that I am making a fantasy (being the best) a requirement. But how does one change his thinking about that? If I can figure that out then there might be hope for me.

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90% of men are supposedly 7 inches or less in length. But let's assume that's nonsense. The man with the world's biggest penis is 13.5 inches long and if he was to chop his dick in half, he'd still be bigger then more then half of men. So what do we do? Just give up on sex because we can't compete with him? This idea of being the best is a fantasy that cannot be achieved.

this might be off-topic, but i've seen dicks in porn that make that 13.5" guy look like a shrimp,and not the jumbo type.

the point of course, is that beyond a certain threshold size starts to become a hindrance.

I think part of it is a possession issue. When I feel like I can't satisfy my girlfriend as much as a past guy did then I feel like she's not fully mine. And if I feel that way then I won't feel as emotionally close to her. My anger toward women I think stems from that. I feel robbed by their desire to be "sexually liberated" when they're younger. It makes me want to throw it in their faces when they're ready for something serious and they think their past doesn't matter. It does matter. And its now a reason why I can never feel as close to her as I had always expected in a marriage. And I refuse to settle. I don't have to be my woman's best in a lot of areas. Sex isn't one of them.

Skynight, I believe you are right. The idea of being the best is a fantasy. And that's where I think help for this issue lies. Nobody will ever convince us that we aren't smaller than average. Telling us that its in our heads just pisses us off. But if women will accept us then what's our problem. My problem is that I am making a fantasy (being the best) a requirement. But how does one change his thinking about that? If I can figure that out then there might be hope for me.

nytaiji, it occurs to me that your issue can be easily resolved by marrying a virgin; you'll certainly be her best.

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1- Finally, you have grasped it. 2- And in the case of the virgin, this would only work if both partners were innocent because if the man had been with other women and knew how "experienced" women view sexual attractiveness, he would still not be satisfied. You would have to keep the woman on a leash and isolate her from magazines, internet, television, society, and other women for her not to wonder.

This is part of the terrible inversion we live in - that women now have the power to participate in the great sexual game itself, not merely as prizes.

1- that means a lot coming from you.

2- surprisingly, that actually does make some sense.

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1- The sex game is a woman's and always has been, why? Because many men's ultimate goal is to get vagina and she's the one who possesses it. Which is why an empowered men refuses to be a slave to this. 2- And that doesn't mean "never have sex again" but it means not making it your focal reason for living in this world.

1- i can't completely agree with that. firstly because as you always say, a man will always be pulling the strings and calling the shots, and women are naturally drawn to that type of man. that's why a strong and smart man can still have much sex without endlessly chasing women.

2- i agree.

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Man's ultimate goal to get vagina is the ultimate goal precisely because it's the ultimate expression of one man's triumph over another, aside from killing him on the battlefield (whatever form that may take). If you want to look at it crudely and superficially, it's one man's sperm - "essence" - winning out over another's.

Women know this on an instinctual level, that they are "prizes", and they have empowered themselves with help from male subversives to manipulate this very fundamental contest between men to their own advantage. This is how they enslave men, and women are not the sole inheritors of this enslavement.

Whether or not I have the power to resist the urge to compete is irrelevant to the question of whether I can please them better than another man. In my case, I have no power to compete.

they don't enslave real men.

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It's been flipped the opposite way so men are chasing the woman and competing with each other when really it should be women competing with each other to get the man.

This is in complete contradiction to the rest of the natural world except perhaps some spiders which eat their mates after copulation. A good comparison to my final girlfriend.

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No, A man's natural state isn't to be chasing any woman. A woman is drawn to a strong man, who shouldn't have to chase or compete with any other men because the woman choose him. It's been flipped the opposite way so men are chasing the woman and competing with each other when really it should be women competing with each other to get the man.

very well said skynight; i really liked this post.

of course in my version, there's plenty of me for all (the hot) ladies; so they should compete, but just for rank and position (status), not for partnership :P .

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What is a real man, Resolute?

Is it a man who drags himself out of bed 5, sometimes 6, days a week to scratch out a living as an educated grease monkey despite his numerous handicaps so unemployed men can spend their week taking cheap shots at him on a small penis forum out of "boredom"?

In that case, I am proud to call myself a man.

a real man is a man who is a slave to nothing and no one. but (here comes another "cheap shot") i wouldn't expect someone like you to understand.

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Christianity imposed this "one man, one woman" concept on Western society and that is the problem because it deviates from human nature and the nature of all living things which is that the males best suited to survive should be the most reproductive. It is the nature of women to only be attracted to the alpha males. The answer is simple: give nature it's freedom. One man should be allowed to have as many wives as he can attract and women should be free to have multiple husbands. These idiotic rules are the reason Western birth rates are so low that they have to import non citizens just to adequately populate the nation.

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Except the Good Lord. Right, resolute? I'm so glad I pay my taxes so you can be a real man and a slave to nothing and no one.

you can rest assured that i'm not on any type of government (or other) compensation; so feel free to withhold those taxes partner.

and yes, i'm a slave to nothing and no one except the good lord indeed.

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And the other maned lions compete for alpha status. You've essentially come full circle back to where I started - that women are prizes for competing males. Male lions who take over a pride even eat the previous alpha's litters, if they have any, to assert total dominance over the pride.

yes dominance, but lions don't have big dicks though, so you're essentially making my point, that dominance (alpha status) isn't entirely determined by penis size.

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