Mardi Gras Posted November 17, 2014 Report Share Posted November 17, 2014 SPS is something I've struggled with for the better part of the past decade. I'm a lurker here, whenever something happens that seriously damages my self image I'll come read the recent posts for a few hours, feels better knowing I'm not alone. I guess if I'm posting then something just awful must've happened. I posted my story back in '11. I just don't get why women use jealousy and humiliation as a means to an end. I googled that exact phrase and the first several websites returned were Instructions on "How to use jealousy to get what you want" written from both the male and female perspective. Then I found a nice article about how jealousy is poison and has no place in relationships. I guess it's normal, a custom, a socially accepted norm. It doesn't make sense to me. When I can watch the power of my words build a person up, put a lasting smile on their face, a bounce in their step..........Gosh it just makes me feel so good. I love making other people feel good about themselves. I like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted November 17, 2014 Report Share Posted November 17, 2014 hi mardi, sorry you're feeling so bad; but ya, you're definitely not alone.nice profile pic by the way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted November 17, 2014 Report Share Posted November 17, 2014 Women use jealousy to get a guy to commit. It's like "if you don't want me then this other guy does". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mardi Gras Posted November 17, 2014 Author Report Share Posted November 17, 2014 Bambi is my fuckin' power animal.I don't think that's the right way to get a person to commit. Being genuine would probably work better for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
someone555 Posted November 18, 2014 Report Share Posted November 18, 2014 Bambi is my fuckin' power animal.I don't think that's the right way to get a person to commit. Being genuine would probably work better for me.lol i'm assuming you dont date much then. NOTHING in the dating world is genuine Victimorthecrime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted November 18, 2014 Report Share Posted November 18, 2014 lol i'm assuming you dont date much then. NOTHING in the dating world is genuinenow that's not entirely true; there's plenty of genuine scum in the dating world. nytaiji and someone555 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
woteva Posted November 21, 2014 Report Share Posted November 21, 2014 I think I'm becoming a misogynist. Lately, I'm having trouble connecting with women even on the most basic level. For example, I'll struggle to make eye contact with the girl working the cash register at the local deli. I know it's because I'm insecure but there's something inside of me starting to blame women (all of them) for my issues. I can't help but think all women are shallow, judgmental and hypocritical. Anonymous2014 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted November 21, 2014 Report Share Posted November 21, 2014 I think I'm becoming a misogynist. Lately, I'm having trouble connecting with women even on the most basic level. For example, I'll struggle to make eye contact with the girl working the cash register at the local deli. I know it's because I'm insecure but there's something inside of me starting to blame women (all of them) for my issues. I can't help but think all women are shallow, judgmental and hypocritical.you don't really believe that, do you? some women, of course, but it's almost impossible for a whole gender to be entirely bad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nytaiji Posted November 21, 2014 Report Share Posted November 21, 2014 woteva, I feel the same way. This issue has definitely affected how I view women. And not for the better. As long as they wear their slut badge with pride, I wear my misogynist badge with pride. Anonymous2014 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
woteva Posted November 21, 2014 Report Share Posted November 21, 2014 you don't really believe that, do you? some women, of course, but it's almost impossible for a whole gender to be entirely bad. When I apply a certain logic then I come to the conclusion that I'm wrong in thinking that way. But often I come back to the thought that maybe being judgmental and shallow is exactly how they're supposed to be. Same goes for men in reverse. Being shallow and judgmental is part of mate choice, a totally natural process. And maybe our SPS is part of that, too - we weed ourselves out of the whole process to make it easier for those members of the species who are capable of reproducing to get on with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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woteva Posted November 21, 2014 Report Share Posted November 21, 2014 Ahhh...intuition. Making a mockery of the Enlightenment and town hall debates since 1703. I don't get the reference(s). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mardi Gras Posted November 21, 2014 Author Report Share Posted November 21, 2014 lol i'm assuming you dont date much then. NOTHING in the dating world is genuineNo, I don't date much, I suck at it. I suck at bowling, hate that shit, too.you don't really believe that, do you? some women, of course, but it's almost impossible for a whole gender to be entirely bad.They are, overwhelmingly, a nasty race. Hateful to each other, most of all. I don't get the reference(s).me neitherAnd maybe our SPS is part of that, too - we weed ourselves out of the whole process to make it easier for those members of the species who are capable of reproducing to get on with it.This an irrational and negative thought and you need to purge it from your head. SPS is a disease the result of all the tripe being pandered in Western culture, not something 'mother nature' wove into the plan for natural selection. Nobody wanted you to have it except the nasty hateful shallow things being referenced in this thread. It most certainly, physically, cannot keep you from reproducing. (Some guy can chime in here, "But if you had a true micropenis conception would be difficult blah blah blah..." but no, not really, if the couple wanted a kid it would happen.)We learned SPS. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
woteva Posted November 21, 2014 Report Share Posted November 21, 2014 This an irrational and negative thought and you need to purge it from your head. SPS is a disease the result of all the tripe being pandered in Western culture, not something 'mother nature' wove into the plan for natural selection. Nobody wanted you to have it except the nasty hateful shallow things being referenced in this thread. It most certainly, physically, cannot keep you from reproducing. (Some guy can chime in here, "But if you had a true micropenis conception would be difficult blah blah blah..." but no, not really, if the couple wanted a kid it would happen.)We learned SPS. The Soviet-Ukrainian serial killer Chikatilo impregnated his wife by placing his semen inside her with his fingers. Of course there's a way. But that's not normal and it's not enjoyable. In other words, it's not sustainable. As for SPS being learned maybe I can agree. However, if we didn't have it before it means it was latent, and it was only a matter of women being liberated before we'd bear the full brunt of their scorn and ridicule. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Resolute Posted November 22, 2014 Report Share Posted November 22, 2014 When I apply a certain logic then I come to the conclusion that I'm wrong in thinking that way. But often I come back to the thought that maybe being judgmental and shallow is exactly how they're supposed to be. Same goes for men in reverse. Being shallow and judgmental is part of mate choice, a totally natural process. And maybe our SPS is part of that, too - we weed ourselves out of the whole process to make it easier for those members of the species who are capable of reproducing to get on with it.if you believe in "nature" and "evolution", i've already been down that road with other members, and i don't wanna start that debate again.This an irrational and negative thought and you need to purge it from your head. SPS is a disease the result of all the tripe being pandered in Western culture, not something 'mother nature' wove into the plan for natural selection. Nobody wanted you to have it except the nasty hateful shallow things being referenced in this thread. It most certainly, physically, cannot keep you from reproducing. (Some guy can chime in here, "But if you had a true micropenis conception would be difficult blah blah blah..." but no, not really, if the couple wanted a kid it would happen.)We learned SPS.some of what you say is true for sps but not for actual small penis. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Resolute Posted November 23, 2014 Report Share Posted November 23, 2014 I bet Vladimir Klitschko has a positively gargantuan cock. I would love to hear the sound a woman makes getting fucked by that giant. I'm sure Victoria Nuland has been pulverized by him more than once on diplomatic visits. Could this be the reason she flippantly said, "fuck the EU" in that phone tape because she was really thinking about Vladi's enormous uncut Ukrainian schlong?you really seem to have a thing for uncut dicks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Resolute Posted November 23, 2014 Report Share Posted November 23, 2014 Well, considering I had mine sliced on by a doctor when I was just a mewling baby straight out of my mother's womb while my screaming protestations went ignored and the fact that there has been research into circumcision and penis size, then yes, I suppose I do have a thing for uncut dicks. Circumcision is a horrendous violation.this is the first i hear of this research. do you have a link or something? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Resolute Posted November 23, 2014 Report Share Posted November 23, 2014 No, resolute, I don't. I actually pulled it out of my ass.i'm serious. i haven't read this anywhere. i'm not calling you a liar, just requesting info. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Jessie Posted November 23, 2014 Report Share Posted November 23, 2014 i agree that circumcision is a violation. I'm glad I'm uncut.but i myself hadn't seen a link between penis size and circumcision till I looked it up 5 mins ago.An Australian study in 1995 found an 8mm erection difference which is quite small.But this is inconclusive because i dont know the details/size of the study and there maybe an ethnic/political propensity for circumcision which may account for the 8 mm difference anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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