Anonymous2014 Posted January 3, 2015 Report Share Posted January 3, 2015 Yes I agree, I guess I might as well become a homosexual. And get accustomed to taking d**** in the a** ( im not a homophobe) I feel like im not good enough for women I cant even look at women anymore because when I do I feel shame and anger not at them but they represent the one thing in this life that no matter what I do I this life everytime I take off my pants or use the bathroom im reminded of my pain I have a better chance at being a gay man than a straight man no woman could ever be happy with a small penis and even if they are deep down they must be as damaged as we are but everytime I fell that guys like us still have a chance some jacka** always confirms my darkest fears im angry at society that humiliates us and acts as if they know what we go throughWhich jacka**?Look, I know for a fact that my brother is at least an inch smaller than me, yet he slept with 5times as many women as me(over 100) Why? Confidence and Charisma. He doesn't give a f*ck If her previous partnerwas 10 inches. If it doesn't suit her, the door is that way. He also doesn't spend time on forumsworrying weather she's satisfied. Call it what you want, but they chase him and come back for secondsand thirds. I used to share an apartment with him when I was broke."Not good enough for women"? you're giving them too much powerDo yourself a favor: get an escort...they are paid well and won't laugh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CNL Posted January 3, 2015 Report Share Posted January 3, 2015 I don’t think my SPS would affect me if I had paid for sex, but I have no interest in doing that. Maybe I wouldn’t care in the context of a one night stand either. But the entire point is that when I do care about a woman, I can’t help caring about her sexual satisfaction. The very thing that separates romantic fulfillment from a quickie with an escort is pride in the reflection you see in the opinions of the woman, or in this case in the reactions of her body, and I know that all I will ever see is something that isn’t even half of what almost any other man is capable of. It almost makes me feel like I’d be depriving them of sex the way it is actually supposed to be, and in a way it means that no woman on this planet can make me feel the way that I want to feel, just as I can’t make them feel what I’d want them to, and what many woman admit to needing.It seems so irrational every time I think about it, and intellectually I know that I shouldn’t care that much even in the context of a relationship, but since when have feelings made sense? I experience involuntary reactions to the opinions of random strangers on the internet. How am I to ignore something that is immeasurably more hurtful and directly pinned to my most vulnerable point? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted January 3, 2015 Report Share Posted January 3, 2015 I don’t think my SPS would affect me if I had paid for sex, but I have no interest in doing that. Maybe I wouldn’t care in the context of a one night stand either. But the entire point is that when I do care about a woman, I can’t help caring about her sexual satisfaction. The very thing that separates romantic fulfillment from a quickie with an escort is pride in the reflection you see in the opinions of the woman, or in this case in the reactions of her body, and I know that all I will ever see is something that isn’t even half of what almost any other man is capable of. It almost makes me feel like I’d be depriving them of sex the way it is actually supposed to be, 1- and in a way it means that no woman on this planet can make me feel the way that I want to feel, just as I can’t make them feel what I’d want them to, and what many woman admit to needing.2- It seems so irrational every time I think about it, and intellectually I know that I shouldn’t care that much even in the context of a relationship, but since when have feelings made sense? I experience involuntary reactions to the opinions of random strangers on the internet. How am I to ignore something that is immeasurably more hurtful and directly pinned to my most vulnerable point?1- i believe that size matters (among other things) as much as any one, but just as there are guys with small penises, there are also women with small vaginas (that's not just theoretical, i know for a fact). since your concern is more about a long term relationship rather than casual sex, your problem should be easier to address.2- i don't think these types of feelings are that irrational. most people care about how they're perceived, more or less. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymous2014 Posted January 3, 2015 Report Share Posted January 3, 2015 I don’t think my SPS would affect me if I had paid for sex, but I have no interest in doing that. Maybe I wouldn’t care in the context of a one night stand either. But the entire point is that when I do care about a woman, I can’t help caring about her sexual satisfaction. The very thing that separates romantic fulfillment from a quickie with an escort is pride in the reflection you see in the opinions of the woman, or in this case in the reactions of her body, and I know that all I will ever see is something that isn’t even half of what almost any other man is capable of. It almost makes me feel like I’d be depriving them of sex the way it is actually supposed to be, and in a way it means that no woman on this planet can make me feel the way that I want to feel, just as I can’t make them feel what I’d want them to, and what many woman admit to needing.It seems so irrational every time I think about it, and intellectually I know that I shouldn’t care that much even in the context of a relationship, but since when have feelings made sense? I experience involuntary reactions to the opinions of random strangers on the internet. How am I to ignore something that is immeasurably more hurtful and directly pinned to my most vulnerable point?I wasn't implying that he should spend the rest of his life with escorts, but given the way he feelsnow, I think it might do him some good. There is nothing wrong with relationships, but given his currentmental state, an escort would be simpler. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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someone555 Posted January 4, 2015 Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 Someone,I thought you were a player. Why are you suddenly talking about paraplegics?i try to be sexually active, but haven't had sex in like 5 months. my thought process in the last post was maybe to get some of us thinking that, to other people, we are "the lucky ones" maybe not as lucky as the beautiful hung people, but much luckier than themand actually last month while foolin around with a girl (she is a virgin and hasnt seen many dicks) we didnt have sex, but fondling naked and stuff. now we were both DRUNK. and i had done a little coke that night too so as you know its hard to get an erection. now i dont even know if i was fully erect or not, but she used the word "tiny". and that is actually my first ever direct experience of a girl bashing my dick. and that kinda hurt. but anyways she was wanting a relationship and saving sex for marraige, and i had no intent on dating her or waiting that long, so of course things stopped a few weeks after that.1- i believe that size matters (among other things) as much as any one, but just as there are guys with small penises, there are also women with small vaginas (that's not just theoretical, i know for a fact). since your concern is more about a long term relationship rather than casual sex, your problem should be easier to address.2- i don't think these types of feelings are that irrational. most people care about how they're perceived, more or less.always remember, as a statistic, 50% of vagina's are tighter than average. 50% are looser. so if you're lucky, you'll find a tighter one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted January 4, 2015 Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 Remember that even women with tight vaginas prefer medium to large penises.Of the UCLA study 16% of women were unhappy with their partners size (too small)This is the exact percentage of men 1sd below average on a bell curve distribution.A recent study put the ideal penis at NBP 6.5 and 'thick".So that translates to a BP 7.25 x 6 approx.The average Caucasian penis is BP 6 x 5 approxThere are plenty of articles with women saying they are relatively tight and could not possibly handle a large dick but wouldn't tolerate a small one either.Just a reality check guys… nytaiji and Victimorthecrime 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robert Posted January 4, 2015 Author Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 Your all right I just wish the women who didnt care about size please speak up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymous2014 Posted January 4, 2015 Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 Your all right I just wish the women who didnt care about size please speak upDon't we all? Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way...and if you ask a girl if she's a size queenyou are basically telling her that you are either self conscious about your size or have low self-esteem(which in the eyes of some, amounts to the same thing). However, you can be subtle when talkingto a girl and find out how she feels. Last week, I told one my spam folder was inundated with ads forpenis-enlargement products, and she responded that these companies appeal to guy's unfounded insecurities for which we can thank the internet. I think we have a winner. Victimorthecrime and mts 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymous2014 Posted January 4, 2015 Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 i try to be sexually active, but haven't had sex in like 5 months. my thought process in the last post was maybe to get some of us thinking that, to other people, we are "the lucky ones" maybe not as lucky as the beautiful hung people, but much luckier than themand actually last month while foolin around with a girl (she is a virgin and hasnt seen many dicks) we didnt have sex, but fondling naked and stuff. now we were both DRUNK. and i had done a little coke that night too so as you know its hard to get an erection. now i dont even know if i was fully erect or not, but she used the word "tiny". and that is actually my first ever direct experience of a girl bashing my dick. and that kinda hurt. but anyways she was wanting a relationship and saving sex for marraige, and i had no intent on dating her or waiting that long, so of course things stopped a few weeks after that.always remember, as a statistic, 50% of vagina's are tighter than average. 50% are looser. so if you're lucky, you'll find a tighter one.The reality is even guys who are considered average according to "scientific research"get negative remarks by SOME girls. You said yourself it's the first time you had ever gottennegative feedback, so why get down because of one stupid girl. Keep plugging away dude.I mentioned on a previous post that my younger brother is smaller than me but has had farmore success. He doesn't often get negative comments because he establishes himself as an alphamale before getting to the point in question. Yes, he's had a few negative remarks, but he keepsmoving forward. Don't let one stupid girl get you down. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted January 4, 2015 Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 Just a reality check guys…Uggh, another one? Ok everyone, turn you head and cough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted January 4, 2015 Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 A recent study put the ideal penis at NBP 6.5 and 'thick".So that translates to a BP 7.25 x 6 approx.As John Fogerty famously screamed "It ain't me! It ain't me! I ain't no fortunate one!!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted January 4, 2015 Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 I mentioned on a previous post that my younger brother is smaller than me but has had farmore success. He doesn't often get negative comments because he establishes himself as an alpha male before getting to the point in question. Yes, he's had a few negative remarks, but he keeps moving forward. Don't let one stupid girl get you down.Yeah but does he get repeat business? That's the satisfaction test. Don't get me wrong, I agree w you, see my post "Roger and Leo and me" about Roger who is big and gets zero action and Leo who is small and gets plenty. I think what arouses women is a natural toughness and roughness, not a fake put on - they can see thru that, but a masculine confidence, a guy who is in charge of himself and his life and is willing to face the beat downs that come w success. Just my opinion, I know not everyone agrees so all good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymous2014 Posted January 4, 2015 Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 Yeah but does he get repeat business? That's the satisfaction test.Don't get me wrong, I agree w you, see my post "Roger and Leo and me" about Roger who is big and gets zero action and Leo who is small and gets plenty. I think what arouses women is a natural toughness and roughness, not a fake put on - they can see thru that, but a masculine confidence, a guy who is in charge of himself and his life and is willing to face the beat downs that come w success.Just my opinion, I know not everyone agrees so all good.Yes, he sure does, and he's had long-term relationships where woman chose him over guys that aresignificantly larger. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted January 4, 2015 Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 Yes, he sure does, and he's had long-term relationships where woman chose him over guys that aresignificantly larger.Please have him log onto this forum to disclose his strategy & tactics ha ha Hey it's good to hear about his success. I'd be happy w a female just to hang out with for starters. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymous2014 Posted January 4, 2015 Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 Please have him log onto this forum to disclose his strategy & tactics ha haHey it's good to hear about his success.I'd be happy w a female just to hang out with for starters.LOL. I will see what I can do. As for hanging out with females (possibly for the sake of getting comfortable around them, while this makes intuitive sense based onthe way a guy's brain works, women are anything but logical, so if you run into oneyou actually want to ultimately sleep with, you have to let them know this rather quickly. I have had to learn the hard way that the more time that elapses while the two of you are nothing more than sexless friends, the more difficult it will be toget her out of the dreaded "friend zone". These days, I make it crystal clear to a woman I find attractive, that I'm not looking for another friend. If she doesn't feel the same way, but asks,"Why can't we just be friends"? I say guys need lovers, not friends....the TV is our friend. Victimorthecrime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest glennj Posted January 4, 2015 Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 His brain that's what makes him successful with women.Good brain + bad penis = success.Bad brain + bad penis = no success and you get to hang out hereBad brain + good penis = hit and missGood brain + good penis = gold Jerry, gold. Victimorthecrime and Anonymous2014 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robert Posted January 4, 2015 Author Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 Life sucks I guess I feel like guys like us are missing out on life or at least I am but what can you do Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest glennj Posted January 4, 2015 Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 Life sucks I guess I feel like guys like us are missing out on life or at least I am but what can you doYou can try and overcome your irrational fears and actually try and meet a woman who will love you for you and not your penis.Guys with small penises have been walking the earth since day one. The vast majority of them have dated and married women and had fulfilling sex lives.It's what is in your head and the thoughts you allow to poison your mind that prevents you from being one of those guys.I think if you took the leap and faced your deepest fears the chances are very strong that you would find your fears were unfounded.It's kinda like parachuting the first time. Your fear is that the chute won't open and you'll hit the ground and die. But you conquer your fear and jump. You glide down and touch the ground safely. "Fuck yeah. I wanna do that again". Sure there's always a very slim chance it might not open.Are you going to deny yourself a life of love and sex because of something that might happen? Anonymous2014 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymous2014 Posted January 4, 2015 Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 His brain that's what makes him successful with women.Good brain + bad penis = success.Bad brain + bad penis = no success and you get to hang out hereBad brain + good penis = hit and missGood brain + good penis = gold Jerry, gold.It's funny that you mentioned that, Glenn, as I was going to sayhe is the epitome of Glenn's right brain/wrong penis theory.He is living proof that it can be done. DatDude90 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest glennj Posted January 4, 2015 Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 It's funny that you mentioned that, Glenn, as I was going to sayhe is the epitome of Glenn's right brain/wrong penis theory.He is living proof that it can be done.Yep and it's proof that it's not the penis that needs fixing but the brain. Let's face it until they come up with a genuine way of giving guys a bigger fully functioning penis it's going to be better to focus on fixing your mind. It's difficult because guys have been living with this shit inside their heads for a long time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymous2014 Posted January 4, 2015 Report Share Posted January 4, 2015 Yep and it's proof that it's not the penis that needs fixing but the brain. Let's face it until they come up with a genuine way of giving guys a bigger fully functioning penis it's going to be better to focus on fixing your mind. It's difficult because guys have been living with this shit inside their heads for a long time.Agreed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DatDude90 Posted January 5, 2015 Report Share Posted January 5, 2015 Remember that even women with tight vaginas prefer medium to large penises.Of the UCLA study 16% of women were unhappy with their partners size (too small)This is the exact percentage of men 1sd below average on a bell curve distribution.A recent study put the ideal penis at NBP 6.5 and 'thick".So that translates to a BP 7.25 x 6 approx.The average Caucasian penis is BP 6 x 5 approxThere are plenty of articles with women saying they are relatively tight and could not possibly handle a large dick but wouldn't tolerate a small one either.Just a reality check guys…I've often heard (by females) the general preferred size is 7-7.5x5.5-6, so this doesn't surprise me. I'm willing to bet every single happily married man does not fall under that category of measurements, so when you think about it, majority of women settle for a smaller size in the long run. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted January 5, 2015 Report Share Posted January 5, 2015 I've often heard (by females) the general preferred size is 7-7.5x5.5-6, so this doesn't surprise me. I'm willing to bet every single happily married man does not fall under that category of measurements, so when you think about it, majority of women settle for a smaller size in the long run.I agree but here's a disturbing thought: in today's world how hard is it for a woman who has 'settled' to unsettle and find an occasional partner who has the desired attributes? Jessie and AdamC. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted January 5, 2015 Report Share Posted January 5, 2015 You can try and overcome your irrational fears and actually try and meet a woman who will love you for you and not your penis.Guys with small penises have been walking the earth since day one. The vast majority of them have dated and married women and had fulfilling sex lives.I dont think I can agree with the comments above.The fears are very rational.I think I and many others have provided lots of direct and indirect evidence,Put aside the fact that all my partners have rejected me due to size what about the articles, clips and studies?Fact is if I guy is small its statistically almost certain his partner will be dissatisfied with his size. (UCLA)ps that study was skewed towards good news because it excluded celibate small men (as by definition they dont have female partners to survey)pps I am all for positive thinking but out and out fibbing is not good long-term. nytaiji 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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