Cool perspective on guy with large penises...fml

[Wastedlife]

I haven’t found one post where they would want to be smaller, some of them even wanted bigger. Most of them mention crazy sexual experiences solely based on their penis size. We are basically shit you scrape of the bottom of your shoes in society with our less then 5 inches…I wish I could kill myself and exit this shit hole life…

http://www.reddit.co...d_a_small_dick/

[robert]

Im already there, I have a mossberg 500 that I could lend you. I have no more fight left in me to live.I wish I could tell you that there is hope all I can say is I hope there is better luck on the other side if there is one or if there is a god when I decide to end my life im making sure its a 45 cal. So I have no chance of coming back it might be a big mess afterwards but who cares ill be dead and at last finally happy

[Guest glennj]

I know it sucks being on the wrong end of this but reading shit like that feeds the bad feelings you have about yourself.

Most of that crap is fake anyway. Always have a healthy dose of skepticism when reading stuff on the internet. On the majority of these sites anyone can post so you get a good deal of guys posting shit just to get reactions and most "women" aren't women at all.

[Resolute]

Yet to have confidence with women, these men still need a big penis. Do they not realise that confidence is an internal feeling of how you feel about yourself and not what you have to prove yourself to others. That is not real confidence, and I know I will likely be shot down for saying this, but regardless I know now that it isn't. So to me these men ( at least on many of the posts I read) are still needing a woman to make them feel good, and their way of getting that is through a woman admiring their big dick. If they didn't have that, then their life would be shit. So they don't feel good about themselves unless a woman makes them feel good about themselves. And that's not to say you can't have a big dick and be generally confident, but if you "need " a woman to feel good then that type of man has a fake confidence dependent on needing to show off and get positive reciprocation to feel good. Without that, their life sucks.

i agree that real confidence must be from within rather than from outside, but i don't believe internal confidence is genuinely achievable for most people, so external validation is the next best thing. the problem is, miserable people like us can't have either.

[PenisTruth]

i agree that real confidence must be from within rather than from outside, but i don't believe internal confidence is genuinely achievable for most people, so external validation is the next best thing. the problem is, miserable people like us can't have either.

Belief is a choice.

Why do you choose to believe that internal self-belief based confidence is not likely?

Since, by definition the internal is not dependant or rely on anything external - what is there to obstruct or impede a person from achieving it?

I'll tell you what I sense is the elusive obvious obstacle, simply: doubt.

Nothing more.

Where is that doubt coming from? What is its origin or genesis?

[Resolute]

1- Belief is a choice.

2- Why do you choose to believe that internal self-belief based confidence is not likely?

3- Since, by definition the internal is not dependant or rely on anything external - what is there to obstruct or impede a person from achieving it?

4- I'll tell you what I sense is the elusive obvious obstacle, simply: doubt.

Nothing more.

5- Where is that doubt coming from? What is its origin or genesis?

1- i agree, to an extent.

2- i choose to believe it's not likely, based on the evidence and indications (others' experiences and my own, plus research, thought, and deductive reasoning).

3- i'll refer you to small's last couple of posts. he mentions upbringing, early childhood experiences, etc..

4- okay, doubt is the obstacle, how do we eliminate and get rid of doubt?

5- i have no idea.

[Resolute]

This is because we're taught in society that we need to impress and be admired for something to feel good. 1- If you think of some great inventors or artists, many of them had no desire to admired, they didn't care about impressing women to get something back to feel good. Their goal was to change the world in some way or do something for themselves that made them feel good without needing it from someone else. The problem is, not everyone is going to like us, and even more so women in particular know if a man is looking for a woman to like him for his status, looks etc... and they will view it as a weakness because he is insecure and in some cases not being true to himself and so is fake. That's not to say you can't have status, looks and a big dick and not need a woman's admiration to feel good. 2- But you can also feel good as a man and not have any of these things, the problem is, most men don't realise that and many men never will know how to feel that way, 3- but it may explain why there are some men out there who for example, may have a small penis and it doesn't bother them. Now you could say these men are just in denial but they may just not give a damn.

1- i could easily argue that their childhood experiences, upbringing, and/or good relationship with their parents helped them be that way, and influenced their self image in a positive way.

2- well, if you have none of those things or a proper childhood and upbringing, what's left?

3- i'd say that at least some of them are certainly deceiving themselves.

[PenisTruth]

Everyone miss this comment?

From the satirical BDP page, linked to by the Original Thread Poster,

7" x 5.6" 1 point 11 months ago

I definitely hear where you're coming from.

My most recent relationship was what I thought would be "the one" but ultimately my size was an issue because she was extremely petite in the vagina, if you will. There's a hole for every pole - not all women want or even enjoy the bigger ones. For that woman I would have gladly given up some size to be able to stay with her. It goes both ways I guess.

[Resolute]

1.The problem with the childhood upbringing is we know there are some people who have had terrible childhoods and made something of themselves.

2. Like I said, it's just how you feel about yourself and can't often be explained by status or upbringing.

3. Some of them may be, but then they aren't confident if they are.

1- you got me there. i'll just wait and see what small thinks about this.

3- i meant misplaced confidence. some people, under certain circumstances, need to "worry" and even take certain precautions.

[Guest glennj]

Sometimes I feel confident most of the time I don't. It comes and goes. Doesn't really change things in the long run.

[Resolute]

@ small, i didn't quite understand your last post, in which you just quoted skynight without replying.

[Resolute]

excellent piece, small.

[Guest glennj]

(You bought success up, not me. I was expanding on your objection lol)

I've never said it's a hundred percent. There are many variables that play a role, which can effect the outcome. These include biological factors such as intelligence and genetic predisposition, physical attributes that increase desirability, and social circumstances such class and money.

As for humans being dynamic, that made me laugh. Social learning is the most rudimentary and reductive explanation of human behaviour out there. Your interpretation of "the media and society tell us..." is by far more shallow than my proposed theory.

Anyway, I see a consistent theme whenever you and I lock intellectual horns. I talk about detailed and complex psychological processes to explain behaviour, then you mention that it's probably not always the case and treat me to a vague spiel on media influence.

Read our posts back and look at the difference in depth and explanation. Anyway, I'm pretty much done trying to explain things on here. I think it generally goes over your head, and your inability to comprehend my esoteric points make the swapping of notes pretty...unproductive.

I think I'm going to take a step back and put this into perspective. I'm a complete stranger on the Interwebz. I had to go to school to learn this shit and I'm whoring it out on here for the lofty price of being told I'm an idiot. I'd rather drink goblin piss.

For the record, I agree with some of your sociological views when it comes to women and the breakdown of the nuclear family. Its pretty on the money. I don't blame you for being unable to comprehend what I say either. Outside of school, most people give me that "What are you talking about?" squinty-eyed head-tilted tard-face look.

But yeah whatever man. Let's agree to disagree. I'm happy to watch you wave the flag of operant and classical conditioning that Skinner so proudly graced us with. Poor dogs eh? The media do at the very least attempt to condition us into a lulled state of idiocy anyway. So they deserve your rage, dude, it's the least they deserve.

I'm going to delete some of my posts. It doesn't feel right sharing something that's precious to me with morons who shit on anything they can't fathom.

Damn.

[IrmaJean]

1.The problem with the childhood upbringing is we know there are some people who have had terrible childhoods and made something of themselves.

There are so many variables involved that can lead to emotional struggles. Not every person will be affected by life situations in the same way. Attachment styles (formed during the first early relationships with caregivers), genetic tendencies, environment, experience, just to name a few...I tend to believe that everyone has some struggles at some point in time during their lives...part of being human. I do believe that things can improve. They sure have for me. That doesn't mean I don't still struggle or that I feel 100% confident all the time, but definite improvement. There is a space for healing, I believe, if one allows for the possibility of it.

As far as "success" in life....I feel that is a subjective term and may have very different meaning for each person.

My 2 cents...

Always wishing all of you well.

[TimmyStan1967]

I will add this without having read many of the comments on this thread. My best friend who unfortuneately is not with us anymore was hung like a mule. I remember as kids growing up and going through puberty. While my tiny dick stayed just that, his penis that was already big before puberty grew to porn actor dememsions in 8th grade, yet despite the fact he was an OK looking guy he really never had what it took to land women despite his appendage. I guess he proved beyond all doubt that I big tool alone isn't enough to have great luck with the ladies.

[Lukaz]

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[u.r.what.u.is]

Yes, there is such a thing as too big for some women. Average size works great possibly in the majority of cases....it just doesn't come with the Wow factor that some shallow women need.