I Wonder Why

[Wutty3]

>>>Why is it so hard to believe there are women who have smaller vaginas or women who really don't give a shit about size?<<<

Glennj, I assume you've read many of the posts by the men in this sub-forum. Why do you think it's so hard for many of us to believe there are such women out there? There comes a time when exercises in futility become just that. An exercise in futility.

[Guest Merkwürdigliebe]

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[Victimorthecrime]

There once was a gal named Cass

Who said "there are those preferring a smaller one. I'm such a lass".

For a gent she kindly bent

but upon looking down she said with frown:

"I'd didn't know my hole from my ass".

[Resolute]

where the hell do you come up with this stuff?

[CNL]

How do you know? you know women better than they know themselves.

Why is it so hard to believe there are women who have smaller vaginas or women who really don't give a shit about size?

Because there are too many variables. This woman with a small vagina may well consider a penis of 5x5 dimensions to be small. Perhaps she only wants 4.5 in girth, which is still no comfort to many of us here. Not to mention all the different perceptions of what is short and not short. That sort of hypercritical fretting may seem strange, but it is the nature of SPS, and in my opinion it is also justified because women themselves cite a huge difference between 5 and 5.5 inches girth. Why wouldn't similar gaps on the scale from 3 to 5 inches girth also be noticeable? And I can't speak for anyone else, but I don't care if a woman doesn't care about size. I care if her neurons react more to more size. That is what makes me feel insecure, not her opinion.

It would help in some ways to know that she doesn't mind giving up some pleasure, but it's far from a cure.

[Guest glennj]

And even if you do manage to find one, so what? What does it prove? I'm sure if you had the leisure and energy to search among all the billions of women in the world, you would eventually find one who, for whatever bizarre reasons, preferred a man in a wheelchair, a man who is fat, a man who couldn't drive, a man who wears a toupee, a man who [insert]...there are exceptions and deviations to everything.

All you have to do is go to this site any day of the week, any time of the day, look at the active user list, and observe the fact that the vast majority of active users at any one time (as in 75-95%) are either viewing topics related to fears of pedophilia or small penis syndrome, and the SPS forum always trumps the pedophilia. There are only two conclusions you can draw: there is either a collective mass obsession/delusion among the civilized world surrounding penises and their size, or size does indeed matter. It's as simple as that, and the rest is just chatter over minutia.

It's also very telling that the primary argument against size matters is the statistical argument based on some interpretation of averages, yet, this same argument is thrown out the window when women are discussed because we're incessantly reminded that "not all women are the same". Well, not all dicks are the same either. The argument is contradictory.

I'm not even sure what it is you're saying.

I do know that not all women think or feel the same way. To assume they do is ludicrous. That's no different than saying all men think or feel the same way about anything.

Guys with small dicks have been dating, marrying and fucking women with no problem since day one.

[Guest glennj]

women themselves cite a huge difference between 5 and 5.5 inches girth.

Garbage. Assuming we're talking about circumference and not width .5" difference in circumference is negligible. I seriously doubt any woman would even notice the difference never mind it being a "huge" difference"

A small vagina is going to struggle with 5 x 5. Women with truly small vaginas have problems getting their finger inside. A 5 x 5 penis is huge compared to a woman's finger.

[CNL]

It may not be a "huge" difference, but to say it isn't noticeable is indeed ludicrous. You'd be insane to say that there is no difference between 5.5 and 4.5, which is the difference between giving a woman the feeling of fullness and not giving a woman the feeling of fullness, a feeling that countless women claim to covet. That is obviously a considerable gap. Half of a considerable gap is not unnoticeable.

And I'm not going to go dig through forum posts like I did several years ago because it would take too much time and I don't want to crush my self esteem again, but I got that exact number from women, not my own speculation. Like many men I was obsessed enough to pull out a piece of string and do the whole shit, and it doesn't seem far fetched to me. In the grip of my hand I can easily perceive a .5 inch difference in circumference.

And I'll just take your word for it about the women I guess. Sounds like an anomaly so I don't really care.

[Guest Merkwürdigliebe]

I'm not even sure what it is you're saying.

That makes two of us Glenn because there is such an inconsistency in the things you post that I really haven't figured out exactly why you're even here.

[Guest glennj]

It may not be a "huge" difference, but to say it isn't noticeable is indeed ludicrous. You'd be insane to say that there is no difference between 5.5 and 4.5

That's not what you said in your earlier post. You originally said "women themselves cite a huge difference between 5 and 5.5 inches girth" not 5.5 and 4.5.

They will notice some difference between 5.5 and 4.5 but still not a whole lot of difference.

[Guest glennj]

That makes two of us Glenn because there is such an inconsistency in the things you post that I really haven't figured out exactly why you're even here.

Boredom mostly. I'm not sure why most people are here other than to rehash the same old stuff over and over. If you're unable or unwilling to change your outlook or change the way you see yourself or the world around you then what do you ever expect to change? You think the women in the world are suddenly going to change the way they feel?

I don't see any inconsistency in what I post.

[CNL]

That's not what you said in your earlier post. You originally said "women themselves cite a huge difference between 5 and 5.5 inches girth" not 5.5 and 4.5.

They will notice some difference between 5.5 and 4.5 but still not a whole lot of difference.

I know that's not what I said. My point was that there is a big difference between 4.5 and 5.5, and that if you grant this it becomes easier to see why I don't think half of a big difference is something that isn't noticeable.

As for you thinking that 4.5 and 5.5 are not hugely different, well, all of the testimony I have ever read says differently. 5.5 gives the feeling of being stretched. 4.5 doesn't. How different is the physical sensation? I don't know; I don't have a vagina. Does the extra girth and the feeling of fullness have a psychological effect on women that many of them like? There is demonstrable proof of that which cannot be ignored. It is everywhere. Dozens of times I have read it. I have seen and heard the difference in reliably amateur porn. There is testimony from posters on this site. If you do not accept that then I guess we have to agree to disagree. Women think there are thin ones and thick ones, and most of them prefer thick ones. That is just a fact. If you don't think the change happens somewhere between 4.5 and 5.5, how frigging thick do you think a penis has to be for the distinction to become meaningful?

I'm probably being too negative anyway. I hope people here find a woman with a small vagina like the ones you say exist.

[Resolute]

That's not what you said in your earlier post. You originally said "women themselves cite a huge difference between 5 and 5.5 inches girth" not 5.5 and 4.5.

They will notice some difference between 5.5 and 4.5 but still not a whole lot of difference.

i'm sorry, but i'm gonna have to strongly disagree here, glenn. there's a greatly noticeable difference between 4".5 and 5".5 girth to women.

[Resolute]

but i will say this, there certainly are women with considerably smaller vaginas who definitely prefer smaller penises.

i really don't even think the existence of such women is debatable, just their abundance and distribution amongst different populations.

[CNL]

I mean, good god. I didn't want to resort to this, but stick something that is 4.5 inches around in your ass and then stick something that's 5.5 inches around inside. You'll see just how "negligible" it is.

By the way it isn't, and I highly recommend not trying the latter.

[Resolute]

I mean, good god. I didn't want to resort to this, but stick something that is 4.5 inches around in your ass and then stick something that's 5.5 inches around inside. You'll see just how "negligible" it is.

By the way it isn't, and I highly recommend not trying the latter.

i highly recommend not trying the former either, or anything below that even.

[CNL]

i highly recommend not trying the former either, or anything below that even.

Good point.

[Guest glennj]

Women think there are thin ones and thick ones, and most of them prefer thick ones. That is just a fact.

Most. Most is not all. That's the point I've been trying to make. Sure most women prefer a thicker penis. Most men prefer a woman with a perfect body and perfect breasts etc etc.

You just have to realize that to women there is more to a guy than his penis. We're the ones that put all the emphasis on it not women. I'm not saying there aren't women who talk about it and some even make it a somewhat big deal but the larger portion of the female population don't see it as a big deal. There are a lot of women out there married or dating guys with a small dick. They obviously knew he had a small dick before they married him but did it anyway. Because for women there are things more important than sex or the size of the guys dick.

If you're looking to just play the field and get laid with as many girls as you can then you may run into some problems. Without the emotional attachment women can be more selective with the guys they sleep with. Even so there are guys with small dicks who have slept with many women and had few problems.

[Guest glennj]

I mean, good god. I didn't want to resort to this, but stick something that is 4.5 inches around in your ass and then stick something that's 5.5 inches around inside. You'll see just how "negligible" it is.

By the way it isn't, and I highly recommend not trying the latter.

I never said the difference between 5.5 and 4.5 was negligible. The negligible remark was concerning the difference between 5.0 and 5.5.

I had a doctors finger in my ass once and hopefully I'll never have anything in there again thank you

[CNL]

I never said the difference between 5.5 and 4.5 was negligible. The negligible remark was concerning the difference between 5.0 and 5.5.

I had a doctors finger in my ass once and hopefully I'll never have anything in there again thank you

I know you didn't. I'm just wondering where you get the idea that thick penises don't create sensations that are different from thinner ones. Your reaction to the doctor tells me that you know first hand how even small things can stretch quite horribly, so we seem to agree that small differences make big differences in sensation.

It doesn't matter anyway. I don't really disagree with anything in your follow up post.

I'm only here to explain why certain throwaway phrases don't get rid of SPS, not disagree that it's possible for a man to be happy with a woman who doesn't mind his size. I agree that is possible.

[Guest Merkwürdigliebe]

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[Guest Merkwürdigliebe]

Most. Most is not all. That's the point I've been trying to make. Sure most women prefer a thicker penis. Most men prefer a woman with a perfect body and perfect breasts etc etc.

You just have to realize that to women there is more to a guy than his penis. We're the ones that put all the emphasis on it not women. I'm not saying there aren't women who talk about it and some even make it a somewhat big deal but the larger portion of the female population don't see it as a big deal. There are a lot of women out there married or dating guys with a small dick. They obviously knew he had a small dick before they married him but did it anyway. Because for women there are things more important than sex or the size of the guys dick.

If you're looking to just play the field and get laid with as many girls as you can then you may run into some problems. Without the emotional attachment women can be more selective with the guys they sleep with. Even so there are guys with small dicks who have slept with many women and had few problems.

But I'm the faggot, as you've insinuated, for pointing this out from the very fucking beginning and in detail.

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[Guest glennj]

Men live to dominate through superiority, denying this is denying reality. Men observe, scrutinize, and judge other men, categorize them as subordinates or mark them as enemies. It is utter bullshit to say the power to sexually please a woman does not matter to men, and that men do not use it as a bragging privilege among other men. Absolute bullshit.

Holy shit!!! what friggin world do you live in. Sure as hell ain't the same one I live in.