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I can't belive I made it to middle age before I found a group to share my suffering. My mental torment of having a small cock was just stirred up yesterday when a female coworker loudly proclaimed in a small gourp discussion how much size absolutely matters in a man. This lady whom I otherwise consider a great friend has stated over the years that she has broken up with men who didn't measure up. I wished women who loudly proclaimed this stuff knew the lifelong pain they cause. Taking showers with other boys during school says was torture. I was always in the top 2 smallest cocks in gym class. Strange thing is that I am married and have been with my wife since she was a teen and I know that she wishes I had a bigger cock. I feel so bad I can't offer her what she really needs. It's funny how some women with small breasts can have the same issues, but the truth be told there are many many men who love small breasts, yet I have never in my life heard of a woman who loves a small penis.

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small breasts dont equate to physical pleasure like a penis does, so its not as important. plus they are easy to enlarge anyways

welcome to the forum tho. as usual if you post your size we can get a better idea of where youre at and who you are similar to on this forum, but by no means is sharing your size needed or demanded

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Sorry to hear that Timmy. But you are married are you not? I think your wife loves you for more than just a part of your appearance. No one is perfect and I think you should love yourself for who you are, like she does.

Also, just a note. I've heard girls say that size doesn't matter before -guess it just depends who you hang around with. I think guys put way too much emphasis on this and the idea of large dicks being better is mostly a male ego thing. Vikings used to consider large penises un-masculine for example, and I think it was in Greece large penises were considered 'brutish'. It's just a sign of the times now.

Try to focus on the fact that you are healthy and have a wife who loves you!

All the best, hope this helped!

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Hey guys thanks for the comments. I guess I am probably 5 inches but not very thick. But to continue on my work situation I have worked in the same department for 20 years and have many great female friend coworkers who over the years have all proclaimed so much that size does matter. I have heard them giggle of past relationships of boyfriends with small dicks they were so glad to get rid of. Funny and sad rather recently one of my female coworkers was talking about that Duggar family with the 19 kids and how they wait until marriage for sex. She said, "How can you do this? Imagine your wedding night and the man of your dreams has this totally small penis?" Then of course everyone laughs and I way crying inside.

Yes I am extremely fortunate that I have a wife of 25 years but my marriage has had problems and if it ever ends I would never be able to start dating again because of my cock size. As I read somewhere else we with small peckers have performance issues worrying so much about it. You just wonder why nature can be so good to some and so cruel to others like us. I remember in H.S. when I had to go into the locker room after school and our best athete of the class who was a real good looking guy as well came walking out of the showers and not only did he have all that going for him, the son of a bitch was hung like a horse as well. Oh the great life of that dude must have had with that thing.

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Oh and I want to add this....You know who is worse than women? Gay men. I work with a couple gay dudes and unfortunately sometimes one of the is a little too comfortable around me and he will tell me of all these big men he's been with and the dissappointments of small ones. I almost feel like if you were gay with a small dick it would be even worse.

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Oh and BTW isn't is so funny how women are always complaining that porn is just so degrading to them because of having to try to live up to the looks and actions of these beautiful porn women, yet why the hell doesn't anyone ever mention how bad some small men feel watching porn men? You talk about degrading.

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Oh and BTW isn't is so funny how women are always complaining that porn is just so degrading to them because of having to try to live up to the looks and actions of these beautiful porn women, yet why the hell doesn't anyone ever mention how bad some small men feel watching porn men? You talk about degrading.

because feminism is bullshit and no one cares what the guy thinks because everything is our fault

and 5 inches is just shy of average, so you arent doing too bad there

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I just read a study the other day, not even searching for it, it just popped up on my feed. anyways, i think it said around 5 inches was the average in England. 5 inches isn't something to worry about in my opinion. It's not big, but it's not so small that it should really affect your life in any drastic way.

do you think your problem might not be dick size and instead be something else? Maybe self-esteem or confidence?

I'm sorry you're feeling this way, but I think you are wrong to do so. I have thin receding hair, which sucks, but would you think my relationships should suffer because of that? do you think I shouldn't be in the dating game?

life is so much more than your penis size. I think you need to think of your body as your temple more and love yourself so you can more easily love others.

good luck!

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Assuming that data for any characteristic such as height, penis size, breast size, etc. would fall under a normal distribution (bell shaped curve) and that the extremes of either would be at the tails on each side and assuming that vaginas have such variation then it's perfectly reasonably to assume that there are women with smaller vaginas who would be better suited to a smaller penis. The issue is finding them and then ensuring that all the other personality issues fit to ensure compatibility. While not impossible it does seem to be a bit like trying to find a needle in a haystack.

Perhaps one answer is too look at regional variation. I hear that in some areas of the world the average penis is smaller and although there's no evidence to my knowledge, if this was true then females in those areas would have lower expectations.

i would even go as far as to say "lower preferences".

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So I guess I'm sure all have you have looked already but I found some interesting comments on the fetish site about women who prefer them smaller which is not associated with humiliation. Granted many of the posters on there have strange and unusual sexual activities but it was interesting to hear women saying that they prefer small because large ones hurt for a variety of reasons and also to hear them say that men with smaller ones tend to compensate in other key areas and are attentive to a womans needs.

Maybe we are just with the wrong type of one dimensional partner; it's not us it's them!!

many men don't like to feel like they need to compensate. having to compensate means/implies you're subpar in one or more areas, which doesn't exactly boost your ego.

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