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TimmyStan1967
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What is interesting is the fact that most of us who are men are normal and look at porn. It gives us the preception that most men are huge in this world which makes us feel so much more alone, yet have you ever seen a picture of a big crowd of naked people like at a nude beach or a nudist camp? You will instantly notice that there are plenty of small guys like us in a given crowd. I do find it so fucking crazy that porn is always said to be degrading to women, yet no one mentions how degrading it can be to small men. Why is that?

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There is some movement away from porn, even outside the religious groups, because it is addictive and has negative effects from the psychological perspective as well as religious. Porn directly degrades my sex and therefore my relationship with my partner. Porn is also the main force perpetuating my belief that I am too small when I'm actually on the low side of average. I try to stay completely away from it, though I still take a peek once in a while. It's too damn available.

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Porn is an unrealistic representation of sex showing extremes or idealised scenarios with storylines and characters which are unlikely to be replicated for most people. It can give people an unrealistic expectation of sexual activity and generally demeans all of those involved as mere sexual objects. I fear that men and women who watch it may think that we must try to be like those actors in appearance and behaviour and failing at either will make us less desirable. It may also mean that people expectations are too high and that they get unnecessarily disappointed in what could be an enjoyable journey of discovery of the self and each other.

If you must watch it I think amatuer porn where couples record themselves is much better and actually more erotic than the faked studio and faked amatuer porn. If I watch it and notice that they're using more than one camera angle without any indication a single camera has been moved then I tend to think it's probably 'produced' and is probably not good for my self esteem.

If we need porn at all then surely we need something which shows real people having a good time of all shapes and sizes to help us and others see that we do have something to offer.

even the amateurs have big dicks, as a small dicked amateur would be hard pressed to film a naughty video

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