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when I'm fully erect i think 'oh I'm not that far off average'. Then some other times When I have a 'lazy hard on', so about 0.5 inches smaller than usual, i think it's the smallest thing ever.

Thank Heaven there's a solution to lazy hard ons. Cialis! :)

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i'm 25. i figured i was small around middle school. and i started measuring around then as well, and obsessed with it in HS too. we never had showers and stuff in our HS for gym class so no being naked with other class mates

however even though there is always the fear of rejection, the reward of getting laid far outweighs my fear, so i never let that stop me. i recently started seeing a girl in a casual way (even though she wants a relationship, she knows i dont). right before we had sex for the first time a few weeks ago (in the back on my of my cars), we were fooling around a bit, and she was impressed how good i was with my fingers. my nickname used to be fastest fingers in the west actually, which she got a kick out of. anyways as i pulled down my pants, i told her i had to be good with my fingers because i "wasnt the biggest guy around". and her response was "size has never been an issue for me" so that was reassuring. then we had some nice sex in the back of my car on some back country road.

this girl is now notch number 13. and not a single one of these girls has complained about my small size (to me at least, im sure to their friends they talk). and it hasnt been a break up issue or anything. and this girl #13 keeps asking for more sex.

maybe Canadian girls are just more polite? I'm not sure. all I know is that fear is not going to help your situation at all. just yolo, and kcco, and all that stupid young people shit

also stop looking at porn. i can only measure myself now while looking at a certain type of porn because thats the only time im 100% hard lol

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Guys, I'm glad to hear some wise comments about porn. I'm getting up near 50 years old now and I was addicted to porn from about 12 years old until just a couple years ago. I'll probably always be a pornaholic, but I stay away from it now. It is bullshit - and the more sexually experienced people in the real world realize this.

When I was in my 20s like most of you are in this thread, I lived on porn and was afraid of being humiliated over dick size. Thinking back...many girls I had serious desire for actually liked me, and I was too shy to make a move. And here's the thing - now I fully believe that if I had made my moves on them, I would have done great. I was my own worst enemy. I've only had a few sexual partners in my life, but it has been excellent. I really wish I had started earlier. I missed out on a lot of fun.

I have slightly over 5" when fully erect - and when my gut isnt too flabby. Girth is about 5" too. Size has proven to be a complete non-issue for me, except in my own head.

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Last two posts are very reassuring! Its case of mind over matter when it comes to putting yourself out there a lot of the time. Even one comment about size or coming across a picture of a huge erection on social media (yes it happens when you are friends with sexually active girls) can trigger all kinds of fears and put you back to square one.

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protip #52: just because a girl is willing to have sex with you in the back of your sports car, think twice. apparently she has the herps, now i have to get tested for it >.<

Such words of wisdom! Thanks for all of the posts tho, nice to hear about other people as well!

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