LouisZ Posted July 2, 2015 Report Share Posted July 2, 2015 I am a really small penis(ed) guy.I have been searching internet sites about small penises in dating/hook-up, CL, and other blogs.I am astounded and disgusted!Many men seem to get off on being humiliated and being used as a submissive due to their small (almost micro) penises.Is this really true?Is this any way to have a satisfying sex life?Does anybody know or practice this?I still strike-out nearly 100% of the time.At my age in my twenties am I destine for this?HELP! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darren15 Posted July 3, 2015 Report Share Posted July 3, 2015 I am a really small penis(ed) guy.I have been searching internet sites about small penises in dating/hook-up, CL, and other blogs.I am astounded and disgusted!Many men seem to get off on being humiliated and being used as a submissive due to their small (almost micro) penises.Is this really true?Is this any way to have a satisfying sex life?Does anybody know or practice this?I still strike-out nearly 100% of the time.At my age in my twenties am I destine for this?HELP!It astounds me how many people turn to this small penis humiliation, I just can't see the appeal of it. Im sure there are loads of guys out there below average who have extremely good sex lives but Its all about finding the right person to make that work. I would have to say confidence has a massive part to play in it, probably the key to getting laid and continuing to do so but how do you find that confidence? I don't know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted July 3, 2015 Report Share Posted July 3, 2015 I read a book once many years ago where the author stated that the key to confidence is to build on small success. I've certainly heard worse advice so have at it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TimmyStan1967 Posted July 4, 2015 Report Share Posted July 4, 2015 Strangely hooking up with a woman into a small penis humiliation would be good on one level.....You could whip down your pants without any fear because she knew ahead of time what you had down there. Lodz 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LouisZ Posted July 5, 2015 Author Report Share Posted July 5, 2015 Well to me it seems to be the worst type of sexual objectification.But some guys must enjoy ??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lukaz Posted July 6, 2015 Report Share Posted July 6, 2015 . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShameOnThem Posted July 14, 2015 Report Share Posted July 14, 2015 Since when is having a relationship with a woman about winning? I think not caring goes a long way, but obviously when you do find "the one" you should care wholeheartedly what they think. The real problem I see with the issue that afflicts all of us is societal. We need better body acceptance and we need to address what I think of as "toxic aspects of masculinity" We have a big problem as men as long as happily married men who are secure in their finances, social status, sexuality etc. are deathly afraid of being "outed" as having a small penis. These are men who obviously can keep their women happy, have nothing to be insecure about, and yet they feel that their bodies are something to be ashamed of and keep hidden from the world. This bullshit goes way beyond the bedroom, because their are plenty of dominant lesbians in relationships who don't even have penises, so what's the problem with a dominant man with a small penis? Dominance, masculinity, and sexual aptitude are not determined by penis size. Lodz 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jk1964 Posted October 15, 2015 Report Share Posted October 15, 2015 It astounds me how many people turn to this small penis humiliation, I just can't see the appeal of it.Im sure there are loads of guys out there below average who have extremely good sex lives but Its all about finding the right person to make that work. I would have to say confidence has a massive part to play in it, probably the key to getting laid and continuing to do so but how do you find that confidence? I don't know.I experienced small penis humiliation with a dominatrix, I didnt know she was going to do it and it bothered me but I am glad she did it. I didnt get upset or angry and while it still bothers me that I have a small penis I became less self conscious about it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LouisZ Posted December 26, 2015 Author Report Share Posted December 26, 2015 So did you go back to her for more sph??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YOTH Posted July 25, 2017 Report Share Posted July 25, 2017 Power to the people who do it, if you enjoy it then why not? But it's not for me, personally it's a turn off. Although I can be passive it has to be on my terms, but for the most part I'm dominant and don't like being cuckolded or humiliated. Although I love dominatrix women who dominate other women. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neil Posted September 30, 2017 Report Share Posted September 30, 2017 wowww... I think yes... after 29 years of being married and now divorced i see my self as a submissive... and yes it could be due to the size of my undeveloped penis Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lodz Posted October 18, 2017 Report Share Posted October 18, 2017 Of course we don't have to be submissive. Our body type does not determine our sexuality any more than it determines our personality. Just because a person is built like an nba star doesn't mean they can't become an astronaut. That said, i am sexually submissive and my small dick size had a lot to do with making me that way. I have found more self acceptance and confidence from submission than from just about anything else. It may be surprising if you're not experienced with D/s sexuality, but there is power in being consensually submissive. YOTH 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LostBoy Posted October 18, 2017 Report Share Posted October 18, 2017 I agree that we don't have to be submissive but it does seem to trend in that direction for guys with small cocks. I can't explain it but I see myself as submissive too. My wife unfortunately is not domineering by nature so sometimes I have to take the lead but even when I do, it's all about being a servant to her. I make sure she's completely satisfied before working on my own needs. I guess that's a form of passive submission but I would love for her to take control. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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