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I was wondering how many of us are growers who are pissed off about flaccid size way more than erect size?

For me its just flaccid size (99% of the time) which pisses me the hell off :(

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BTW

I started another thread this afternoon (about a penis gallery) which has just disappeared!

Like, what the hell!?

Is this forum being censored or something?? Its not like it was porno-fucking-graphic (thats not what the gallery was about.)

Anyway, if the forums being moderated by braindead nuns, I guess Im outa here :(

Bye bye to all (specially Darren)

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I think it's normal for people to be pissed off with their flaccid size if they're smalll because that's really the only time you'll see mens penises (in the locker room etc). So for me it's a basis to prove im small, no matter what the stats say. I will look at people flaccid and most likely be the smallest there, even if they dont grow much/at all when erect which will destroy any confidence I have that I may be close to average.

If I had an extra inch or so flaccid then i would probably be a bit more confident as I could be comfortable naked at all times, especially with lovers and girls.

What was this thing about a gallery?? Shame to hear you are thinking about leaving :( hopefully you change your mind and the forum gets a bit more lenient with things!

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Well according to that study im under average for flaccid and average (maybe a fraction over) for fully erect

Btw, Jessie will disagree with that study completely! If he does see this then please don't shoot it down as its kind of a confidence booster lol

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Well according to that study im under average for flaccid and average (maybe a fraction over) for fully erect

Btw, Jessie will disagree with that study completely! If he does see this then please don't shoot it down as its kind of a confidence booster lol

Wellllll…

I dont TOTALLY disagree with the study- its not miles out, but enough out to be misleading.

But I have given detailed reasons as to why its underestimated in another thread.

The most reliable figures are BP 6.4 x 5.

Some quibble about the BP and whether it should be NBP of 5.6 or 5.2 or etc but really its not that critical.

Whats critical is the girth as thats a high value factor in female surveys world wide.

And the true girth range is 4.7-5.3 which an average off 4.9 or 5.0.

So your av girth figure of 4.59 is actually UNDER the 68% bell curve minimum of 4.7!!!

So Im afraid those figures are bogus- sorry :(

ps my girth is 4- lucky me…

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Wellllll…

I dont TOTALLY disagree with the study- its not miles out, but enough out to be misleading.

But I have given detailed reasons as to why its underestimated in another thread.

The most reliable figures are BP 6.4 x 5.

Some quibble about the BP and whether it should be NBP of 5.6 or 5.2 or etc but really its not that critical.

Whats critical is the girth as thats a high value factor in female surveys world wide.

And the true girth range is 4.7-5.3 which an average off 4.9 or 5.0.

So your av girth figure of 4.59 is actually UNDER the 68% bell curve minimum of 4.7!!!

So Im afraid those figures are bogus- sorry :(

ps my girth is 4- lucky me…

I have always considered 5.5 NBP the most reliable average length to go off but 5.2 has popped up a lot when I've done my searches. BP doesn't really concern me but your 6.4 stat looks about right to me.

Again, I can't really argue with the av girth being 4.9-5 instead of the stat that was produced in that article!

It's all well and good me looking at stats but where I live (UK) girls seem to consider anything under average as useless :(

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Going back to the original post of flaccid size. I will add that I think my 3 inch penis looks disproportionate to the size of my body and especially laying down it can sort of shrink up to a shocking size which does nothing for self esteem. Even though flaccid means nothing in sexual relations I go through stages of wishing I was bigger erect then wishing I was bigger flaccid. It's like an sps pendulum lol

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BTW

I started another thread this afternoon (about a penis gallery) which has just disappeared!

Like, what the hell!?

Is this forum being censored or something?? Its not like it was porno-fucking-graphic (thats not what the gallery was about.)

Anyway, if the forums being moderated by braindead nuns, I guess Im outa here :(

Bye bye to all (specially Darren)

I wanted to explain why the thread was hidden. While it would be okay to talk about your feelings concerning such a gallery, it isn't acceptable here to post a link that includes photos of men's penises.

If you would like, I would be willing to reopen the thread...minus the link...so you would have the opportunity to discuss your feelings.

I hope we can remain respectful of one another.

My apologies for straying off of the OP's content. Back to the discussion then.

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Thank you for this post. I was lying in bed just the other night so pissed about my flaccid size (I'm 'okay' about erect size though not thrilled) and was wondering if there was anyone else who gets angry about it. I want to hide in locker rooms. The only thing going for me is I'm tall and I have a great butt cuz I work out LOL.

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I wanted to explain why the thread was hidden. While it would be okay to talk about your feelings concerning such a gallery, it isn't acceptable here to post a link that includes photos of men's penises.

If you would like, I would be willing to reopen the thread...minus the link...so you would have the opportunity to discuss your feelings.

I hope we can remain respectful of one another.

My apologies for straying off of the OP's content. Back to the discussion then.

Just saw this.

Okay. The point about the penis gallery (the one I linked to in the censored thread) is that it counteracts the influence of porn. Instead of seeing monster sized penises guys can see a range of ordinary sizes from random anonymous people the world over. This way people get a more healthy view of what is normality.

You suggesting reopening the thread without the link? LOL.

Here's another link which would be less offensive:

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Other men, especially, and women, too, appreciate your boldness when you are comfortably naked in a skinny-dipping or similar situation. If you don't think that others are wondering "Hmmmm, I wonder what it would be like to play with him?", you're missing the boat. Personally, and I know I'm not alone, I think a little penis looks sexy ESPECIALLY if he dispatches all or most of his pubic hair. Women like that, too, AND really appreciate extra careful hygiene.

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I hate the fact that mine is just like 2 inches while flaccid. Never been comfortable being in a men's restroom because of it.

Locker rooms are one thing...but restrooms!? Like, for real?!

I mean, its not like 99.9% of people are gonna stare you out while your taking a piss! (if they do, tell them the gay bar is further on up the street! LOL)

And even if people do see something, its not like it means that much! (2 inch could be 4 inch that is only half pulled out of your pants!!)

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Locker rooms are one thing...but restrooms!? Like, for real?!

I mean, its not like 99.9% of people are gonna stare you out while your taking a piss! (if they do, tell them the gay bar is further on up the street! LOL)

And even if people do see something, its not like it means that much! (2 inch could be 4 inch that is only half pulled out of your pants!!)

That's what I was thinking. Mine is 2-3 inches flaccid, depending on other factors. But I've never been afraid of public restrooms. Just shows the psychological effect SPS has, definitely take a toll and can psych you out.

I've never been one to care about my flaccid size at all. But,I did have one occasion where it looked damn near 1-1.5 inches. Now I don't own a ruler, so that may be an exaggerated estimation due to shock, but I'm positive it was, at the most, BARELY reaching the 2 inch mark.

Don't know how, it was brought to my attention when I took a piss after a long walk (I'm in Arizona, it was at least 95 degrees). So I was amazed at the shrinkage despite the weather.

Not gonna lie though, it was tough to look at.

Just the fact that it was capable of that kind of shrinkage hurt a little.

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I have heard many times from women in real life say that trimming does not make a penis look bigger and in particular shaving it all off is a no no with a small penis as it makes it look like a childs.

You could perhaps look up the work of Anna David or Olivia Munn in this very issue.

I've always wondered if completely shaving was a way to go with us smaller endowed guys. Might be hygienic, but it might make you look like a pre pubescent 10 year old and turn ladies off.

The conversation about flaccid size. I've always been a show-er. I think I'm in the minority here. I usually have 3 to 4 inches flaccid. I've always wondered if a lot of ladies wouldn't see this as a cheat since there would be so little growing involved under sexual excitement. I don't grow much at all, I just get erect.

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Glad I found this site. It is refreshing to hear other men speaking about the same things that bother me. One plus I'll say about my tiny flacid penis is my wife loves to feel it grow in her mouth. Oh and I am about as average as you can get wen erect and on the slim side.

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Locker rooms are one thing...but restrooms!? Like, for real?!

I mean, its not like 99.9% of people are gonna stare you out while your taking a piss! (if they do, tell them the gay bar is further on up the street! LOL)

And even if people do see something, its not like it means that much! (2 inch could be 4 inch that is only half pulled out of your pants!!)

Locker rooms are what I meant, English is not my native language so I don't know everything yet.

But I pee only if I can do it behind a closed door in restrooms, just something I've made into a habit. You can't trust people nowdays. I've even been accused of having a small dick because I have big feet lol.

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