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Hi,

I don't think you remember my original post, but to sumarize i'm a 22 years old student, i have a 4 inch erect penis, never dated anyone, rejected girls etc .. the kind of bullshit you do when you have a small penis.

I just found out that my younger brother (he's 18) has an 8.5 inch erect penis. I'm happy because i know he will enjoy life in ways i could only imagine, but at the same time i'm kinda' depressed because mother nature is a bitch.

I wrote this because i find it funny, i was always the big brother but that has changed now. :)

I wish you all the best!

Dan

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Hi,

I don't think you remember my original post, but to sumarize i'm a 22 years old student, i have a 4 inch erect penis, never dated anyone, rejected girls etc .. the kind of bullshit you do when you have a small penis.

I just found out that my younger brother (he's 18) has an 8.5 inch erect penis. I'm happy because i know he will enjoy life in ways i could only imagine, but at the same time i'm kinda' depressed because mother nature is a bitch.

I wrote this because i find it funny, i was always the big brother but that has changed now. :)

I wish you all the best!

Dan

I hate it when you find out someone close to you is well hung lol it's definitely a point of envy for me, especially when they seem to mock anything below 6"

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Well maybe the average is 7 if everyone seems to have large penises I dont think its a coincident that you personally know that many people with large dicks. So.... yeah stop being in denial we've been fucked over guys. Sps is forever there is no hope I dont see women no time soon pull 180's and start to worship small penises. LIFE SUCKS!! blah blah blah SUICIDE!!! blah blah blah WHY GOD!!! blah blah blah LIFE IS OVER!!! so be the best person you possibly can be. There are young guys on here that should be enjoying their youth not just physically but sexually too and that kills me im almost 30 It

doesn't go away believe me I thought it would too but it doesn't so be prepared for anger, frustration, shame, jealousy,blasphemy (LOL), depression, and the enevitable suicidal tendencies hopefully none of you have a gun in their home. Sorry to be a downer but if anything else the guys on this forum should at least attempt to find a woman I mean you never know life may throw you a curve ball because if you dont you will end up like how I am now mentally(see above descriptions)trust me its not fun living this way you've got to at least try I didnt I let it stop me and my youth is pretty much slipping away from me. I let my teenage years fly by because of this and I regret It everyday of my life too. Because if you dont you will only miss out on alot of experiences in life. I give myself till my late 30's if things stay the same lets just say my life will be going by way of the dinosaurs(sorry for the bad grammar and punctuation.)

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Well maybe the average is 7 if everyone seems to have large penises I dont think its a coincident that you personally know that many people with large dicks. So.... yeah stop being in denial we've been fucked over guys. Sps is forever there is no hope I dont see women no time soon pull 180's and start to worship small penises. LIFE SUCKS!! blah blah blah SUICIDE!!! blah blah blah WHY GOD!!! blah blah blah LIFE IS OVER!!! so be the best person you possibly can be. There are young guys on here that should be enjoying their youth not just physically but sexually too and that kills me im almost 30 It

doesn't go away believe me I thought it would too but it doesn't so be prepared for anger, frustration, shame, jealousy,blasphemy (LOL), depression, and the enevitable suicidal tendencies hopefully none of you have a gun in their home. Sorry to be a downer but if anything else the guys on this forum should at least attempt to find a woman I mean you never know life may throw you a curve ball because if you dont you will end up like how I am now mentally(see above descriptions)trust me its not fun living this way you've got to at least try I didnt I let it stop me and my youth is pretty much slipping away from me. I let my teenage years fly by because of this and I regret It everyday of my life too. Because if you dont you will only miss out on alot of experiences in life. I give myself till my late 30's if things stay the same lets just say my life will be going by way of the dinosaurs(sorry for the bad grammar and punctuation.)

The stats can't be that wrong so I think 5.5 is about right lol. I can completely understand why you're beating yourself up because I've been through it all aswell, to the point of being reduced to tears by my penis! I have come to the point where I think I might aswell try because in the long run (say 10-15 years from now) I'll be more angry that I didn't but I do think it's never too late to give it a go. I am probably the biggest hypocrite there is on the page as I give all this advice to people but don't do it myself, maybe I just have a lack of libido or im in too deep with sps? I don't know, but I do think anyone who has the right sort of attitude should just go for it and make no apologies to anyone if things go sour.

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You measured your bro's dick?

Just like with the Big Dude topic, I am hesitant to believe someone on the internet who says the have an 8.5" penis because, according to the most recent scientific studies, that would put them in the 99th percentile. It's just a statistical guess, but there is probably some embellishment going on here.

http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/bju.13010/abstract;jsessionid=8BAD3E15D1DF71888D2DFCCA5AC3328C.f04t01?systemMessage=Wiley+Online+Library+will+have+intermittent+access+on+8th+August+2015+from+10%3A00-16%3A00+BST+%2F+05%3A00-11%3A00+EDT+%2F+17%3A00-23%3A00+SGT+for+essential+maintenance.++Apologies+for+the+inconvenience.&userIsAuthenticated=false&deniedAccessCustomisedMessage=

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You measured your bro's dick?

Just like with the Big Dude topic, I am hesitant to believe someone on the internet who says the have an 8.5" penis because, according to the most recent scientific studies, that would put them in the 99th percentile. It's just a statistical guess, but there is probably some embellishment going on here.

http://onlinelibrary...tomisedMessage=

no i did not measure. my bro sent a dick pic to his gf, who then showd it to a mutual friend. he said it looked average. but considering my two bros have argued over whos dick was bigger, thats a good clue too

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You measured your bro's dick?

Just like with the Big Dude topic, I am hesitant to believe someone on the internet who says the have an 8.5" penis because, according to the most recent scientific studies, that would put them in the 99th percentile. It's just a statistical guess, but there is probably some embellishment going on here.

http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/bju.13010/abstract;jsessionid=8BAD3E15D1DF71888D2DFCCA5AC3328C.f04t01?systemMessage=Wiley+Online+Library+will+have+intermittent+access+on+8th+August+2015+from+10%3A00-16%3A00+BST+%2F+05%3A00-11%3A00+EDT+%2F+17%3A00-23%3A00+SGT+for+essential+maintenance.++Apologies+for+the+inconvenience.&userIsAuthenticated=false&deniedAccessCustomisedMessage=

Never understood how when talking penis size nobody admits to having one under 6" when statistically speaking most boys do but I guess it's A matter of pride. Not doubting anyone's size but it just shows how lucky people like the OP are to have their length

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I don't get it, everyone seems to have a large penis (that we know in real life) or atleast above average. If it wasn't for the Internet, I would think average Is 7 inches as apposed to 5.5

Hi Darren,

I live in Hungary and the average penis size is 6.5 inches , as you can see here: "http://www.villagevoice.com/news/hungarians-have-the-biggest-dicks-in-europe-6721158". So having a larger penis is not that uncommon around these parts. Imagine the irony .. i'm a 4 inch dude in the country that has "the biggest penises" in Europe.

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You measured your bro's dick?

Just like with the Big Dude topic, I am hesitant to believe someone on the internet who says the have an 8.5" penis because, according to the most recent scientific studies, that would put them in the 99th percentile. It's just a statistical guess, but there is probably some embellishment going on here.

http://onlinelibrary...tomisedMessage=

Hi ShameonThem,

I have not measured my brother's cock .. what the hell. He told me that his new girlfriend feels pain when they have sex, and he was concerned about her so I told him that he might be a little too big for her (at the moment i didn't knew he has an 8.5 inch penis). Also my brother never bothered measuring his penis, and never read about average penis size and all that crap. After a couple of days he told me he measured himself and did some "research" regarding the average penis size in our country. That's how I found what size his penis is.

Now, if you don't believe this than that is your problem my friend, because you are free to believe whatever you want. Thanks for sharing your opinion though :) .

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to be fair- the forum is open

the moderators havent tried to push anything

and the studies are not 'false' as such - its just they miss out detail in such a way as to mislead people.

the stretched flaccid length, non bone pressed, probably is about 5.5.

so the average ERECT penis, bone pressed, is likely to be about 6.5.

(just like the biggest ever study reported half a century ago)

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to be fair- the forum is open

the moderators havent tried to push anything

and the studies are not 'false' as such - its just they miss out detail in such a way as to mislead people.

the stretched flaccid length, non bone pressed, probably is about 5.5.

so the average ERECT penis, bone pressed, is likely to be about 6.5.

(just like the biggest ever study reported half a century ago)

Here I actually agree with Jessie (for a change!)

The stats say what the stats say - you can take em or leave em.

If someone really wants to believe the average is 10 inch or whatever - go for it.

UPDATE

And yeah, bone press measure makes one helluva difference - in overweight dudes more than an inch probably.

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The only people who say average is 5.5 is people with small dicks...

LOL

No, your all wrong bud. The only people who say average is 5.5 inch is guys who are bigger than 5.5 inch!

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you are both right- all men want the average to be as low as possible

ps All women want the average to be as big as possible

its called selfishness….

Agreed. I suppose it doesn't really matter anyway, if we found out we were average would we be miraculously cured? I doubt it, whatever size we have it isn't enough for us or at least we feel (rightly or wrongly) that it isn't enough to be as sexually appealing/successful as we want to be.

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I suppose it doesn't really matter anyway, if we found out we were average would we be miraculously cured? I doubt it, whatever size we have it isn't enough for us or at least we feel (rightly or wrongly) that it is enough to be as sexually appealing/successful as we want to be.

Ya know, its funny, but just this day I was chewing over this, and I reckon SPS (not real micro penis syndrome but SPS) could be a branch of another piece of mental fuckery - call it 'body image inferiority syndrome' if you will.

I have had some secret penis insecurities in the past. Although its not a thing Ive ever discussed with another or that has been an actual issue on the table it has still festered in my mind at some deep level and has also (helped) screw me up in other ways.

Now here's a thing, if I would have been hung like freakin stud stallion I wouldnt have had this penis insecurity - but I really reckon it would just have transferred over to something else. I dont even know what? But I just really feel there would have been something else about myself that I would have totally hated. Its my personality somehow. Im a perfectionist-freak maybe? Dont know.

(I also think the modern media helps to contribute to this by pushing the line that everyone is/should be a perfect physical specimen.)

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Ya know, its funny, but just this day I was chewing over this, and I reckon SPS (not real micro penis syndrome but SPS) could be a branch of another piece of mental fuckery - call it 'body image inferiority syndrome' if you will.

I have had some secret penis insecurities in the past. Although its not a thing Ive ever discussed with another or that has been an actual issue on the table it has still festered in my mind at some deep level and has also (helped) screw me up in other ways.

Now here's a thing, if I would have been hung like freakin stud stallion I wouldnt have had this penis insecurity - but I really reckon it would just have transferred over to something else. I dont even know what? But I just really feel there would have been something else about myself that I would have totally hated. Its my personality somehow. Im a perfectionist-freak maybe? Dont know.

(I also think the modern media helps to contribute to this by pushing the line that everyone is/should be a perfect physical specimen.)

I know what you mean, we (with SPS) have fixated on the penis as it's what we perceive as our most imperfect body part and it could easily be our ears, nose, thinning hair, thin lips, big belly, height, or all other kinds of things. I'm a generally very self critical person so I think I would probably be the same and just find something else to obsess about.

I guess the penis is kinda special because it's intimate, sexual, linked to our identity and sense of virility but unlike most of the other things it can be hidden so that it's possible to socialise without our fears overpowering us and yet it still seems difficult. I often walk into a room and feel like i'm being judged for being small even though others can't see it and can't possible know. Also most of the other things have surgical corrections routinely done/available to cut away the problem.

What part of me is my body and what part of me is my mind? What makes me me? If the body is essentially just a carcass to carry my mind it should not matter but the mind seeks perfection and when the mirror/body image doesn't display what the mind seeks confusion and unhappiness follow. There must be a way to take more pleasure in my mind than in this rotting carcass so that it becomes less relevant to my sense of happiness but we are social animals and so the carcass unfortunately takes centre stage in human interaction. I guess this what makes talking on forums so easy, we're all just keystrokes here.

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Ya know, its funny, but just this day I was chewing over this, and I reckon SPS (not real micro penis syndrome but SPS) could be a branch of another piece of mental fuckery - call it 'body image inferiority syndrome' if you will.

I have had some secret penis insecurities in the past. Although its not a thing Ive ever discussed with another or that has been an actual issue on the table it has still festered in my mind at some deep level and has also (helped) screw me up in other ways.

Now here's a thing, if I would have been hung like freakin stud stallion I wouldnt have had this penis insecurity - but I really reckon it would just have transferred over to something else. I dont even know what? But I just really feel there would have been something else about myself that I would have totally hated. Its my personality somehow. Im a perfectionist-freak maybe? Dont know.

(I also think the modern media helps to contribute to this by pushing the line that everyone is/should be a perfect physical specimen.)

I doubt that this is actually true. There have been some extreme insecurities I've had about certain physical traits and then, after changing those traits, I felt awesome, and I didn't replace the insecurities with anything else. My life was just...so much better!

I don't think there's any harm acknowledging that there is an excellent chance that if you were hung like a stallion, that you'd have a much different experience in life, and would very likely not replace your penis insecurities with anything else. Or if you did, they would almost certainly not be nearly as all-consuming.

I think it's not necessarily a bad thing to just accept that there are some things about having a small penis that are really lousy, and that if one had a large penis, things would be a lot better. I think it's just a way to try to make yourself feel better by telling yourself, "Oh, you know, I'm sure if I had a large penis, I'd just feel exactly the same way about something else". I think this is a symptom of our modern society and a fixation on the idea that somehow our own thoughts are to blame for everything negative that we experience, rather than accepting that there may actually be some serious issue that detracts from one's life. The reality is that sometimes things in life suck, and if those things weren't an issue, then things would be a hell of a lot better.

A penis, in particular, is an extremely important part of one's being, the organ of reproduction and intimate physical communion and love with women. You're not likely to ever feel the same level of anxiety and distress over another part of your body. I think just about any man in the world would choose to have an issue of insecurity with hair, nose, belly, height, lips, etc before he would choose to have an issue of insecurity about his penis.

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I know what you mean, we (with SPS) have fixated on the penis as it's what we perceive as our most imperfect body part and it could easily be our ears, nose, thinning hair, thin lips, big belly, height, or all other kinds of things. I'm a generally very self critical person so I think I would probably be the same and just find something else to obsess about.

Totally true. Take me, when I was about 25 I injured a knee, it healed but over the years a varicose vein developed - a real nasty ugly mother. But I never gave a shite. For me to have vein treatment is a girl thing, ya know. But that could have been a fixation.

Again, from age mid 30s on (Im over 40 now) my hair is gradually thinning at the back (the classic monk style Friar Tuck number!) Now that could easily bother me - but it doesn't! And it doesn't (better didn't) even seem to bother women - not over 30s anyhow!

But that 5-5.5 inch penis is like a fucking lightning rod - all of my insecurities get dumped right down there!

I guess the penis is kinda special because it's intimate, sexual, linked to our identity and sense of virility

Yeah, thats undeniably true.

But (as we were a discussing on another thread recently) theres good evidence that women dont give too much of a shit except in fairly extreme cases (like if a guy is more than standard deviation under average or wotnot.)

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