My stupid fears - update

[Guest RandomDude]

I doubt that this is actually true. There have been some extreme insecurities I've had about certain physical traits and then, after changing those traits, I felt awesome, and I didn't replace the insecurities with anything else. My life was just...so much better!

I don't think there's any harm acknowledging that there is an excellent chance that if you were hung like a stallion, that you'd have a much different experience in life, and would very likely not replace your penis insecurities with anything else. Or if you did, they would almost certainly not be nearly as all-consuming.

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A penis, in particular, is an extremely important part of one's being, the organ of reproduction and intimate physical communion and love with women. You're not likely to ever feel the same level of anxiety and distress over another part of your body.

We're all different I guess. I can only speak for me.

If I would have had a porn stud penis I might have fucked (a bit) more when I was age 18-25. After that age Im not convinced it would have made so much difference, quite honestly. And now? Nah, its purely mental these days. You could say its even fucking theoretical seeing as I'm broke and single right now!

[Guest RandomDude]

Another thing. I reckon many of us have other issues (like really serious shit) screwing our lives aside from SPS.

Whether that causes the SPS or whether the SPS causes it...who knows?! (Both maybe??)

UPDATE

I think just about any man in the world would choose to have an issue of insecurity with hair, nose, belly, height, lips, etc before he would choose to have an issue of insecurity about his penis.

Doing some more thinking and, yeah, I do see what your saying. If a random guy learned that his (well what she we say?) his hands were 0.5 inch smaller than average, he's gonna think "oh, thats interesting, my hands are slightly smaller than average". And thats as far as the damn thing goes.

But if you learn age 18 that your fuck muscle is x or y inch smaller than average it becomes a situation! Weird really, when you consider that we are all different and its not even possible for all to be exactly the same.

But then, maybe not all are the same mentally too? Maybe some guys are relaxed about this shit? So it comes back to personality.

[Jessie]

girls care about height and peen size

girls also care about looks and body shape

girls also care about sense of humour, sensitivity and wealth

now different girls care about those in a different orders depending on culture and preferences

but if you are unlucky in height and peen size then you have lucked out big time.

[Guest RandomDude]

girls care about height and peen size

girls also care about looks and body shape

girls also care about sense of humour, sensitivity and wealth

now different girls care about those in a different orders depending on culture and preferences

but if you are unlucky in height and peen size then you have lucked out big time.

Yeah I agree.

But I think it can be complicated though. As a guy I might prefer girls who are blond, have a really nice ass, nice medium-large tits, trim waist, etc - if all things were equal. But all things never are equal.

If there was a choice between girl 1 who ticks each of the above but is dim and a total surly bitch to live with and girl 2 who is flat chested and slightly overweight but who is clever and who I really totally hit it off with...quite honestly...I'd pick the second one every single time!!!

That thing about height and peen size, I wonder if they could compensate each other? Like if you have a guy who is under average height but above average for penis size (or other way around) I wonder if they cancel each other out? LOL

[Jessie]

well I'm quite tall (and Ive been told outright by girls thats a very strong positive feature)

but alas all my exes left me due to my size (but then Im very small 4x4 BP) so….

[Lukaz]

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[Guest RandomDude]

And most men seem to care about how they present themselves to a woman rather then what she can offer him. You see it's supposed to go both ways. Men too are supposed to have standards, but since most men now, more then ever have decided not to have any when it comes women other then whether or not she's physically attractive, women have raised their standards. If men raised their standards, women wouldn't have such high standards. Don't think that this penis size thing should be as big a problem as it's been made out to be. Just that's it's pushed out there as a problem because men are under attack in the media.

Yeah. The media are to blame for some (at least) of this shit. Im sure going back 50 years ago you didn't find men who were in the 5-6 inch BP penis range having SPS issues. It just didn't freaking well happen! (Probably not even in the 4-5 inch range in actual fact.)

What is needed now is a massive counter attack against feminism!

If I could get myself together mentally Id even start an anti feminist attack blog called "Queen Bodicea's Tomb" to kick these slime bag bitches and their media friends who think men are useless shits who need flushing!

(I sound angrier than I actually am But it really does piss me off quite a bit to see men trodden down the whole time.)

[Victimorthecrime]

There was an article on my FB feed about how Japan is having a low birth rate crisis. Japanese are not forming relationships and not having children at even a replacement rate.

Sure as hell the article blamed the men! Said it was all because Japanese men won't accept working wives and these working women can't find partners.

No mention of the biological fact that women have the babies and can get pregnant anytime they want.

[Lukaz]

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[Victimorthecrime]

Yeah your right, men just live in paradise. We don't work, have no family responsibilities, never been mistreated. There are huge, well funded and politically connected organizations that proactively look after our welfare and tell our narrative nightly in the media and daily in the schools.

[Lukaz]

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[Lukaz]

Of course, you're totally right.

[Guest ChinaDoll]

Personally I don't believe in total equality. There are things only men can do and there are things only women can do.

As for the Japan debate, I'm a working woman and I have no intention of becoming a single parent. Why? Because in order to raise children well, they need a mother AND a father.

Sorry. I don't think I belong in this forum but I just had to say something.

Also, it is incredibly unfair to say that we'd all still be cavepeople if women ran the world. You never know. Perhaps next election you Americans might have your first female president finally. She may or may not be better than your other Presidents but I am sure she will not start a war that will end the world as we know it.