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Not only have I blessed with the smallest Penis in England, but I hav got loads of of things wrong with me and other dissatisfying things wrong me.

Small dick, skinny as fuck when younger (not so bad now,) pasty white skin the colour of white paper I looked grey and ghostly in fact, body covered in brown moles, very ungood teeth, not straight or beautiful, not white. Small feet, that is just a few of the things I was born with but it gets worse.

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Not straight? are you gay? as for me im 5'5 i dont have a adult voice picture a teenager gowing through puberty more so that people have called me maam on the phone. ive always been very shy people say im soft spoken i fucking hate being called "soft" i have a small penis i wear glasses ive been told i have "girl" hands i have a shitty beard that looks like i glued a bunch of pubes to my face the only "so called" compliments i ever got were from two gay men on separate occassions one came very close to me and said i smelled very good and the other when i handed him my drivers license he said i looked younger than 27 also id say im not beautiful i dont know id say i was ugly or at least thats what i see in myself not to mention a shitty childhood that has messed with me till this day and also im dealing with digestive issues gastritis,h pylori,candida i cant even eat without feeling shitty i purge alot because my digestive system is jacked when i vomit i feel better im confused on what i am i dont know what my sexuality is i just hate having a small penis BTW im a virgin also and also i masterbate often i dont know why. i've made it such a habit that i cant sleep without masterbating first. porn has destroyed my confidence im not a very social person unless i know you very well i get nervous around crowds of people so i just stay to myself also i was bullied in high school the guys name was adrian trevino if i ever see that son of a bitch in person id love to stab him in his fucking esophogus and abdomen repeatedly gut him like a fucking fish that bastard hated me for no reason i didnt even talk to him or know him personally and the worst thing about it is he had lots of friends a pretty girlfriend he has kids now last time i heard i have a close relationship with my mother not a oedipus complex more like im the daughter she never had a good relationship with SMH!!! . is it a crime to love your mother?

my father and i are not close never have been my whole life he likes to compare me to my brother i got into an argument with my dad he said that i wasnt a man and im still wet behind the ears is it harsh to say that when he dies i wont be sad or cry? as far as god goes if there is one he hates me im gods unfavorite step child if there is a god he has alot to answer for not only from me but everyone

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Hey Robert

I'm not going to minimize your suffering by saying, "oh, your father meant well;" or

"that Trevino boy -- he must have had such low self-esteem, to bully you like that."

Bullshit. Bull, shit.

I'm old enough now to know a few things:

one of them is that people who say such things are not being supportive of you;

they're making excuses for, and implicitly taking sides with, those who hurt you.

Your father was irresponsible to say what he said,

and i hope that Trevino guy is raped in prison for what he did to you.

Now, to the more positive part:

You're 27 (i think i read that right) -- you still have time.

You haven't yet reached your (note that i said "YOUR") normal yet;

there's no reason to give up on yourself.

When i was your age, i'd never had sex either. I wasn't real attractive.

That wasn't my fault, and it isn't your fault either.

It takes time to learn, to find our own normal, to become our own version of adult.

Just because you're not some other version of adult -- like your brother -- doesn't make you inferior.

I could offer some specific steps about what you might do with yourself going forward,

but i think i'll hold off unless you ask for advice.

Sometimes advice is a distraction from the main issue; i've experienced that myself.

For now, just know that you're good enough.

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Hey Robert

I'm not going to minimize your suffering by saying, "oh, your father meant well;" or

"that Trevino boy -- he must have had such low self-esteem, to bully you like that."

Bullshit. Bull, shit.

I'm old enough now to know a few things:

one of them is that people who say such things are not being supportive of you;

they're making excuses for, and implicitly taking sides with, those who hurt you.

Your father was irresponsible to say what he said,

and i hope that Trevino guy is raped in prison for what he did to you.

Now, to the more positive part:

You're 27 (i think i read that right) -- you still have time.

You haven't yet reached your (note that i said "YOUR") normal yet;

there's no reason to give up on yourself.

When i was your age, i'd never had sex either. I wasn't real attractive.

That wasn't my fault, and it isn't your fault either.

It takes time to learn, to find our own normal, to become our own version of adult.

Just because you're not some other version of adult -- like your brother -- doesn't make you inferior.

I could offer some specific steps about what you might do with yourself going forward,

but i think i'll hold off unless you ask for advice.

Sometimes advice is a distraction from the main issue; i've experienced that myself.

For now, just know that you're good enough.

thanks! i wouldn't mind advice but my confidence is non existent
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Not straight? are you gay?....

he meant his teeth aren't straight, not his sexual orientation.

... also id say im not beautiful i dont know id say i was ugly or at least thats what i see in myself

i'm also anything but beautiful.

not to mention a shitty childhood that has messed with me till this day

same here.

and also im dealing with digestive issues gastritis,h pylori,candida i cant even eat without feeling shitty i purge alot because my digestive system is jacked when i vomit i feel better

sorry to hear about this, man. i have many health problems, myself, but what you described seems pretty bad.

... i was bullied in high school... that bastard hated me for no reason i didnt even talk to him or know him personally and the worst thing about it is he had lots of friends a pretty girlfriend he has kids now last time i heard

life's one huge unfair hellhole. i hate the great injustice in this world.

i have a close relationship with my mother not a oedipus complex more like im the daughter she never had a good relationship with SMH!!! . is it a crime to love your mother?

my father and i are not close never have been my whole life he likes to compare me to my brother i got into an argument with my dad he said that i wasnt a man and im still wet behind the ears is it harsh to say that when he dies i wont be sad or cry?

my "dad" and i are not on speaking terms, and my "relationship" with my mother really sucks. they were never good parents. i probably won't be sad (or cry) when my dad dies, either.

... if there is a god he has alot to answer for not only from me but everyone

i agree completely.

take care, robert; and best wishes.

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OK robert, i guess i read a tepid request for advice:

You mentioned no confidence.

I've learned this about confidence: it's overrated.

You've heard "all it takes is some confidence"? I don't believe it.

Confidence is just something that entitled privileged people say,

to pretend that they somehow earned/deserve their popularity and status.

I'm not buying it.

They didn't get their status from confidence; they got their confidence from their high status.

Stop looking for ways to build confidence out of nothing,

start looking for ways to fake it better.

If you learn how to do some of the things they do, then you'll fool people into treating you better.

Then you'll have confidence.

So, how to do that:

i don't know if you're in a semi-urban or semi-rural area, robert. That matters.

If your town (or better, a nearby town that ISN'T your town) has a salon or beautician, go there.

People will help you if you pay them.

PAY HER to advise you on (1) your grooming (2) your posture and body language (3) your clothes.

Then practice what she tells you.

Is that fake? You bet it is.

But i remember when i was about your age i realized

nobody was giving me any respect for being genuine; for being the gentle sensitive soul i really was.

So i faked being dominant and cynical. And what do you know -- the alpha males began to back off.

And if you're wearing nicer clothes -- something i didn't learn about then -- you'll get better responses from young women.

I'm not telling you to believe in yourself, robert; people gave me that crap too, and i know it doesn't work.

What will work is, get lots of feedback about how you hold yourself up, look people in the eye, stuff like that.

It's what the alphas learned from alpha-male family members, or by accident.

You can learn it too. Go find your first teacher.

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I do not have anything to complain about the rest

I am not ugly, have a "viking face", I even look like a "bad boy" looking from the outside but have that penis ridiculous, impossible to be "bad boy" with this garbage

I'm 1.90 tall, women like tall guys

I do gym and have well-defined muscles

a deep look

I'm smart, I have a optimal conversation, I know how to talk and how to approach women

BUT OF COURSE THAT SOMETHING HAD TO GET OUT WRONG: THAT DICK ridiculous, humiliating, BASTARD

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the hardest is that I think women when they see me, they think I have a big penis, at worst, a normal penis, but what I have to offer is ridiculous 5.3 inches

sad

I've got the same problem. I am tall, (a smidge under 6'2 -187cm) rangy athletic-looking (Years of Hard Work), keep myself tanned, very well dressed, look about 12 years younger than I am, people assume I am a foreigner, especially foreigners who ALWAYS ask me where I am from, (Twice this week) [i don't look like a typical British man] and I get a lot of attention from women and even teenage girls, this started in my Twenties, especially from Black girls, i seem to be the sort of White Man they could fancy, and I think there always the assumption that I am going well-endowed as well and I am definitely NOT! and it's resting state is even more appalling, embarrassing. I wish that woman could see the "Goods" before hand so they are not disappointed.
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