On top of all of that, when it comes to getting women, watch other guys and how they interact with them. If you don't have the confidence, fein that shit! That's how I've gotten the pussy I've had. It is to a point the way you use it. It's yours, learn how to work it. I've had girls trying to get me to fuck them again after we've broken up and they're with new boyfriend's, one quoted saying I was the best fuck she ever had. I heard from a friend of hers that she told her and I quote "he doesnt have a very big dick, but man does he know how to work it." Honestly, I know that anyone can say this stuff, but I've no reason to lie. Hope any of my babble has or will help you.