For once I can report something positive. After reading "thinking bad thoughts" found on this webpage http://raminader.com/ocd_resources.htm
I recognized that this must be what I am experiencing without a doubt and there is no way I could realistically be a pedophile (not that I couldn't accept it, but if it's not real then I shouldn't). During my daycare time, I was able to meaningfully interact with a child that previously would cause a ridiculous reaction and moreover my actual thoughts were essentially mute and not in any way predatory or incriminating. I won't say "I'm cured!" but this is certainly a step in the right direction. My alternate theory is actually that I have been suffering from depression *at times* from not having a child and longing to raise a little girl (now obviously, whatever comes out in the end will be what I raise if I am so fortunate to have that opportunity). By juxtaposing these two, it kind of fits, but I don't know, it's just a theory. Now if I mentioned my teaching earlier in the week, you probably wouldn't say anything has improved but I like to look at the positives. If one situation can improve, so can others, in time.