My husband and I had a fight last Friday and had tried to hurt himself by smashing the computer keyboard several times on his forehead. I'm staying over at my parents' now. Me and my child.

We're planning to go on counseling together this coming Saturday. Maybe if we will go regularly we'll still be able to make things better. My mother and sister are all for it. But my father says that the marriage is beyond saving because of so many irreconcilable differences between us that go deep. The bad thing is I have the same thoughts as my father.

I've just started a new job and I'm trying to concentrate on it, eventhough it's hard not to think about it.

This wasn't the first time he tried to hurt himself. I told him we have to go into counseling regularly if we want to make this work. I also told him that we should be open to the possibility that we'll be better off apart and that we should do what is best for our child. I don't want this to keep on happening.