is masochism the key to happiness? Entry posted by Ralph September 15, 2011 73 views Share More sharing options... Followers 0 if they hurt you, that's what you asked for. If they don't hurt you, you're safe. Report Entry
pseudome 3 Posted September 15, 2011 Report Share If they hurt you, it still hurts even if you asked for it, and then you get to blame yourself on top of it all. If they don't hurt you, you still feel the need to be hurt and so take to hurting yourself. It's a defense mechanism that gives the illusion of control but does more harm than good in the long run. Though admittedly, giving up the illusion of control is terrifying.So...what's going on? You ok? Quote Link to comment
Ralph 70 Posted September 16, 2011 Report Share I am okay. Trying to navigate family drama. Quote Link to comment
pseudome 3 Posted September 16, 2011 Report Share That sounds not fun.I hope it resolves soon. Quote Link to comment
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