AnnieUCF Posted August 24, 2008 Report Share Posted August 24, 2008 I have been feeling like this since before I had my child but before having him I would cope by going places with friends, getting up and going kayaking, and/or going to parties and drinking. Now I don't drink, my friends are never around, my in-laws are overbearing, and my husband thinks I am being mean and nasty all the time. I don't know what to do. I feel trapped and that there is no way out of this. I feel like his family is overbearing and they need him for money, help around their homes, and we are obligated to see his extended family all the time. I feel like I am soficated by them. I do not feel comfortable around them and that's because they have said very rude things about me behind my back and my husband would not believe me until they said something. I find myself alone alot, crying, and I feel like I am crazy delusional because he thinks I blow things out of porportion. Example my husband went to help his family with something in their house, I went to a baby shower where his aunt was present. They were all talking and I felt invisible making sure my child did not get into trouble. They looked at my son strange and one woman had the audacity to snatch something out of my son's hand and yell at him in front of me. I lost it. His family was there and did not help me she was too busy talking to friends while my husband was fixing her family's home. I don't understand why I got so upset and why I lost it. My husband says he cannot control his family's actions. I just feel like I am going crazy. I cry a lot, I don't laugh anymore about anything, and I am not the same happy person I was before... I need help but would my doctor take this serioulsy... Please how do I articulate all this into needing help ASAP. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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