sadgreeneyes Posted January 9, 2011 Report Share Posted January 9, 2011 I cant get over the fact my husband doesnt want me to come visit him in his country as we are waiting for his visa/for him to come stay with me. Its at no cost for him and I even said I could stay at a hotel ( since the parents cant host me again, dont have space, yeah find it weird as I am the wife to their son:confused:Anyway, I have an idea, I will say that I am going to Amman this summer as I have money, I know he will be thrown off balance. I believe he will say no that I shouldnt go or are not going, but I am a grown up woman and have the right to take holiday where I want as long as he doesnt accept my offer to visit him and at no cost too.If my husband loves me I find it weird he doesnt say yes to see me. He means that one year will go fast and that I should save my money plus we cant do anything down there anyway, he means being intimate. So why not a hotel. Its perfect. Anyway,he didnt seem to want that, only talked me away from it and said time will go fast. I dont think this is the reason why he doesnt want me to come as he has acted sexually abusive against me. So what I think is that he wants control or he may not care, I dont know, but if he still say no to see me even I go on holiday to his country by myself, then its definitely something wrong.I am willing to let this plan come true.Ok, what do you guys say to me if my husband still says no in any way?Would you too find it weird if he doesnt change his mind? as I am his wife and in his country and he still wont see me..heh??:eek: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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