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Catmom Posted October 30, 2008 Report Share Posted October 30, 2008 Hi JR-I have heard the "90 in 90" recommendation many times. When Allen was unsure of the number in his recent column, I wanted to tell him.Anyway, at the risk of being the devil's advocate and pro AA, I would say that the "90 in 90" guideline serves the purpose of interrupting the addictive drinking pattern so that the alcoholic hopefully gets a break from the habit that has led him/her to "the rooms" in the first place.I have many reservations about AA, but I do see the utility of giving the newly sober person a simple instruction that may help them take a step away from a destructive pattern.Just my .02Catmom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WinterSky Posted October 31, 2008 Report Share Posted October 31, 2008 "If Workaholics Anonymous people do 90 meetings in 90 days, are they still being compulsive workaholics?Shouldn't 180 meetings in 90 days fix the problem?"Funny! That many meetings would cause a lot of stress in me and I might turn to alcohol! Then I'd have to turn around and do 90 meetings in 90 days in AA! :eek:On top of that, drying out might cause me to go shopping and eventually file for bankruptcy, and have to join Shopaholics Anonymous! *sigh* I think I need a pill. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laedladd Posted October 31, 2008 Report Share Posted October 31, 2008 Although 90 in 90 would be very difficult in practice, it's probably good for the attendee to know it's an option and it's encouraged to try for it. When a friend of mine joined GA recently they suggested the same thing. He wasn't able to make it all the time, but it was useful for him to know where he could find a meeting every day for those first few months, for whenever he needed it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xenophon Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 it does, I suppose, make a break. 90 in 90 may make you too busy to drink.90 in 90 may help break personal ties with other people. presumably those other people are a bad influence.90 in 90 does imply that AA is replacement therapy; exchange a drinking habit for an AA habit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustTrying Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 Been there done that:).....JT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Rutledge Posted January 15, 2009 Author Report Share Posted January 15, 2009 (edited) deleted .... Edited October 28, 2009 by John Rutledge Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xenophon Posted February 7, 2009 Report Share Posted February 7, 2009 It appears that there is something called the flying spaghetti monster. I do not know if that is true or not. But, for an HP, it gets the job done.Seriously, I am a bad example. I have no HP. Sad to say, never will have one. I decided that I am on my own. I was the one who had to do whatever it was that had to be done. And, I was the one who had to figure it out. The ends were my call. The means were my call. It was my life.Who else would call it??It did work out, as I envisioned it would. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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