Karamazov Posted October 4, 2011 Report Share Posted October 4, 2011 To every one who visits this topic. I realize I sometimes post without seeming smypathetic to this struggle (which I am a part of). I was at work today (finally got a good job!) and I realized something that I may take for granted too often regarding everyones plight with sps.I realized that my situation is probably different (I married a virgin and a truely good women who's beautiful and has a strong faith).What doesn't change though is the fact that I had many successfull relationships with attractive women all my life. What I may have over looked is what if I had married someone other than my wife.The last relationship I had was intense. My girlfriend had had many sex partners and was also curious about women. She was very sexual. We were young and in crazy love but we all know that cools off eventually. Her parents had infidelity issues and maybe after a few more years she wouldn't be satifisfied with me.I'm not saying she wouldn't, I'm just saying I don't know it all. I fully trust my wife in a way I never trusted that girlfriend (on a deep level that I can't even explain I always knew she wasn't right for me).I'm not really making much sense, I just wanted to let you guys know I do sympathize. I do know there are trustworthy, loyal women out there but I understant there is also the opposite of that to a great extent. I don't apologize for my belief that this is something that can bee overcome--I believe that 100%. Just wanted to say I know I got a good break (although I'd have never gotten it if I'd given up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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