I really don't know what's going on. And I guess that's partly my fault, still not taking any sort of control.
The missing clothes from Thursday were apparently donated to charity. [Passive voice: rewrite] My wife apparently donated to charity the clothes that she took on Thursday. She wrote me an e-mail saying that she was leaving me the number of shirts and pants that I owned when we got married. I guess she thinks that she's responsible for giving me the rest. Granted, she's the one who went to the store, but they were paid for out of joint funds, and I'm the only one with a salary.
All the credit cards are in her name, which I have agreed to so that she would feel more secure. She recently (possibly today) closed the one that I carry, on which I am just an authorized user.
But she wrote me an e-mail today that sounds conciliatory. I know, I'm grasping at straws.