fraggie Posted July 15, 2010 Report Share Posted July 15, 2010 when i wasnt seeking help, my oldest (18) was ok with just blaming me for all the fighting, now that im getting help, he calls me psycho. at first this hurt, but my counselor has told me to tell him it hurts my feelings and i would appreciate it if you would not say things like that. i havent gotten the strength to say it yet, but soon will. my 16 yr old understands and is very happy i am getting help. maybe the oldest is just testing me? or maybe he truly thinks im psyco....i dont know, all i know is i know im doing the right thing by getting help and ive really got to watch my anger to the oldest. sometimes i just want to knock the crap out of him. my counselor said he could come to my next session so she could explain what is going on, but he refused. dunno why im writing all this but every mom knows it hurts when ur kid makes fun of you when your honestly trying to get help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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