Thermonuclear Warrior Posted November 17, 2011 Report Share Posted November 17, 2011 As the topic states, how do you feel about porn? I personally feel that it is one of the leading contributors to my social awkwardness, and insecurities. Although I haven't been sexual active in years, my libido is high and my testosterone levels are high..so my only outlet for release is porn. I am trying to get over this as you know if you have read my other two posts. Anyway, seeing how large penises are glorified in porn throughout the years has really destroyed my confidence. I try to mostly watch amateur porn, but even so, the male performer is always well endowed. Seeing as porn so easily accessible, I feel that average women are given a very false perception of the male penis size. Comparing myself to the male performer, I feel extremely limited with my supposedly average length and as a result, my confidence is destroyed. All of my sexual interests are based on the unattainable that are filmed in porn. I feel that especiailly now, large penises are heavily glorified in porn. A few generations ago, this was not an issue and I think I would have had a much better sex life considering there wasn't such a ridiuclous emphasis on size 20-30 years ago. If any of you have seen the famous "Deep Throat" from 1972, the male is definitely in the average zone. II wish I was born in the early 20th century...when people were much more proper and less perverted. There would be no need for these sort of discussion and my penis size would not be an issue. I figure someone in my family tree was endowed similarly to me and their sperm was viable enough and that was all that was important. I wish masculinity in porn was not based on penile size, but unfortunately the industry will always emphasize that bigger is better. Although porn provides an adequate escape for reality, I feel that it skews ones perception of sex and can totally destroy a human being. Basically, I feel that there would be much less of the "small penis syndrome:" going on if the porn industry was contained.....I have a fully functional yet small penis yet I can't enjoy sex with women based on false pretenses brought forth by porn. I hate the industry so much because its real world application can be devastating.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AmericanPsycho Posted November 17, 2011 Report Share Posted November 17, 2011 I don't care if a guy is hung like a Mouse or hung like an Elephant I don't want to see his tallywacker. That's why I only watch women banging each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flander Posted November 17, 2011 Report Share Posted November 17, 2011 Seeing as porn so easily accessible, I feel that average women are given a very false perception of the male penis size.unless times have really changed, I thought women in general weren't into watching porn as much as guys. if that's the case, their expectations are probably based more on what they or their friends have experienced. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thermonuclear Warrior Posted November 18, 2011 Author Report Share Posted November 18, 2011 I never really made that generalization, so I'm assuming it's equal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CantGiveItAway Posted November 20, 2011 Report Share Posted November 20, 2011 To me, porns portrayal of sex and masculinity is false and meaningless. Its interests is totally exaggerated and just plain inaccurate in my eyes at times. Im not someone against porn necessirily, but I do think it tries to prey on peoples anxieties and insecurities.There was a time when I was spending alot of time by myself, and I can see how I relied on porn in someway without even realizing it. Looking back, it wasnt a very healthy period for me. And I think it can be damaging and can lead to distorted perceptions, especially if its your only sexual outlet.It bothered me too that I hadnt been in a relationship in awhile, and I would tell myself that I didnt want to be some old person (my idiot thoughts was like late 20s early 30s at the time:D) just watching porn and not being in relationships. Because I didnt know when or if ever I was going to in a relationship, y'know. And it just didint feel right to be doing that.My advice would be to try and get away from porn if you can, especially if you feel like its a negative influence on your life. Its not a sex life, or should be the bases for a sex life in my opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merlin Posted November 20, 2011 Report Share Posted November 20, 2011 Porn is such a big load of crap. I'm addicted though, trying real hard to quit, sometimes I manage just fine without it, sometimes my sexual frustrations just get the better of me. All in all, my issue is becoming more and more contained, yet I really have to stay vigilant. Even though most male performers in porn are way bigger than me (in penis size, that is), it has not left me with any issues in that area. The way porn has damaged me is in my perception of women. It limits what I find arousing, whilst at the same time telling me that a normal sex life is not nearly exciting enough. Not that I have any at the moment, but porn has a tendency to make you push your boundaries even though you might not want it. It makes you curious, for things you wouldn't normally be curious about... I've seen some reaaaaally strange things... Anyways,.. yeah, in my opinion, porn is.. mostly crap... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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