Beyondreach Posted November 23, 2011 Report Share Posted November 23, 2011 Hello All,It has been a while since I last visited and posted here. Anxiety and depression will always be a part of my life, however, I think I do a decent job of managing it fairly well most days. Obviously some days are better than others...but thats just life.My conondrum in particular is between my wife and I. The last two years have been difficult at best. We've been together for 18 years and married for 11. We have two terrific kids 8 and 3. Our finances are good and everybody is healthy. Even though we are fortunate with finances and health, my wife and I seem to be drifting apart. We constantly bicker about the same old issues...over and over and over. It is trying on both of us...to boot the kids can recognize it too. We've been going to a marriage counselor over the last year and made some progress...but the progress we make always seems to revert back to the same as it ever was. Is this just a normal part of marriage? Do all married couples go through this? In addition to counseling...what else can we do? I don't want our marriage to be like this and do love her. One can only take so much until they raise the white flag. I sure wish I knew what to do. I am tired and feel like I don't have any more of myself to give.Thanks,Beyondreach Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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