JustTrying Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 MOM Keith is lying in a .. what do you call it state??? They have her on morphine.... I wish she would just die... Really not trying to be mean.. she WANTS to die.. she wants to be with her God and her husband..... still the fight goes on with my sisters... not fighting with me but with each other... let it go until mom is gone.. right???JT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Proverbs31:28 Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 I am sorry hon. The whole situation sounds heartbreaking. I am sorry she is suffering, you are suffering and that, in the midst of that suffering, her loved ones are misbehaving. I pray the suffering ends soon and Mom Keith can be at peace and rest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustTrying Posted November 21, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 21, 2008 Thank you... she is still hanging on I guess. No news is what it is. I wish I could be there. But I can't. I think I have come to peace with this.... And I am not going to be a go between for my sisters.... They have to handle it. I have talked to a friend and she tells me to let things just work out the way they will.. that I cannot change things.. and maybe she is right. Although sometimes what you say to a person may have an affect.... But I have to take care of myself. I have alot going on right now. Hubs, the kids, Mom, New Doc.. the dogs, etc.... But it will be ok....JT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WinterSky Posted November 21, 2008 Report Share Posted November 21, 2008 I am so sorry to hear about your mom, JT. I hope you find some sort of peace and comfort through these times. xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xenophon Posted November 21, 2008 Report Share Posted November 21, 2008 JT, it is difficult. But, you may have to let matters work out. I see no reason for you to get invoved with your sisters fight. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark Posted November 22, 2008 Report Share Posted November 22, 2008 JT - very sorry to hear that your mother has arrived at this point. At least with the medications she will not be in pain. That is no small comfort, I think. Fighting will be amplified at a time like this - it's easier to attack others than to sit with the helplessness. So just keep that in mind. IMHO, it will be better to not engage the fighting if you can avoid it - especially if it might trigger you to drink or something of that self-defeating nature. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustTrying Posted November 23, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 23, 2008 It is hard to just sit back and "let things Happen" I feel like I am loosing myself... that is what I do fix other people... Maybe not for real.. but I always thought I was!!!However I have been told that is part of my problem. That I worry too much about other people and not myself. And I end up all stressed out not sleeping etc..... SOOOO I am going to let it go... I have to... ThanksJT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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