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So although I am not depressed as others are about this situation, It has been affecting my life drastically and it's been interfering with my school and work. I've been losing sleep and I've lately been trying to make the effort to find a female with similar interests or find someone willing to have sex with me despite my lack of endowment. My testosterone levels are high and recently, I was rejected even in my dreams and now my mind has triumphed over my libido.

Let me re-state that I am between 4.75-5.00 inches in length and 4.5-4.75 inches in circumference. This is below average by most statistics. Seeing as most men with similar endowment are not nearly as aggressive as those with a superior set, sexually active women are simply not exposed to people on the lower end of the average at all. This is highly troublesome considering that my size is considered small in nearly all social circles. All of my friends are well in the average zone or higher and they are enjoying sex.

So now my main question to those under-endowed individuals is, where and how did you find your partner? I was going back and forth with an escort via email for a few days, but that escalated my depression even more. The thought of even being near an orifice that costs money is depressing. Also, a few hours worth would put a major dent in my bank balance..so escorts are definitely not an option. So I've created some craigslist ads and so far, I've only received spam. One of my ads is looking for a relationship while the other is sex related. I made my small penis a major point in the sex related ad in the event that there is some mentally damaged woman out there that for some reason would accept or prefer a small penis.

Sorry to pull a Jekyll and Hyde, but there are far more important things in life than my penis. I just really want to experience sex and relieve the empty void in my brain. When I'm not thinking about sex, I'm far more productive and enjoyable to be around. I really hate the importance sex has begun to play in my life, and wish I was a bio-engineered sexless being, I'd probably be time traveling by now.

But yeah most importantly, anyone with an actual relationship and a similar issue, please give me some input.

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I met most of my girlfriends online since women don't find me attractive and I can't really approach them.

At 4.25 inches I never heard a complaint or had anyone laugh at me, but I wondered why women didn't want to see me more than once or so.

My current girlfriend, after being pressured by me, said I was like 4th smallest out of 12-15 guys she's been with, but doesn't like to talk about it. Then I told her I can't be with her knowing that she's been pounded by a guy with a 7 or 8 inch penis. Then she got upset. She admitted that, all things equal, she would choose a 7" guy over a 4" guy and that it was a stupid question. I asked why she preferred it and she said "I don't know." And she said that "big penises are only in demand because it doesn't take much effort for a bigger guy to give pleasure." But she also said they're in demand because of the media. Then I said she just contradicted herself, and we fought some more. I don't think this relationship will last.

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I doubt she held up a ruler to any of them dude, and be glad you're in a relationship and are getting sex. She's stuck by you despite having all the other partners, so clearly you have desirable qualities that outweigh the small penis.

I have absolutely no female presence in my life, and I feel socially/physically impaired because of it

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A friend of mines wife fixed me up with a date with my now wife. I really didn't want anything to do with it (the date) but she kept bugging me about it. I finally told her 'Ok, if I go out with her one time will you let up on me?!' She agreed, I went out with my now wife. The rest is history.

John

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That's pretty convenient haha. Anyway, despite your lack of endowment, you conceived three normal children. That alone goes to show that penis size has no favor ability when it comes to procreation and from an evolutionary aspect, there is definitely no genetic favor ability of a larger penis. Gorillas have incredibly small penises and they are a pretty successful species. Anyway, I feel that you are evidence that manhood has nothing to do with penis size as long as your sperm count is high and your erection quality is high.

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That's pretty convenient haha. Anyway, despite your lack of endowment, you conceived three normal children. That alone goes to show that penis size has no favor ability when it comes to procreation and from an evolutionary aspect, there is definitely no genetic favor ability of a larger penis. Gorillas have incredibly small penises and they are a pretty successful species. Anyway, I feel that you are evidence that manhood has nothing to do with penis size as long as your sperm count is high and your erection quality is high.

Yeah, but really the issue's never really been procreation. The issue's pleasuring a woman.

I got into a heated discussion with a lady on a different forum. She finally said something along the line of well your penis does exactly what it's supposed to do, you've fathered three kids haven't you?

I replied "Look, a 13 year old boy who's in puberty can father a child. A criminal who's just savagely beat and raped you can father a child. Hell, a 20cc syringe filled with sperm from the local sperm bank can father a child. My penis is in fine company, isn't it? We're talking pleasuring your partner here, not making a baby."

She had to grant me the point, but would never admit that there was any difference between 4 inches and 8 inches in sex. Oh well........:)

John

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That's pretty convenient haha. Anyway, despite your lack of endowment, you conceived three normal children. That alone goes to show that penis size has no favor ability when it comes to procreation and from an evolutionary aspect, there is definitely no genetic favor ability of a larger penis. Gorillas have incredibly small penises and they are a pretty successful species. Anyway, I feel that you are evidence that manhood has nothing to do with penis size as long as your sperm count is high and your erection quality is high.

That has more to do with the social structure of gorilla harems since the females only mate with the dominant male. For more promiscuous species like chimpanzees or humans, the amount of sperm produced or the size of the penis, respectively does make a difference like I mentioned here:

http://community.mentalhelp.net/showpost.php?p=68883&postcount=27

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