malign Posted March 14, 2013 Report Share Posted March 14, 2013 And you're able to understand that you wouldn't understand. Not everybody has that level of self-awareness. At least you can credit that the impulse was good. Clearly, much worse could have been said, if the intention was to make things worse.And it's on that basis that we, the moderators, make judgment calls all the time, on this site. I can't tell you we're always right. But my preference is to let the community handle things, as much as possible, and it seems to me that you guys did that. You encountered a well-intentioned but unhelpful viewpoint, and you were able to stand up and say it wasn't helping and why. I don't see that as completely useless. I'm sorry for the discomfort that it may have caused. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newguy Posted April 8, 2013 Report Share Posted April 8, 2013 I hate the fact that I am sooooo super skinny I am like 1 inche thick that's what gets me down some girls are cool with a 4inch dick but its the thickness that is a deal breaker I have party sausage down a hallway syndrome I'm just to bloody skinny I have no thickness on my penis guys on here talk about being 4inches thick and want bigger what chance do I have small and super skinny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peppy4 Posted April 12, 2013 Report Share Posted April 12, 2013 I can fully understand your situation. For years I avoided urinals, open showers and felt that I could never satisfy a woman. I too have measurements of 4.75" erect. But after becoming sexually active I realised that I had absolutely no problem in satisfying a woman. True there are some women who prefer a larger penis, but they too encounter problems like PE. I am speaking from experience. I have slept with about 70 women and none of them have complained, in fact I have had a few who would willingly leave their endowed BF's for me. Now I have been married to a hot lady for 25 years. She had 3 kids when we met and an ex with a big member and we have had the greatest sex life. It is NOT about size or looks, I am no oil painting myself. The secret with real women, not bimbos is kindness, understanding, nurture, emotional understanding and confidence. When it comes to sex, a lot of women actually find a big penis painful. We cannot change our genetics, our looks or our height, but we can change our attitude and we can work on improving our performance in the bedroom. If a woman can get herself off with her finger, well........... I have personally brought up 2 very attractive girls and believe me they too have body image issues and insecurities. When we learn to address a woman's emotional needs first then we have one very turned on lady, who wants to make us happy. When this happens, size is a side issue. Luna- 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smallman Posted July 14, 2013 Report Share Posted July 14, 2013 I'm depressed, been drinking tonight and finding ways I can beat myself up. Googline about my lack of height and penis size are the top of my list as I get drunk every single night I'm not working.I've only had normal sex with one woman in my life, the rest I've paid for because women do not like me sexually as I'm short and a 30 year old riddled with acne. I'm 5ft6" tall with a 5.5" penis. the cock doesn't matter at all, it's the height. Actually it's even worse, I have this disease of the penis that means I can't ever satisfy a woman in principle.My weekends consist of me getting drunk, watching some violent pornography where some poor (cute looking!) woman cries over being choked by a >10" plus penis which she really does find attractive and giving money to women's causes due to guilt and self hatred at being turned on by crying women taking big dicks in their throat. The funny thing is whenever I get with a prostitute rather than abusing them all I do is want to cuddle the. They in turn hate it and want to be abused. What a fucked up cycle it is, rather than cuddle they want someone to ejaculate on their face while calling them disparaging names.It's completely natural for women to want taller men, just like I don't want a fatty or an ugly bird with saggy boobs. That's how things are, so you either get satisfied with whoever you can get lucky with or spend your life being depressed. I seem to have chosen the latter as fat women don't seem appealing and I'd rather die alone than be with a fat woman.I mean of course you can always be worse, cancer, quadtraplegic etc. But still I don't really have an argument of stopping you feeling crappy. Being small sucks and I too wish I was never born. I lift weights to try and make myself more attractive but my genes suck, i've been lifting for 5 years and still look pathetic. The penis condition also means I'll never be able to satisfy a woman. It would actually be nice if the condition were cancer and it'd just kill me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrOkay Posted August 25, 2013 Report Share Posted August 25, 2013 It makes me laugh when I read reports on the Internet that the average size of a penis is 6.5 inches. That size to me is like an elephant trunk!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
u.r.what.u.is Posted August 25, 2013 Report Share Posted August 25, 2013 Actually it's even worse, I have this disease of the penis that means I can't ever satisfy a woman in principle.I will grant that sever acne will mar your appearance, and a height of 5'6" limits your prospects certainly among the taller women. But what is the issue with your penis? Do you mean you are unable to get/maintain an erection, or is something else wrong? The size, as you said, is plenty! You have half an inch more than I do, and I have finally got it through my thick skull that five inches is good to go through life with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chengsta Posted October 1, 2013 Report Share Posted October 1, 2013 I can totally relate to the op. I've lived most of my life believing that a small penis doesn't mean a thing. Well, at some point you just have to stop and face the truth. 32 years later, the only sex I've ever had is with a prostitute who I pay to keep her mouth shut about my size. All the girls I've dated ran away as soon as I drop my pants (almost 3 inches hard). Some of them claimed that size didn't matter either, but they probably just said that not to hurt my feelings or something. More than just the curse of a small penis and shortness though, I've also got the curse of being asian. People pick on us all the time, even past highschool because we're just so much smaller--the same people won't pick on big black guys though. And from my experience, around the world, and in the military, I've learned to see it in peoples eyes. I can see the disappointment in peoples eyes every time my military buddies introduce me to their relatives or other friends. It's like "oh, he's an asian, yeah...I thought he was going to be a black or white military guy..." It's been roughly 5 years since I stopped attempting to even socialize. I just go to work, come home, and polish my rifle waiting for someone to break in. That's all I look forward to now. I also used to think of suicide alot while watching couples flirt so freely, showing off everywhere I go. It feels better just staying home so I won't see such things. Am I angry? Perhaps a long time ago I was. Now I am past that, I don't feel anything anymore, just mostly empty. With all that free time not dating and havnig fun, you have a lot of time to yourself, a lot of time to think (because that's what asians do haha). I realized though that no matter what happens, and how bad your life is, you can't blame other people. It is biological, it is nature, and most importantly, it is their choice of whether or not they want to be with you. We're just not just cut out for the game of life: Survival of the fittest. Surviving means having enough strength, intelligence, and luck to be successful. Not everyone has all 3, but alot of people can make up for not having one or the other, we have obviously failed in the luck department. We can try to make up for it though, with either strength or intelligence, but I suppose some strength and intelligence is also determined by luck: No matter how hard I work out, how good I treat my body, I'll never be as big/strong as some of my black buddies who I've trained to be monsters. That was a while ago though, when I thought I still had a chance. The only advice I can give to help is this: stop thinking about it. Find a hobby that will keep you busy, thinking about that stuff will only eat you alive. Maybe your hobby can even make you rich. It aint much, but that's all I got. Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted October 2, 2013 Report Share Posted October 2, 2013 I went out not long ago after a period of not being social.I saw couples kissing which pissed me off and lots of girls and a few guys making size references all night long.It depressed me for days.Shan't be going out for quite a while... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perseverance Posted October 2, 2013 Report Share Posted October 2, 2013 I went out not long ago after a period of not being social.I saw couples kissing which pissed me off and lots of girls and a few guys making size references all night long.It depressed me for days.Shan't be going out for quite a while...Where was this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wirelan Posted October 2, 2013 Report Share Posted October 2, 2013 Yeah, you guys could be a lot worse. You guys could be like me. Do you know what it is like to be mentally sick. Not have control of your own fucking mind. Have no control of your life. Be angry at everything and everyone. Be so vulnerable mentally that any mean bastard and especially bitch can tip you off into falling into a bottomless abyss. Do you know what it is like to try and wade through the labyrinth of thoughts in desperate search of what it is that is sucking you like a leech but not being able to. Do you fucking know what it is like to be totally fucking lost in yourself. I tell you, being pained is far more preferable to not knowing who you are, what you want, where you want to go, what you want to do. Not knowing the solution to what is bothering you. I fucking talk to myself on the bus. I curse people in public. I scream for no reason at all. I scare whole crowds of people with my outright hostility. Yeah, I am very smart, but I have no fucking control over my mind. I hate being me.And yeah, my room mate is fucking small. So small I can't seem to see where he is in his shorts. And he has a girlfriend. Sure they're not very passionate. But he buys her stuff and she stays with him. She would probably leave him for a bigger guy, but the guy is not in any kind of difficulty mentally. You guys need to start taking what's best in life including the company of women, who are the most beautiful and best thing under the sun. Go out with them, fuck them, kill them with your love and kindness. Hold them, hug them, kiss them, please them. Cherish every smile you get, take every opportunity to make them laugh. Enjoy your rejections too. We after all, don't want to live in a world without women right? It's our job to never let their feet touch the ground. So get up get going. Fuck it all. Just confidently walk up to them, step up real close, get a good look into their eyes, and they will love you. And they will accept your whole cock without question. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wirelan Posted October 2, 2013 Report Share Posted October 2, 2013 Where was this?It was in his imagination. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wirelan Posted October 2, 2013 Report Share Posted October 2, 2013 (edited) Lately I am noticing the crotch of women a LOT. I have as yet, mind you these are young girls, not seen a single one despite their long legs not one that I could not crush with my penis. I could end their conversation in a minute. <explicit fantasy removed> Edited October 2, 2013 by malign This is not the place for erotic writing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted October 2, 2013 Report Share Posted October 2, 2013 That doesn't seem like a very healthy preoccupation, for either you or them. It's also not something that we're going to discuss here.You complain about being unable to control your mind, but besides medication for some of the issues, what are you trying? It doesn't seem as if other people, such as the young women you mentioned, should have to suffer because of your problems. Are you willing to keep that from happening? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wirelan Posted October 2, 2013 Report Share Posted October 2, 2013 (edited) <explicit fantasy removed> Edited October 2, 2013 by malign Not the place for it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted October 2, 2013 Report Share Posted October 2, 2013 So you're talking about it instead of finding a girl who'll agree to do that for you?See, the problem is that it sounds far more like you're talking about a girl who doesn't agree, and that won't be tolerated.Despite your claims above, you do have impulse control or you'd already be under arrest. Please use it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wirelan Posted October 2, 2013 Report Share Posted October 2, 2013 Ok. I bow to your wisdom of years. Cheers, mate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted October 2, 2013 Report Share Posted October 2, 2013 Next time, I will be forced to ban you from the site for a period of three days, wirelan.You can fantasize all you want. What you will not be permitted to do is to post here about it. There may be places that will let you do that; this is not one of them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wirelan Posted October 2, 2013 Report Share Posted October 2, 2013 It makes me laugh when I read reports on the Internet that the average size of a penis is 6.5 inches. That size to me is like an elephant trunk!!Yeah, that actually reminds me of a joke.A guy is unsatisfied with the size of his dick. So he goes to a dick store. He asks to see a bigger dick. First the guy shows him a 6 inch dick. The guy says 'No, I want something bigger.' So he shows him an 8 inch dick. The guy says 'No, I want something still bigger.' So the store owner shows him a 10 inch dick. The guy says 'No, I want something still bigger.' So the store owner sighs, asks him to wait, goes all the way down into the basement, rummages through lots of stuff then comes back up holding this massive elephant trunk. The guy is so happy, he says 'I'll take it!' So he buys the dick and attaches it. A few days later the store calls him and asks him how his new dick is holding up. The guy says, 'It's fine. The only problem is that everytime I cross a park, it tears off a bunch of grass and shoves it up my ass.' .. Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted October 2, 2013 Report Share Posted October 2, 2013 Hopefully, the guy never shows it a bag of peanuts.Wirelan, are you okay? You seem jittery. I'm not talking about wanting to know the contents of your fantasies, but I guess I am curious about what might have triggered them, and whether you have any kind of support if you feel you're losing control. Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wirelan Posted October 2, 2013 Report Share Posted October 2, 2013 I am doing fine, thanks. Got lots of support. Thanks too.What triggered it was seeing a very very beautiful woman with really long and sexy legs but a wonderfully compact and tight and well kept crotch. I actually saw two women like that today. To me that's a dream come true. Seemed to me like those vaginas hadn't been so much as molested by a cock before.I hate to be so objective about it though. What I need is love and understanding. Sex will just make me more unsatisfied, more unfulfilled, more needy than before. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chengsta Posted October 3, 2013 Report Share Posted October 3, 2013 Go out with them, bleep them, kill them with your love and kindness. Hold them, hug them, kiss them, please them. Cherish every smile you get, take every opportunity to make them laugh.Believe me, I've tried for 25+ years to no avail. I would be fine with just being with a girl even if we don't have sex. Problem is, the only women that don't mind not having sex are lesbians and senior citizens. And like I said, they eventually wanna check my package, and that's when they usually end it. Then sometimes I have to move and get a new job because my friends turn against me just for my size. It seems like reasonable people are far and few in between. Nothing but bullies everywhere. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wirelan Posted October 3, 2013 Report Share Posted October 3, 2013 What's your size? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wirelan Posted October 3, 2013 Report Share Posted October 3, 2013 oh sorry no pictures Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chengsta Posted October 3, 2013 Report Share Posted October 3, 2013 3" hard on a good day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wirelan Posted October 4, 2013 Report Share Posted October 4, 2013 ok. is that a serious statement or are you a troll? that size is highly rare. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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