Hi AP,

I know that it is your blog and you can write whatever you want, but it seems like you think of all women as objects of sexual pleasures and whores and it is Very offensive.

No hurt feelings, I hope.

Take care.

Hi AP' date='

I know that it is your blog and you can write whatever you want, but it seems like you think of all women as objects of sexual pleasures and whores and it is Very offensive.

No hurt feelings, I hope.

Take care.[/quote']

I think you got up on the wrong side of the bed this morning Lana. I DO NOT think of all women as objects of sexual pleasure and whores. I think more highly of women than I do men. What I'm trying to say is that a woman can get just any guy to do anything she wants by showing skin. I'm also pointing out how easily women can get laid over men. Doesn't matter how fugly a woman is, she still doesn't have any problems getting laid. I'm also pointing out how much guys wanna get laid.

Maybe it would help to consider sex as being more than "getting laid?" What about caring for the person you're with? Just a thought...

Maybe it would help to consider sex as being more than "getting laid?" What about caring for the person you're with? Just a thought...

I hope you realize that I'm speaking negatively of guys. To me, sex is more than just getting laid. Read some of my posts if you don't believe me.

You did kinda say that women can (and implied that they do) get whatever they want using sex. Possibly you were just expressing your own willingness, but you have to remember that at least half of your audience are women. From their point of view, your point (the title, even) wasn't about guys, it was about a particular body part of women.

If you were trying to say that most guys think with the smaller head, there'd be no need to talk about women at all.

Was there a particular incident that brought this observation to your mind?

You did kinda say that women can (and implied that they do) get whatever they want using sex. Possibly you were just expressing your own willingness' date=' but you have to remember that at least half of your audience are women. From their point of view, your point (the title, even) wasn't about guys, it was about a particular body part of women.

If you were trying to say that most guys think with the smaller head, there'd be no need to talk about women at all.

Was there a particular incident that brought this observation to your mind?[/quote']

I'm talking about the women that I've personally met over the years. This post isn't directed at any female here or most of the female population in general. Any woman infact can. Some do and some don't. I'm just saying that wome have an edge over most men.

Every guy thinks with the head between his legs. That's just a part of the male psychology. Even I do but I just don't let it get the better of me.

There's several incidents that come to mind. My Egg Donor has done it with quite a few guys. It ended up costing my 4th stepfather his life. My Egg Donor used her rotten crotch to take him for everything he was worth and that drove him to drink himself to death. His ashes are resting in the Septic Tank now.

AP, understandably you are upset and angry because of your past. I'm sorry about your stepfather.

In the same respect, I'm not sure it's fair to generalize, though. All men are not the same and all women are not the same. Maybe it would help to talk more specifically about your feelings and how this has affected you in your life?

I'm not sorry for that Douche Turd. He's just one of nearly 150 people on my shit list.

I'd say nearly 90% of straight men jump to the chance to dip their stick into any wet hole. Women generally have better morals and I'd 50% use "Pussy Power" when they want something.

The thing is though, AP, there are several contradictions in your description of this.

If men in general are disloyal and will sleep with any woman they can, how does the woman get any power? In fact, there's only power if the man is loyal.

Too, despite saying that women have better morals, what you're describing is one gender that abuses its power and another gender who are stupid victims. You can see how the gender that you're calling abusive or manipulative might object to that description.

On the other hand, you describe the fact (that I agree with) that men don't have to let sex "get the better of" them; we have choices. In fact, your stepfather's behavior was his choice; no one can drive a person to drink.

Maybe I can reverse the question: in your opinion, what do men do when they want something?

I get the feeling what I'm talking about isn't sinking into your brains any.

1. I'm talking about easily women can get laid regardless of their appearance, or attitude.

2. I'm making fun of men since most are immoral and won't pass up a pussy no matter how nasty it looks.

As for your question malign, define what you mean by "something".

Well ... you did say more than just that women can get laid easily and that men are sexual dupes. There was definitely the extra point that women deliberately use those facts to get "stuff", presumably besides just sex.

Maybe it's not that your point isn't sinking in; maybe you're just not getting the agreement you were expecting. Or the flame war.

I was trying to find out if you thought there was any balance point in your perceived power struggle. What power do men have, if any?

Men ARE hardwired for sex. That's just a part of who we are. Whether or not a man has the self control to keep from whipping it out for every wet hole is another issue. From what I've seen in society, most lack that self control.

The purpose of this post is to poke fun of men. NOT FOR EVERYBODY TO AGREE WITH ME. NOT FOR A FLAME WAR EITHER.

Men have Intimidation over women. Men who intimidate women to get what they want are cowards and have ZERO control over their lives.

Okay, AP, I believe you. I would rather not have an argument, either, so I think that's good.

I think that both sexes have some hardwiring that's intended for sex.

I would change the emphasis of what you wrote, though:

"That's just a part of who we are."

I agree that people without self-control are likely to make their own problems worse. Whether or not you make fun of them kinda says more about your self-control, though, doesn't it? Why not just leave them to figure out how they're hurting themselves?

And I agree that men certainly could intimidate women, but I agree with you that that's not much of a way of life. What's interesting is that you're mostly discussing ways for people to make their lives worse. Would it make sense to go more into what would make one's life better?

I agree that some women are proper grade A Nymphomaniacs because there's been a couple of that lived in the Complex that I do. However men do out number women almost 7-1.

Why leave men to figure out that they're hurting themselves, they're too stupid to even start to figure out why. Then there's the whole "I can do it better than you" thing that was a part of my childhood years.

But you seem to be missing the point of our whole site here: self-improvement and supporting others in their struggles.

Well okay: you're not the only one missing that point, at times. But in the end, it works better when we talk about ourselves, when we talk about making things better, and when we talk to others to support their efforts to make things better.

I'm sorry that your childhood years seem to have been filled with idiots. We don't get to choose who we're born to or who raises us (and they're sometimes different groups.) But, once we're grown, we get to choose what direction we want our lives to go. It may be the one power that every person has equally, the power to choose.