Day 1
So this is it. DAY 1 smoke free, tonight, 9:00pm.
Wish me strength.
What I know:
1] the pangs are going to be at about 3-4 cravings from day 1 to day 3 [1 to 72 hours]
2] They are going to be at their climax at day3-4 with probably 6 cravings a day, lasting from 5 to 30 minutes, so I am going to think about this most of the day and night!
3] At day 5, the cravings are going to go down to 3 a day
4] At day 7, they are going to be 1-2 a day
5] At day 10, one a day, this is the end of what they call 'hell week'
6] At day 15, it will only be mostly a mental craving to guard against, with maybe 1 physical craving a day
7] At day 21, the physical cravings will be gone. It will mental
6] After day 21, I will have a new routine. But will have to remind myself of the WHYs I did this.
7] Quitters may go back to their smoking habits within 1 to 3 months. Because they forget they think they are free. But addiction is a path that is created in your brain that faints, but does not disappear, as I unfortunately found out.
8] If you are a quitter, you are a quitter for life, meaning, stay on your toes!
'in absolutely no circumstance, not one puff ever'
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Knowing about the 21 days makes it manageable for me. So I will pledge for 21 days, here, or on the other site, at least!
OTHER THINGS that help that I have change this time around, or things that I have learned that worked on my first try:
-tell my friends and family, find supporters, people you feel are positive about this and do not blame you [new]
-stay away, or, very aware of the 'pushers', detractors, and downers, I know who they are now, they are dangerous to me, even if they are good friends, so I stay away for at least 21 days [new]
-find a healthy replacement [the Pavlov response]: when I first succeeded, I remember that every time I wanted to smoke, I took a sip of water. Just a little mental trick. I am using this again
-lean into the craving, feel it, relax. I remember doing this, and I am doing it again
-Aversion response. When I was successful, I put a very big emphasis on this. It was 90% the reason of my success. I will use it again but with a new twist. At that time, I was aware that I functioned mostly out of FEAR and negative reinforcement in most of what I did and the goals I set for myself. I visualized how gross smoking was, in all aspect, made myself sick smoking, repeated to myself how disgusting smokers were... I didn't know at the time that I was feeding into my anxiety, and it could be dangerous: Recently, this only worked to make me feel more hopeless, so I will use this wisely this time around. > I will still feel how bad it smells, but mostly concentrate on how good I feel about being healthy.
-stay away or aware of triggers: being around smokers, drinking soften the resolve. Feeling bored. Feeling down and lonely. Feeling distracted [forgetting resolve]. Giving into the gremlins in my head [just one...NO!] [new]
-Quick affirmations: Not one puff ever, absolutely, under any circumstances.
Also, think of H.A.L.T.
are you hungry?, angry? Lonely? Tired? take steps to remediate to these [new]
-Reminders on fridge and into a journal [new]
-21 day goal: this means I know what I am up against. I feel that this is a challenge that is very doable, day by day [new]
-replace time smoking with time doing something else: for me, the best avenue, is to combine with physical activity. again, 21 days of making myself utterly busy and satisfied. I am very aware that I tend to get discouraged, especially when I will realize how much physical health I have lost to this addiction, especially if I get injured overdoing it! So, the only goal right now is to just go outside at least for 30min a day, no checking on improvement, just walking. After the 21 days, I will add the goals I long for.
-No drinking, less coffees >to keep my resolve on top of mind, stay away from triggers. This will be hard, because I see drinking a beer and drinking coffee with friends as a reward and that I have to have one when friends invite me. But I know it is only for 21 days [for now]. Set on smaller goals. I also know that it's not a huge deal to not drink these. It will save me money too. [new]
-for now 21 days, no hold bar on eating or no focus on losing weight. Priority first, focusing on staying quit! After, I will add my goal.
-goodies. I am allowed to chew gum. I did that before. I am allowed to drink fruit juice, virgin bloody maries, ice teas, I am allowed to eat a lot. I don't care about that so much. So be it!
-rewards! I have a budget of 40$ a week now! That's quite a bit. I see new clothes, haircut, books, bubble baths, gym memberships...
- clearing away all reminders > wash clothes, get rid of all old packets, lighters, matches, ash trays.
well, this is it.
I'm doing it!
Peace and blessings
T
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