Griz

As another part of the reason this thread got posted, I feel like I should explain myself as well. For one, never ever would I want to offend anyone or try to make a plight for anyone. My issues are mental, 100%. Ever since the early part of my teenage years, I had assumed I was small. I never sought finding averages because I didn’t want to be disappointed. I am shorter height for a guy(5’6) so I assumed that meant having a small penis came along with it. My parents never gave us kids “the talk” but just gave us a letter saying there were books to go look at if we were to have any questions. I was a late bloomer to everything sexually. Masturbation, I didn’t start till I was 15, and that was by accident. I didn’t lose my virginity till 22. Had a blowjob at like 19 I think. From my sort of “gf” I guess you could say. After we broke up, she told a mutual friend of ours at the time that I was small. I’ve had numerous times that I was told I was small, just based on my height and without them even seeing my penis. So, even though I can read the tape measure, I still manifest in my head I’m not big enough. I’ve gone to therapy for it. I’ve tried talking about it with a couple friends and my current gf. I stopped with my gf cause she got annoyed of how obsessive I was about it always. This place I figured I could get things out cause maybe people would understand. And I’m sure you guys do get it. But maybe I don’t belong here. If I have caused anyone any discomfort it honestly wasn’t my intention. I know you are all trying to help one another and have talked with me as I have tried to fit in.

I usually say I live in Vancouver, BC. Even though I live in the greater Vancouver area. In a place called New Westminster.

Also @Sea182018, when my gf and I got the set of cock rings at the sex show back in Feb, I love wearing them. Makes me personally feel bigger. I want her to measure to see if maybe I got a little bit of girth lol.

Hey man, @lostboy1, you aren’t minimizing anything. Always feel free to talk. Everyone here feels inadequate. For everyone there is the mental aspect of things, as you said. If you ever want to private talk, more then welcome to message me 😊

I’d be interested!

Glad you were able to get a victory within yourself. Your girth is within the average I believe. 4.5 is a good girth. I have struggled with thinking I’m big enough since I was a teenager. And even knowing I am a good size(5.5 length and 5.5 girth). I get it dude.

Dude yes!! Stick with that!! I’ve always remembered any girl that had complimented my girth and/size. I have obsessed with being big enough for years. My now ex wife made a comment when she lied about how many guys she had slept with when we first started sleeping together. I try to think that she was being truthful even then. Lol

It’s true, it probably would be over for a few years. And I would be happy with it. I personally don’t like sex. It’s sort of boring for me. Until we started putting on the cock ring. Makes me feel bigger

It happens to me quite regularly Sea. And I have a pretty decent size(even though I still think otherwise most of the time). My gf likes just having sex with me. And especially since we are trying for a kid, she only cares if I finish now lol.

So I recently purchased a few cock rings. Would anyone want me to post results from each one put on? There are 3 sizes. If Not publically, anyone privately want to know results?

That’s a great length man. I don’t mind being a grower, but as I said before, I’d love a bigger flaccid state for a better bulge. 5 inches would be awesome to have in a flaccid state. But I’d still want to grow lol. I like the element of surprise lol

I feel the same way @itsSmaller, when I was married, my wife was a smoke show, all my friends couldn’t believe i got her to even go out with me, and marry me. But we have since divorced and the gf I’m with now, she’s great for me, but the level of attraction I had with my ex wife just isn’t there. She’s a good looking girl, don’t get me wrong, but I have now found myself to be more picky when I see women that I am physically attracted to. Most of my friends say a girl is hot and I’m like “meh”

Yeah man, I hear ya @itsSmaller, I go through days where I really like my penis, then others I wish I had a different or bigger one

@itsSmaller I can tell you that anyone is welcome here. The people here have welcomed me in here and I’m a good size. I struggle with thinking I’m small and inadequate. Even though I know I’m good enough. If that makes any sense.

So, when I was married, my buddy and I used to go for wing Wednesday every week. We had been going for a while and then he mentioned that a friend of his was coming with us, which I said fine, it ended up being a really good looking girl. And because I had a wife, I didn’t care and just talked to her normally. We got along great. We talked mostly instant of her and then buddy. The next day at work, he said that she had told him that if I didn’t have a wife that she would totally go on a date with me. She loved how normal I was. I tell that story because could it have been that subconsciously you knew you have a great girl with you right now, so therefore you could actually be yourself around her? I had never been good with chicks that I had liked before, but because I wasn’t thinking about trying to impress her, I didn’t care.