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So obviously there are guys out there that are getting real action even though they are in the small to micro range. These guys are used by many to show small guys who aren't getting any to say "look, you see? He's getting some, you can too. It's all in your head."

 

The thing is I think those small guys who are enjoying great sex lives are average in other areas of their lives. When you're confident in some areas of your life it's easier to tackle those other areas that need attention. So even though it may be challenging for them to put themselves out there, it's a bearable challenge. If you have too many things going against you, they can tend to be very overwhelming to the point of seeming useless to even consider dealing with them, because even after dealing with your own nonsense you'll still have to deal with the potential rejection of having a small Dick.

I'm doing things in my life now that make me happy. I do just fine on my own and my music but I'm not getting any closer to becoming an average guy. Just a happier idiot. I went to a social gathering with some cousins of mine yesterday and I noticed just how little I've changed. All my cousins do well socially but me, not so much. It was unbearable being around them and seeing how confident and happy they are with themselves while I stewed in my own insecurities. 

 

I think some of us are just here for the fuck of it. Nothing to add to the world but to pay taxes and make rich people richer. That's basically how I feel right now. 

 

So I don't think I'll put myself out there at all. Sex doesn't even seem like the ultimate pleasure I once thought it to be. I've lost interest in most things about life. One of my girl cousins was talking about how she is going to conquer the world and be rich and she wants me to be a part of it. She's excited about life. She's happy and confident. She's a beautiful and intelligent above average girl. I used to have that ambition too, i wanted to conquer the world but now...pfft! Fuck it. It's just me, myself and my music.

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I guess you can say I am a small penis success story to a certain extent.  I am very fortunate to have come of age mainly in the 1970's where penis size was not often discussed if ever.  You just didn't hear girls of the day talking about their absolute pathetic date with the small dick as I have heard female coworkers do in modern times.  After puberty it's like my dick didn't fucking grow.  I got hair and the voice but the dick...Nope.  Anyway, while I knew my dick was in the bottom percentile, I still had girlfriends and got laid.  I don't know if girls back then didn't know any better or what.    After H.S. graduation I started somehow dating the woman who is now my wife of 26 years.  We have always had a great sex life and she has never complained.  

Now this does seem like a success story but really it's not.  Sure I found a gal, but now in this modern age of penis size shamming, my days are filled with the anxiety of my marriage ending and my days of sex with women being completely over.  My marriage has been very rocky late and while I hope it hangs on for the long haul, I certainly can't depend on that.  Hell my wife may be thinking right now..."I think it's about time to find a real man with a real cock."   I know if we ever break up.  My days of sex with women will end.  Period.  I would be too embarrassed to get a hooker.

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Oh and one ironic footnote to the story of my youth.  When you are growing up you see your best friend naked a time or two and of course during those puberty years I watched my best friend's cock grow to a size that would have looked right at home in a porn movie yet in our youth he never got laid.

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6 hours ago, TimmyStan1967 said:

I guess you can say I am a small penis success story to a certain extent.  I am very fortunate to have come of age mainly in the 1970's where penis size was not often discussed if ever.  You just didn't hear girls of the day talking about their absolute pathetic date with the small dick as I have heard female coworkers do in modern times.  After puberty it's like my dick didn't fucking grow.  I got hair and the voice but the dick...Nope.  Anyway, while I knew my dick was in the bottom percentile, I still had girlfriends and got laid.  I don't know if girls back then didn't know any better or what.    After H.S. graduation I started somehow dating the woman who is now my wife of 26 years.  We have always had a great sex life and she has never complained.  

Now this does seem like a success story but really it's not.  Sure I found a gal, but now in this modern age of penis size shamming, my days are filled with the anxiety of my marriage ending and my days of sex with women being completely over.  My marriage has been very rocky late and while I hope it hangs on for the long haul, I certainly can't depend on that.  Hell my wife may be thinking right now..."I think it's about time to find a real man with a real cock."   I know if we ever break up.  My days of sex with women will end.  Period.  I would be too embarrassed to get a hooker.

has your wife ever said or hinted anything about her being unsatisfied? If yes, I suggest you communicate with her to find out what she wants, and if it's really just a bigger dick, you could try "marital aids". 26 years of (presumably) love are worth the hit to your ego. If no, or if she's unsatisfied because the spark is gone(the mind is the biggest sex organ, especially for women), then I think your penis size anxiety is self-fulfilling. Maybe focus on her pleasure more, and communicating better can always help.

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Timmy, I was married - without prior experience - and I shared some of your anxiety.  I ultimately did get divorced,  and I just decided not to be cautious about this issue, and i entered the dating scene as if I was just another divorced guy.  Everything worked out fine,  I was surprised.  In fact the sex is way better than when I was married (SPS probably helped me pick the wrong spouse honestly) and I have now all but forgotten my penis anxiety, except that I'm so small when flaccid that I get a bit nervous in locker rooms. 

To address something T. B. Dick said,  I am average or better in some other ways,  like overall physique, and that helps a lot.   Also, my erect weiner probably qualifies as smallish-medium, or something like that. I.e., something like 5x5...

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U.R.WHAT.U.IS  I almost feel like you are just making your whole post up....Someone with a small dick divorces and happily starts dating again.  You say you get nervous in locker rooms?  Those of us with the true tiny soft cocks of the world would not walk naked in a locker room if a $5,000 check was waiting for us at the end of the day.  That's the other half of our issues.  One is being afraid of a woman's torment and two the horrors of other men seeing how pathetic we are.

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Timmy, I would not prance around a locker room naked either.  On the rare occasion that I am changing in front of strangers,  I either face away from prying eyes,  or keep a towel around my waist.   I'm not nearly so confident that I can let my shrinky-dink fly in public.  But that's a minor issue; my self-image regarding women is good, and that was only able to happen because of post-divorce dating.  

I still feel some of that envy I've always had when I see the dudes with decent sized flaccid dongs in the locker room.  But now that I am in the game, so to speak,  with women, I can live with the lesser SPS issue.  In fact, my GF is sympathetic.  She doesn't like her own body that much,  and she says  that if she was a guy she'd hate having such a small flaccid dick.  

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On 6/11/2016 at 8:28 AM, (_please delete account_) said:

Anyway, with that caveat and for whatever it's worth, I can second what  @u.r.what.u.is said: I'm about the same erect size as he is  (a little over 5 inches long and 5 inches girth) and nobody has ever told me that I was too small. Never in my life.

Same here, but due to my own insecurities, for decades, I severely limited my chances to ever be told I was too small.  In recent years, it has only taken a few good experiences to set me on the positive path.  If I'd been rejected over penis size, I'd probably be singing a different tune.

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On 11/06/2016 at 1:21 PM, TimmyStan1967 said:

Those of us with the true tiny soft cocks of the world would not walk naked in a locker room if a $5,000 check was waiting for us at the end of the day. 

If never walk in a locker room naked. But for £5000, I'd do it in a heartbeat. I can get a new car with that ? ☮

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Hey im a guy with a small dick. Its effected pretty much every part of my life. Its sonething i think about every day. I can never have some of the esperiances i would love to have (like skinny dipping)  

Having said that i thimk i have had one of the most active sex lives of all my friends. Girls have always liked me so i just make my lil dick work. Are they disapointed when they first see it? I imagine so. Still it has not stopped me from getting laid. 

Online dating has espevially helped. This is because it takes off some of the pressure of them saying something to the people you know because they have no real connwction to your social life. They kinda just disapear from your life.

Anyways my point is ive had some pretty amazing sexual experiances. Just do it. Get good at eating pussy. Yea i know its not exactly the same but if you make sure she cums that way after it really makes a diffrence. 

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On 6/19/2019 at 8:37 AM, Bornthisqay said:

my point is ive had some pretty amazing sexual experiances. Just do it. Get good at eating pussy. Yea i know its not exactly the same but if you make sure she cums that way after it really makes a diffrence. 

I think i would have discovered the same thing if I didn't meet my current wife so soon, which (happily) ended my brief time of meeting new women and letting things happen.   Some of us here are, or have been, trapped psychologically more than anything.  Getting some much needed new (or first) experience can go a long way to helping, but it requires that you at least temporarily "fool yourself" and assert that your dick will be good enough for your partner. Because, it just might be true!  And you are right about the value if eating pussy (regardless of your size)...  I do not find it to be a chore at all. :)

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