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So this is the first time I've ever openly said i have a small penis. I think its a micro penis because it is between 3-4 inches and probably a girth of 2 inches. Now im not a virgin infact i've had sex with 3 girls in my life. However, that was in Highschool and now i've moved to a new city and am about to turn 20 and this small penis issue has really become a problem for me. In Highschool i was never shy or scared of girls bt however now I feel like college is a new world, one in which i dont measure up. Its gotten bad to the point i dont go any where but school, work, and Publix. I dont know what to do because no matter how much i wanna get out there and meet a girl i know eventually sex will come up and then i feel like i cant help but dissappoint and this makes me feel like im destine to live forever alone. I need some advice because i wanna turn 20 with a new view on life..i dont want something i have no control over to have control over me. What should i do?

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My 2 cents Young is that you are going to have to accept yourself for who you are and accept that some others will not.  

Life is too short and too precious to waste too much time on things we can't control at all.  Enjoy college my friend because when you get out and start working full time day after day year after year you are going to wish you were back on campus.  

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  • 3 weeks later...

Are you sure you're measuring your girth properly? Make sure you measure right around the cock, not just across. You've got more experience at this point than must guys will ever have their whole life. So use that and go out and get one under your belt (no pun intended). Otherwise, it'll eat you alive. Confidence is 80% of the battle. Good luck, brother. ☮

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Funny I came of age in the late 70's and early 80's and penis shamming wasn't really the thing back then and with my 4.5 inch erect cock I managed to have several sexual relationships and hooked with my wife and partner of a total of over 35 years.  I got so lucky.  Now my marriage is laced with constant fear of ending and me being out there in the dating scene.  In this day and age I know I would be fucked.

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On 11/15/2016 at 7:07 AM, TimmyStan1967 said:

 In this day and age I know I would be fucked.

Ok, now I get where you're coming from with the fear of dating now, versus decades ago.  Lots of things have changed, but I don't know if you'd be out of luck.  I suspect porn has affected men's minds more than anything.  I dunno, I did just fine after divorce, so I'm optimistic. 

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