Fedup Posted January 27, 2011 Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 "Stop making this about your dick size and realize that who you are plays a part in getting women. We had a guy in high school whose penis was deformed at birth (he said it was only 1 1/2 inches) and he had such a great attitude about life that women wanted to be with him. You are more than your dick, if not, you are a dick. Grow up and realize there are women out their who will love you and want to be with you if you have character and confidence."Now I have to admit that I am a negative character when it comes to life. I procrastinate a lot and generally have the feeling "I can't do that" rather than having a go at learning and laughing it off if it turns out I am hopeless. I'm almost certain it is our attitudes preventing us getting women. We are all insecure about our penis's and insecurity is the biggest turn off for women. I'm not going to spend as much time on this forum from now on because I can get caught up in the negativity. I need to be positive or I'm not getting anywhere with women or in life. I hope to come back and tell you about a changed mindset and a much more successful person in life and with women. As the quote says at the beginning "Your dick doesn't define you and if it does YOU ARE THE DICK."Peace out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luna- Posted January 28, 2011 Report Share Posted January 28, 2011 This is an awesome post! Hats off to you. I wish you happiness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samesame Posted January 28, 2011 Report Share Posted January 28, 2011 good luck. the negativity on here is what eventually drove me from here, all of us bleating on about the same stuff, and not getting anywhere. Bring me solutions, not problems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted January 28, 2011 Report Share Posted January 28, 2011 It is good advice. And there are definitely pockets of negativity on here; it's a function of people who are still suffering.Can I suggest that you might find pockets of positivity, as well? You could consider reading and maybe even replying to posts outside of the particular forum that brought you here. We're all humans, and struggling against various sorts of negativity. It's possible that we might all benefit by sharing the ones we've beaten, as well as the ones that continue to drag on us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fedup Posted January 30, 2011 Author Report Share Posted January 30, 2011 It is good advice. And there are definitely pockets of negativity on here; it's a function of people who are still suffering.Can I suggest that you might find pockets of positivity, as well? You could consider reading and maybe even replying to posts outside of the particular forum that brought you here. We're all humans, and struggling against various sorts of negativity. It's possible that we might all benefit by sharing the ones we've beaten, as well as the ones that continue to drag on us.I haven't got over anything yet to be able to share my experience. I intend on trying to get over my problem and coming back here to share my positive experience. I'm talking to a woman online now but the thought of meeting her is still nerve racking for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Athena Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 Fedup,Positive thinking - Sounds like you've already made some progress. I wish you the best! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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