humbem Posted December 16, 2011 Report Share Posted December 16, 2011 I was reading other posts about this, and wanted to reply directly to ask a question/chime in, but I'm stuck with this "new members" forum. I'm 30 years old and recently found an AWESOME girlfriend. We've been together for 2 months and it's been great. We have everything in common and I think we can both sit around doing nothing and still be happy together. That said, my penis is pretty pathetic measuring in at 4-1/2 inches long and 4-1/2 inches around (the small girth is the most troubling). I'm a very athletic person and would consider myself quite attractive despite the penis issue. Anyway, long story short, we finally had sex last week and I didn't feel much of anything. I'm guessing the experience was mutually bland for her. I was able to get her hot and bothered with my fingers before the act (though I'm thinking she didn't get off), and she's still talking to me, so I think there's hope that it may last for at least a bit longer. In my experience, however, most women will just move on (I've been laughed at before). I've had sex with one other girl when I was 24, and that wasn't so bad because she had a very tight vagina. The current girlfriend has a much larger vagina. I'm not sure we work well together physically, which sucks. Anyway, the realization of her large vagina has me ridiculously depressed because I'm pretty sure we won't work and I REALLY like this girl. She's perfect Any other "small" dudes have advice on being confident despite lacking in the penis department? I haven't been able to focus on anything all week and am dreading the next time we have sex because I fear it could be the last. Also of note, my work is suffering and I've dropped 10 pounds due to anxiety. I like this girl so much that it's killing me to know that something out of our control could derail such a great relationship. HELP!!! PLEASE!!! malign 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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