EricDavis2 Posted February 14, 2012 Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 My embarrassment, shame, insecurities and feelings of inadequacy that I've felt over the years due to having a small penis has gotten me to a point where I feel it's a hopeless situation for me.I'm in my mid-50's with no girlfriend. Doesn't sound so bad, right? Well, I've only had 3 women in my life - and had sex with only one of them. One was a virgin, and one I only dated 4 or 5 times and never had the nerve to initiate sex with her either. She left me with no warning or reason but I have a good idea that my lack of aggression sexually was the culprit (although I don't know for sure since she didn't have the decency to give me a clue what went wrong).Those of you out there that are a lot younger than me and have Small Penis Syndrome, please go see a psychologist to get help. Don't let any more years pass. If you do, you'll end up like me - alone, ashamed, and mentally broken.I tried a psychologist once, and it didn't help since I couldn't get past my fears. When I tried to apply some good advice by the counselor, I immediately felt too overwhelmed and gave up. But just because my experience was not a success, yours might be. It's worth a shot, because you need someone to give you a different perspective on your life so you can try to help yourself.It's too late for me. I've beaten myself up so badly about my situation, it's just too daunting of a task at this point. It's pathetic. I cry myself to sleep most nights. I feel inferior to just about every other man out there. It kills me to see other couples in love. I can't go to anyone's wedding because I get terribly depressed during and after them. I can only get the nerve to flirt with someone when I feel there is no chance of sex with them. When there's a person I do want to get intimate with, I freeze up, go into a shell. The thought of that person discovering my small penis stops me in my tracks.I'm not one of those guys who THINKS they have a small penis but don't. I've been around enough to know that mine is decidedly below average. When flaccid, it doesn't even protrude, and when erect, it's 3 1/2 inches long at best.GET HELP! PLEASE! Don't end up like me. I'm not suicidal, but deep inside I'm a very, very sad person even though I try to hide it. The years will pile up before you know it. I don't wish my lost soul even on my worst enemy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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