dvnJ22 Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 My situation is complicated - you see I live with my dad and he is also would be my ride to a potential job. I can't drive his car, becuase it's a company car. He wont help me get a bus pass, so I have to rely on him for a ride. I've already have had to turn down three really good jobs offers becuase my Father refused to take me. I am so grateful for my Father, but I'm frustrated -- I don't think he wants me to grow up. After my Mother left us, he's been really lonely and clingy to me and my sisters. He also thinks that because I have depression it makes me incompetent, he keeps pushing me to try to get disablity, but I keep telling him "I'm not disabled!" I really don't know what to do, but just wait and find a job that is really close by and fits his schedule. I've tried talking to him about it, but he always shut me down or yells at me. I don't want to live with my father for the rest of my life. beatsnmovfr 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrmaJean Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 That sounds distressful, dvn. I can understand how not working could get you down after a while. I'm sorry your dad seems unavailable to talk to. Do you have any other family members or friends who could drive you to work? Are you able to get support from your sisters? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted January 25, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 My oldest sister lives to far away and my other sister is in the same situation as me. So right now I'm just trying to work with what I got. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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